Sex is a forbidden apple but is relished by everyone.
Sex and 'sringaar rasa' is important factor in survival of any married life.
but it can become bliss if adolescents are not correctly educated about it.
As it is still a "tabboo" in our society
...movies like "julie","kya kahna" had potrayed this issues well.
extra marital relations,cheating with spouse etc are side effects of emotions,
sex is one part of it which makes it more henious crime.
Sex can spread many diseases,including fatal one
if it is unsafe,improper,unhealthy,and If you're visiting wrong places
...where people are ignorant about safety/hygiene!!
.....You can be "Branded" as wrong as well!!!
its good if person is famous or popular and has a big fanfare,
line of fans(not mentioning OM SHANTI OM)
or bheed of them infront of your home,
where ever your gatherings are,
or eligible boys and girls geting many marriage proposals,
if they are popular or a star
....like shown in Tv ads like "Jeevan shathi.com,or Shaadi dot.com...)
or 'Billi ke gale mein ghanti koun bandhe','Soo chuhe khake billi chali haj ko'ads of pied piper and mouses(in kaccha-banyan group context...which is proved how people get ideas by recent names like--aunty gang,and girlfriend gang)
or celebrations of b'day,marriage anniversaries...and playing Antakshari...singing-dancing,mimicking,joking... till 12o'clock...and winning everyone's heart by your talent.
one can juggle lots of work together,but for love life-word juggler is not good(derogetry).
or a joke like 'ek se dooo hue aur abb dus bhi ho saktein hein'.
....well good to have numbers of school/college old friends support to create 'benchmark'.
'aur ek gend ke 2tuokde hue,ek 4gaya,doosra 6,isske dus tukde ho saktein hein'.
I don't need to mention Tv ads like "virgin zara hat ke"
...as we have freedom of expressions in our country!!!
I have worked with a women organization in our neighboured volunteeraily,
who asked me to get my own projects,if I wish,
which I didn't that time but had attended a workshop done by 'Them and CEDPA',
It was on "ADOLESCENT PROBLEMS AND LEADERSHIP IN THEM"....!!!
It had a chapter on sex education,
its about know your body and changes in them during these growing ages,
how to cop-up with its emotional/Psychological/Physical changes and mood swings,
mansurations and stomachaches in girls.
And change in voices etc and harmonal changes in boys also.
It 'needed' inclusion of LGBT's also as they also exists in this planet.
Like with kids, even Parents need to know about their kids growing up pangs,problems,emotional happiness,excitements,infatuations,attractions,
temptations,ambitions,career aspirations and all other aspects.
same as these kids,LGBT'S and their parents need to know about themselves.Infact others need to know that these problems exists and be careful about any wrong or hurt it may causes, but at the same time don't treat them differently...specially to TRANSGENDERS.
Theirs existence is ignored so much in our society that they don't even get regular educations and work or have normal career...forget about other human and fundamental,constitutional rights!!
....they are not acceptable in mainstream society just because they are BY BIRTH DIFFERENT',AND ITS NOT THEIR FAULT...HERE ONE NEED TO SEE THINGS WITH HUMANE ANGLE OR PERSPECTIVE!!!
WHY THEY ARE GETTING INTO CRIME OR OTHER WRONG PATHS???
TODAY I AM GOING TO ATTEND A BOOK LAUNCH ON-
"THE STATE OF THE WORLD'S CHILDREN 2011---ADOLSCENCE-AN AGE OF OPPORTUNITY!!!
...AS I FEEL THESE ADOLSCENTS CAN BECOME A 'BRAND-A DISTINCT PERSONALITY/HAVE THEIR OWN IDENTITY OR PAHCHAAN' IN THEMSELF, IF THEY REALLY WORK HARD CORRECTLY.
Its a flagship publication of UNICEF at 2.pm in the afternoon,if possible,as today is The Railway Budget day.
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