RECENTLY SUDHIRJI HAS BEEN TO MUMBAI FOR A MEETING OF BOARD OF DIRECTORS OF JAVED HABIB'S.COMING BACK TO HOME FROM THE DELHI AIRPORT,HE TOOK A TAXI.IT'S DRIVER WAS FROM HARYANA.HE WAS DISCUSSING SOME LOCAL ISSUE WITH SUDHIRJI,AND SAID..."HONOUR KILLING" IS A VERY COMMON AND NORMAL THING IN OUR VILLAGES.RECENTLY A GIRL GOT MARRIED TO A BOY OF SAME VILLAGE...PEOPLE GOT ANGRY.AS WHOLE VILLAGE CONSIDERED TO BE RELATIVES.HER PARENTS KILLED HER IN A NIGHT BY GIVING ELECTRIC SHOCK AND DISPOSED OF HER BODY SILENTLY.NO ONE HAS SPOKEN AGAINST THEM,NOT EVEN POLICE, AS POLICE MENTALITY AND THINKING ARE THE SAME."GAON KI IZZAT BADI HAI...BAKI SAB BAAD MEIN"...SO THIS IS HOW DEVILISH MINDS THINKS!!!
....IS GETTING MARRIED WITH ONE OWN CHOICE IS THAT BIG SIN???(I DON'T THINK I GOT INTO ANY KIND OF "GUDDHA" OR TRAPPED ANYONE IN ANY KIND OF "GADDHA"...NO ONE IS THAT "MURKH"....ONE SHOULD BE CAUTIOUS IN HANDLING PAPERS OF OWN OR GETTING PAPERS OR FILES FROM ANYWHERE WITHOUT WRITTEN PERMISSION.NOW WE HAVE RTI,WHEN I WAS WORKING IN OTHER OFFICES,THIS LAW WAS NOT THERE....SO AFTER ORAL/VERBAL ASSURENCE ONE MAY CAN SAY I HAVE NOT GIVEN THESE PAPERS,DOCUMENTS,DAIRIES TO ANYONE....THUS YOU CAN GET TRAPPED IN ODD SITUATION WHICH CAN EMBARASS YOU OR ONE MAY FACE CRIMINAL CHARGES !!
...THOUGH I DO BELIEVE ONE SHOULD TAKE THEIR PARENTS CONSENT FIRST OR TRY AND CONVINCE THEM- BEFORE TAKING ANY EXTREME STEP!!!...THIS IS WHAT I AND SUDHIRJI HAD DONE AND LATER ON HELPED FEW OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS OR FRIENDS...WHO GOT MARRIED WITH ELDERS CONSENT/CONVINCING THEM OR GOT MARRIED AFTER RUNNING AWAY AND THEN CONVINCED THEN...THESE THINGS/ISSUES CREATES YEARS OF STRUGGLE IN ONE'S LIFE IF FAMILY MATTERS FOR THEM...VIBHA)
DO YOU THINK DANCING OR DOING JUGALBANDI FEW STEPS,RYMING,MIMICKING...FEW LINES IN ONE'S NIECE B'DAY AT HOME WHOM ONE HAVE MET AFTER YEARS...IS WRONG AND UNPARDONABLE??? DO WE NEED TO CHANGE OR MINDSET???....HOW MUCH AND IN WHICH DIRECTION???....WHAT POSITIVITY WE NEED TO CONTROL OR CORRECT WRONG CAME FROM OUR OWN CULTURE,TRADITION,SYSTEM,..NATURE OR FROM OUTSIDE EFFECTS FROM EAST,WEST,NORTH AND SOUTH??....VIBHA)
(WELL SUDHIRJI HAS LEARNT SOMETHING FROM ME.I HAD A HABIT OF DISCUSSING ALL KIND OF CURRENT RELATED TOPICS WITH EVEN BUS DRIVERS OR COMMONERS,FOR WHICH SUDHIRJI USED TO GET IRRITATED.)
THOUGH HE HAS DONE REPORTING OF RAJASTHAN EXCLUSIVLY...INCLUDING 'DROUGHT'IN JAISALMER,JODHPUR AND NUCLEAR TEST IN POKHRAN(IN POKHREN EVEN I WAS WITH HIM THEN).
