RECENTLY SUDHIRJI HAS BEEN TO MUMBAI FOR A MEETING OF BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF JAVED HABIB'S.COMING BACK TO HOME FROM THE DELHI AIRPORT,HE TOOK A TAXI.IT'S DRIVER WAS FROM HARYANA.HE WAS DISCUSSING SOME LOCAL ISSUE WITH SUDHIRJI,AND SAID..."HONOUR KILLING" IS A VERY COMMON AND NORMAL THING IN OUR VILLAGES.RECENTLY A GIRL GOT MARRIED TO A BOY OF SAME VILLAGE...PEOPLE GOT ANGRY.AS WHOLE VILLAGE CONSIDERED TO BE RELATIVES.HER PARENTS KILLED HER IN A NIGHT BY GIVING ELECTRIC SHOCK AND DISPOSED OF HER BODY SILENTLY.NO ONE HAS SPOKEN AGAINST THEM,NOT EVEN POLICE, AS POLICE MENTALITY AND THINKING ARE THE SAME."GAON KI IZZAT BADI HAI...BAKI SAB BAAD MEIN"...SO THIS IS HOW DEVILISH MINDS THINKS!!!
....IS GETTING MARRIED WITH ONE OWN CHOICE IS THAT BIG SIN???(I DON'T THINK I GOT INTO ANY KIND OF "GUDDHA" OR TRAPPED ANYONE IN ANY KIND OF "GADDHA"...NO ONE IS THAT "MURKH"....ONE SHOULD BE CAUTIOUS IN HANDLING PAPERS OF OWN OR GETTING PAPERS OR FILES FROM ANYWHERE WITHOUT WRITTEN PERMISSION.NOW WE HAVE RTI,WHEN I WAS WORKING IN OTHER OFFICES,THIS LAW WAS NOT THERE....SO AFTER ORAL/VERBAL ASSURENCE ONE MAY CAN SAY I HAVE NOT GIVEN THESE PAPERS,DOCUMENTS,DAIRIES TO ANYONE....THUS YOU CAN GET TRAPPED IN ODD SITUATION WHICH CAN EMBARASS YOU OR ONE MAY FACE CRIMINAL CHARGES !!
...THOUGH I DO BELIEVE ONE SHOULD TAKE THEIR PARENTS CONSENT FIRST OR TRY AND CONVINCE THEM- BEFORE TAKING ANY EXTREME STEP!!!...THIS IS WHAT I AND SUDHIRJI HAD DONE AND LATER ON HELPED FEW OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS OR FRIENDS...WHO GOT MARRIED WITH ELDERS CONSENT/CONVINCING THEM OR GOT MARRIED AFTER RUNNING AWAY AND THEN CONVINCED THEN...THESE THINGS/ISSUES CREATES YEARS OF STRUGGLE IN ONE'S LIFE IF FAMILY MATTERS FOR THEM...VIBHA)
DO YOU THINK DANCING OR DOING JUGALBANDI FEW STEPS,RYMING,MIMICKING...FEW LINES IN ONE'S NIECE B'DAY AT HOME WHOM ONE HAVE MET AFTER YEARS...IS WRONG AND UNPARDONABLE??? DO WE NEED TO CHANGE OR MINDSET???....HOW MUCH AND IN WHICH DIRECTION???....WHAT POSITIVITY WE NEED TO CONTROL OR CORRECT WRONG CAME FROM OUR OWN CULTURE,TRADITION,SYSTEM,..NATURE OR FROM OUTSIDE EFFECTS FROM EAST,WEST,NORTH AND SOUTH??....VIBHA)
(WELL SUDHIRJI HAS LEARNT SOMETHING FROM ME.I HAD A HABIT OF DISCUSSING ALL KIND OF CURRENT RELATED TOPICS WITH EVEN BUS DRIVERS OR COMMONERS,FOR WHICH SUDHIRJI USED TO GET IRRITATED.)
THOUGH HE HAS DONE REPORTING OF RAJASTHAN EXCLUSIVLY...INCLUDING 'DROUGHT'IN JAISALMER,JODHPUR AND NUCLEAR TEST IN POKHRAN(IN POKHREN EVEN I WAS WITH HIM THEN).
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