Friday, February 25, 2011

subhkamnayein...pradushanrahit jivan,vaatavaran,samaj mein jeene ke liye!!!!....aacchi khabron ki shuruaat aab kareinge per burri per bhi nazar rakhei

Acche khabrein/achievements mein aurr joddeinge aur kamiyon mein burrii khabron per dhyaan rakheinge aur sudhaar kareinge!!!


jabtak aap kiissii khabar ke peecche "campaign" ki tarah aggressivly followup nahin kareinge....woh "create nahin hogi","na hi log usse notice karenge".aissa advertising mein hota hai.aap create karte hein,phir vyakti ya product ko sustain swayaam aapne aap karna hota hai. isse bbom ya hype ya laher ya hawa bhi kahtein hein.

per news mein aaissa karte waqt source ki authenticity aur proof ka khayaal rakhna chahiye taaki aapki credibilty baani rahe aur galat khaabar se kiisii ke maan saamman ko thedsh na pahunchee!!!one should must show the pros n con..all the sides,if the news has not reached to the conclusion and they are speculation....say,"aissi sambhavnayein ho sakti hein".

Thursday, February 24, 2011

Ek -Prayaas.....Umeed hai aap saabko swikaarya aur uske peeche ki mehnat ka ahsaas bhan aur mahatv samajh aaiyega....vibha!!

Hazaroon logon ki tarah,mein bhi blog mein likhtein hoon.

Agar aap log eisse 'koi Kam' mante hein,

Toooo isse sammanpurvak acknowledge gharwalon

or baharwalon ko karna hoga,mujhe yakeen hai aissa bhavishya mein hooga.

Aur phir yah aandaaza hoga ki itne salon se mein pahle jo bhi kah rahithi

ya yahaan likh rahin hoon, wah koi Sahityik,ya vidhvttapurn batein hein ya nahin

Mere original aanubhav or comment,views ke allawa,

news clippings 'ka saath' authenticity ke liye usmein 'doondh-2' ker jodda gaya hai

yeh sambhavta fiction/tv ads/news/films etc,

mein bhi kissi bhanti 'tabbdeel'hua hai...!!!

Aagar yeh satya aur swikarya hai,

Tooo sabko manna hoga ki mein-

"Itnii 'mehnat' fizuul mein naheen kar rahin hoon'"

...yeh samaj aur desh ke khilaaf bhi nahen hai,buss samajhnein ki zaroorat hai.

Youvaon ke prati samvedna aur todhi dheel jisse coolness kahtein hein issliye tha ki

pitne-peetne,honour killing aadi ki ghatnaiyein samaj mein badhti jaa rahin hein,

jaisa ki tv news mein dikhatein hein.

Innhein ghar/school/college- mein shuruat se samjhane ki zaruraat hei.

Toh meri alawa mere aas-paas 'batiyaane walon' ki zimmedaari baadh jaati hai-

Pariwaar ke saath-saath,desh aur samaj ke praati.

Unhein sirf aapne image/ya 'so called momentum' ke saath saath hi,

samaj per padnewale aasaar aur desh ki chaavi ke baare mein

bhi sochna hoga!!!

...zameen per kaam karna hoga.

khaas ker mere swayam ke alaawa-

sudhirji,aditi,ma-babuji...jo adhik samay mere saath guzartee hein.

yeh unn logon per bhi lagoo hota hai,

jo phone per mujse baatein kartein hein,

msgs,mail karte hein,internet per chat ya interact karte hein,

ya vaise milte hein....friends,family,maids,colleague,aajnaabi,rahgeer...

richshawwale/autowale/sabzi/thelewale/duukaanwale/doodhwale....etc...

aiisaa mein umeed karti hoon.

Aissa mein swayam ko "special" saabit karne ke liye nahin kar raheen hoon

woh mein pahle bhi batati rahiin hoon...

kya aur kaise hoo raha hai,usska result qua hai.