Monday, March 28, 2011
Onion prices have been an important political issue: they were regarded as the decisive factor in the 1998 state elections in Delhi and Rajasthan
Onions are considered an indispensable ingredient of most Indian cooking, providing the pungent foundation for a thousand different curries and other dishes. Onion prices have been an important political issue: they were regarded as the decisive factor in the 1998 state elections in Delhi
( SMT SUSHMA SWARAJ WAS A CM THEN-13OCT 1998 TO 3 DEC 2003,AFTERWARDS SHE HAS RETURNED TO NATIONAL POLITICS)
and Rajasthan(LATE SHRI BHAIRON SINGH SHEKHAWAT WAS CM THEN...FINALLY BECAME VICE PRESIDENT...BOTH ARE SUDHIRJI'S AND HIS CARTOONS ARDENT ADMIRER).
(NEWS FROM ARCHIEVE)
(I REMEMBER SUDHIRJI'S CARTOONS ON ONION PRICE RISE SPECIFICALLY THEN,THOUGH RISE IN PRICE OF OTHER GOODS AS WELL WERE MAKING EVERYONE'S LIFE DIFFICULT THOSE DAYS...ITS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW EVEN CARTOONS CAN BE EFFECTIVE FACTOR OF NEWSPAPERS AND MEDIA, WHICH IS RECENTLY IGNORED/NOT GIVEN THAT MUCH IMPORTANCE IN THIS MEDIUM!!....ONE NEED TO UNDERSTAND.I THINK EVEN SUDHIRJI,AN ESTABLISHED AND ONE OF THE TOPMOST POLITICAL CARTOONIST OF OUR COUNTRY, DOESN'T KNOW THE IMPACT OF HIS WORK 100%.I AM WRITING THESE LINES NOT ONLY AS AN ADMIRER OF CARTOONS,BUT AS AN EX MEDIAPERSON(THOUGH I DO HAVE WEBMAGAZINE WHICH COVERS DEVOLOPMENTAL ISSUES AND AWARENESS OF RIGHTS ETC-AAWAAZ.ADITIFOUNDATION.CO.IN) .
I REMEMBER JUST BEFORE 13 OCT 1998 ELECTION,THERE WAS A PRESS CONFERENCE AT ADVANIJI'S RESIDENCE WHERE SUDHIRJI WAS INVITED.BEFORE HE WENT THERE,I REQUESTED HIM TO ASK A QUESTION FROM MY SIDE ALSO-"WHY BJP DON'T GIVE TICKETS TO WOMEN CANDIDATES??"...WELL WITH HIS QUESTIONS HE ASKED MINE ALSO,"FOR WHICH ADVANIJI HAD SAID-"ONE NEED TO HAVE WINNABILITY QUALITIES IN THEM,WHETHER ITS MAN OR A WOMAN CANDIDATE!!!"....I MENTIONED THIS IN MY OFFICE(TVI).THIS NEWS WAS RAISED WHY THERE ARE LESS WOMEN CANDIDATES IN BJP.INCIDENTLY SUSHMAJI GOT THE TICKET AND BECAME FIRST BJP AND FIRST DELHI WOMAN CM.LATER ON- IN DEC 2003 MS UMA BHARATI BECAME FIRST LADY CM OF MADHYA PRADESH AND THEN IN RAJASTHAN FIRST LADY CM WAS SMT VASUNDHARA RAJE SCINDIA(DEC 2003 TO 2008)....I WON'T TAKE CREDIT OF 33%RESERVATION DISCUSSION FOR WOMEN IN PARLIAMENT BUT ITS TRUE THAT DURING MSGS SHOOT IN SAHARA I HAD ASKED THIS QUESTION(I WAS A PROFFESSIONAL JOURNALIST THEN) TO SHRI MULAYAMJI AND SHRI SHARAD YADAV JI AS THEY ARE AUTHORITY IN THEIR RESPECTIVE PARTIES.SHRI LALLUJI HAS TAKEN DRAMATIC ACTION BY MAKING RABRIJI FIRST LADY CM OF BIHAR IN 1997,WHEN HE WAS STUCK IN CHAARRA GHOTALA/OTHER CORRUPTION AND CRIMINAL CASES...THOUGH PERSONALLY EVEN HE DON'T BELIEVE IN GIVING RESERVATION TO WOMEN SO EASILY.