Per log meri/auron ki kahi-likhi batoon ko kaise letein hein,

yeh bhi kaafi zaroori hai.Special banne is ladai tooo 'zameen' per ladni chahiye

Per kucch bhi galat 'Chavii-image" ke saath mujhe manzoor nahin,

chahe wah mere liye ho ya kissi aur sadasya ke liye.Kissi ko farq padde ya naheen,mujhe paddta hai.AAge aur aachi khabrein bhii leekhoongi,kai too family treemein pariwaar se sambandhit aur aanytha aanya vishyon per liikha raahi hoon.


Banispat,aabhi tak jiitni bhi galatfahmiyaan paidda ho raheen hein,jiwan se issues paida hotein hein,per issues ke raang bhi jiwan mein ghul raheinhein usse samajhna zaroori hai...aur ussko theek kerrna bhi,usski safai/dhulai/correction bhi.

jahan zaroori hai-reality mein convert karna bhi.

bhavishya mein saabko aapni bhumika ka saahi aahssaas dilane ke liye kar rahi hoon.


Hum sab Roshni ki taraf badhein,Aur zyaada se Zyaada Roshni samaj mein failaayein.Zameen se judee kaam karein.Tammam log jo humaara saath de rahein hein unnhein dhanyawaad detein hue...ummedon per khaare utrein.saath hi zyaada paane ki ummeed na rakhien.Doosron ko tareef karnein dein aur Pariwaar ke saath sath sabke liye jeeyein. Be aacountable to family and self....including own parents...thats very important...!!!

KARMANYA VADHIKA RASTE,MA FALESHU KADA CHANA!!!

IS ONE IS WRONG,IF THAT PERSON IS BYBIRTH DIFFERENT???...ITS UPTO YOU'LL,HOW YOU JUDGE THEM???

Sex is a forbidden apple but is relished by everyone.

Sex and 'sringaar rasa' is important factor in survival of any married life.

but it can become bliss if adolescents are not correctly educated about it.

As it is still a "tabboo" in our society

...movies like "julie","kya kahna" had potrayed this issues well.

extra marital relations,cheating with spouse etc are side effects of emotions,

sex is one part of it which makes it more henious crime.

Sex can spread many diseases,including fatal one

if it is unsafe,improper,unhealthy,and If you're visiting wrong places

...where people are ignorant about safety/hygiene!!

.....You can be "Branded" as wrong as well!!!

its good if person is famous or popular and has a big fanfare,

line of fans(not mentioning OM SHANTI OM)

or bheed of them infront of your home,

where ever your gatherings are,

or eligible boys and girls geting many marriage proposals,

if they are popular or a star

....like shown in Tv ads like "Jeevan shathi.com,or Shaadi dot.com...)

or 'Billi ke gale mein ghanti koun bandhe','Soo chuhe khake billi chali haj ko'ads of pied piper and mouses(in kaccha-banyan group context...which is proved how people get ideas by recent names like--aunty gang,and girlfriend gang)

or celebrations of b'day,marriage anniversaries...and playing Antakshari...singing-dancing,mimicking,joking... till 12o'clock...and winning everyone's heart by your talent.

one can juggle lots of work together,but for love life-word juggler is not good(derogetry).

or a joke like 'ek se dooo hue aur abb dus bhi ho saktein hein'.

....well good to have numbers of school/college old friends support to create 'benchmark'.

'aur ek gend ke 2tuokde hue,ek 4gaya,doosra 6,isske dus tukde ho saktein hein'.

I don't need to mention Tv ads like "virgin zara hat ke"

...as we have freedom of expressions in our country!!!

I have worked with a women organization in our neighboured volunteeraily,

who asked me to get my own projects,if I wish,

which I didn't that time but had attended a workshop done by 'Them and CEDPA',

It was on "ADOLESCENT PROBLEMS AND LEADERSHIP IN THEM"....!!!

It had a chapter on sex education,

its about know your body and changes in them during these growing ages,

how to cop-up with its emotional/Psychological/Physical changes and mood swings,

mansurations and stomachaches in girls.

And change in voices etc and harmonal changes in boys also.

It 'needed' inclusion of LGBT's also as they also exists in this planet.

Like with kids, even Parents need to know about their kids growing up pangs,problems,emotional happiness,excitements,infatuations,attractions,
temptations,ambitions,career aspirations and all other aspects.

same as these kids,LGBT'S and their parents need to know about themselves.Infact others need to know that these problems exists and be careful about any wrong or hurt it may causes, but at the same time don't treat them differently...specially to TRANSGENDERS.

Theirs existence is ignored so much in our society that they don't even get regular educations and work or have normal career...forget about other human and fundamental,constitutional rights!!

....they are not acceptable in mainstream society just because they are BY BIRTH DIFFERENT',AND ITS NOT THEIR FAULT...HERE ONE NEED TO SEE THINGS WITH HUMANE ANGLE OR PERSPECTIVE!!!

WHY THEY ARE GETTING INTO CRIME OR OTHER WRONG PATHS???

TODAY I AM GOING TO ATTEND A BOOK LAUNCH ON-

"THE STATE OF THE WORLD'S CHILDREN 2011---ADOLSCENCE-AN AGE OF OPPORTUNITY!!!

...AS I FEEL THESE ADOLSCENTS CAN BECOME A 'BRAND-A DISTINCT PERSONALITY/HAVE THEIR OWN IDENTITY OR PAHCHAAN' IN THEMSELF, IF THEY REALLY WORK HARD CORRECTLY.

Its a flagship publication of UNICEF at 2.pm in the afternoon,if possible,as today is The Railway Budget day.

Prakriti ke saaton raang!!!

Jab vyakti aapne ya kisi aur ki "samman",

ya "alag vyaktitva"

ya "astitva ki pahchaan ko samajhne ya samjhane" ki ladai ladte hein

toooo usse bhi "fighter" kaha jata hai.

fighter ki "haar ya jeet"

...samaj tak usski batein pahunchnein

aur sahi dhung se swikrit hone per aadharit hai

...varna aap ya to "tapori bhasha " mein "cheez" hein,"maal"hein,

ya bhir smart logon ki bhasha mein "Atom bomb"

ya "nuclear deal" ya "human resources" ya "bheed"

jisski aapke prati jaisi bhavna hogi,

ya phir jeeski jeetni samajh hogi.

Privacy ya murmures sitting at home about after effectes of any related issues,

and its repurcussions/reactions on us,

as somehow directly or indirectly it comes back on us.

Aub yeh to saamaj per nirbhaar hai ki aap kisse kaise judge kartein hein,

aur kya "title" detein hein.....chahe usse koi bhi "rang" pasaand ho!!

ya phir prakriti ke saaton raang paasand hon!!!

Vibha Tailang

Qua "soundbytes"ke "aasaan raste" se kissi ke "leadership ingrediants"saabit hote hein???Qua aap unhein aapna neta/role model maneinge? sahyog deinge?

Kal Shushma Swaraj ji ko sunni,

'kaanch ke ghar mein rahne walon ko doosron per pathaar nahin fhenkna chahiye'

sahi hai,per galat hota dekh ker choop rahna mumkeen nahin!!

....koshish karoongi aur kum boloon.

Doosri baat yeh ki- jab sare pariwar ki sadassya,

unn restedaaron ka zikr aur charchayein aaksaar kartein rahte hein,

jo har vaqt humare beech moujood nahin hain,

per humse adhik unhein mahtav deeya jaata raha hai.

Aur jab aagar "sound bytes" aaptak pahunchti hein

...to batein aur unki upasthiti darj ho hi jaati hai.

phir koi bhi kaise ignored hai.

jinhein aap tak iss tarah 'aasaani se'

pahunch ker aapne aastitva banana hai

.....unhein swayam rucchi lekar batein karni chahiye,

agaar jinmein "leadership" ke "tamam ingredients" hongi,

veh "iss aasaan raste" ke madhyam ke 'aasre' nahin raheinge,

...na hi 'sirf isski' bahut 'bhook' unhein hogi????!!!

satya aur gandhiji....!!!

Mahatma Gandhiji hamesha satya vachaan bolne ke himayaati the

issliye unka mannna hai ki unhein 'aanterduand'kabhi nahin tha,

unke adig satya sadhna ke vajah se unke vichaaron mein pardershita thi.

unke vichaar duvidharahit the!!


mein prayaasrat hoon unke iss aachaaran ko tamaam haddd thak nibhanein ke liye!!

vibha tailang

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

umeed hai raste bante jayeinge......saahi deesha ki oore!!!

Agar mein kahoon,aapne dil mein jhaankon

Antermen ko suno aur fhir mathoo,

kahan hum galat hue,kahan qua aacha kiya

kahan kucch bura hua,kahan kya bahut aaccha hua

kisse aapne khushi dee,kahan thesh pahunchaayee

aap santusht hein,ya mahatvakankshi hein

aap yogi hein ya bhogi hein

aap grameen hein,shahri hein

vidwan hein,aanparh hein,

gharelu hein,kaamkaji hein

aapki shiksha nein aapko,

samaj mein kya yogdaan dena seekhaya hei

aap pucchenge kya dekhoon 'aantermen'mein....!!


Mahsoos kerna seekhein unn sab ehsaason ko,

unn 'nao rason' ko jiss se hum 24son ghante,

30son diin,saalon saal guzartein hein,

per usse jaan ya samajh nahin patein.

jab aandaaza hoga kiin bhavon/rason mein aap,

atirek yani atti ke aadii hein,seema rekha par kar jatein hein

aap prayatn karna shuroo ker sakte hein sayamit hone ke...jitna zyada sambhav ho

aur yahin se ek sarthak aur khushhaal jivan ki shuruat hogi...

jahan manaviye mulyon ki sarthakta saabko ek kamzori nahin taqat lagegi

vinamrta,sabhyata,susanskrit,sushikshit,mridubhashi,sayamit,per swabhimani

...vaqt padne per aapka/aapki tez/vani/vichaar ,

logon ko aapki baatien soonne ko majboor kareingi


pahle khudd ko aissa banayein

...kuddh ko samarth/yogya jitna ho sake banayein

tabhi aapki batein auron per aasaar ya chaap chodegi.....!!!

doosron ke jai se pehle khood ko jai karein!!!

aap kucch kareinge tabhi,

log aapki batein sammanpurvaak sunneinge aur bulainge!!!

sabke saath pariwaar ko saath leker chalna bhi bahoot zaroori hai,

ya fhir pariwaar aapke ssaath chale...celebrations/mushkilon ko saath liye

chahe aap kisi bhi varg ke hon....

aam pariwaar ke hein ya samarth pariwaar ke,choote log hein yaa baade log

stree/purush/beti ya bahu/bade ya chote/buzurg ya baache/

koi bhi sadasy hein,prasidh hein ya nahin hein

her vargvasion ke apne fayde ya nuksaan hua karte hein,

behter hei jannewale pariwaar/pati/pita ke naam ke ssath saath

pariwaar/samaaj mein aapke swayam ki saarthak yogdaan ki wajah se bhi jane!!

mujhe bhi kucch aiisa hi banna hai.

prayaas,sochh aur kosish jaari hai....

umeed hai raste bante jayeinge

...mehnat ke bina tooo kucchh haasil nahin hota

umeed to nahin karti per yakin hai,aap sabka sahyog milega

'lagaan'-film ka woh gana yaad aaa raha hai-

"oo mitwa!! oo mitwa!! tujhko kya der hai re,

ye dharti aapni hai,aapna aamber hai re"!!!