THOUGH PERSONALLY I BELIEVE ONE SHOULD TAKE RESERVATION/QUOTA SYSTEM OR ANY SIFARISH/..PUSH/HELP TILL IT REALLY NEEDED URGENTLY OR IN EMERGENCY ,AS WOMEN IN OUR COUNTRY STILL FACES DISCRIMINATIONS IN MANY WAYS DUE TO OWN AND OTHER'S MINDSETS AND SITUATIONS...SINCE YEARS.OTHERWISE WALKING WITH THE HELP OF THESE CRUTCHES ARE NOT GOOD FOR SELF ESTEEM....!!!
RECENTLY ONE OF THE MP OF BIKANER MR ARJUN MEGHWAL WENT FOR THE MEETING OF "VYAPAAR MANDAL"OF BIKANER THERE.AND MENTION THIS TO PEOPLE THAT WHEN HE MET MAMATAJI BEFORE THE RAILWAY BUDGET REGARDING TRAIN TO BIKANER FROM DELHI TO AND FRO,SHE SAID "I AM AWARE OF IT.YOU PEOPLE HAD 3 TRAINS EARLIER BUT NOW ZERO,SO TELL ME THE DETAILS".
"BUT INTERESTING POINT IS-"SHE HAS MENTIONED,"HAVE YOU SEEN HOARDING OF CARTOONS BY SUDHIR TAILANG IN FRONT OF MY HOME AND OTHER PART OF DELHI??...IT GAVE ME THE IDEA AND SERIOUSNESS OF THIS PROBLEM."
ONE OF OUR FRIEND FROM BIKANER RANG UP SUDHIRJI TO TELL THIS CONTENT OF SPEECH.WELL WE ARE PLEASED WITH THIS INDIRECT PRAISE.ATLEAST THEY ACKNOWLEDGED SUDHIRJI'S EFFORT OF LAST 2YEARS!!....BUT FINALLY WHEN IT WILL MATERIALIZES PRACTICALLY,WHICH I HAVE HEARD SHRI ASHOK GEHLOTJI IS FLAGGING IT OFF ON 30/3/11...WE'LL FEEL CONTENT.THERE ARE MANY RAJASTHANI,SPECIALLY MARWARI'S ARE LIVING IN DELHI,CALCUTTA,NORTH-EAST..AND TRAVEL BACK HOME TO BIKANER ANNUALLY OR MORE OFTEN,OTHER THEN FOR EDUCATION OR BUSSINESS PURPOSES.
THANKS MAMATA DI.
( SMT SUSHMA SWARAJ WAS A CM THEN-13OCT 1998 TO 3 DEC 2003,AFTERWARDS SHE HAS RETURNED TO NATIONAL POLITICS)
and Rajasthan(LATE SHRI BHAIRON SINGH SHEKHAWAT WAS CM THEN...FINALLY BECAME VICE PRESIDENT...BOTH ARE SUDHIRJI'S AND HIS CARTOONS ARDENT ADMIRER).
(NEWS FROM ARCHIEVE)
(I REMEMBER SUDHIRJI'S CARTOONS ON ONION PRICE RISE SPECIFICALLY THEN,THOUGH RISE IN PRICE OF OTHER GOODS AS WELL WERE MAKING EVERYONE'S LIFE DIFFICULT THOSE DAYS...ITS AN EXAMPLE OF HOW EVEN CARTOONS CAN BE EFFECTIVE FACTOR OF NEWSPAPERS AND MEDIA, WHICH IS RECENTLY IGNORED/NOT GIVEN THAT MUCH IMPORTANCE IN THIS MEDIUM!!....ONE NEED TO UNDERSTAND.I THINK EVEN SUDHIRJI,AN ESTABLISHED AND ONE OF THE TOPMOST POLITICAL CARTOONIST OF OUR COUNTRY, DOESN'T KNOW THE IMPACT OF HIS WORK 100%.I AM WRITING THESE LINES NOT ONLY AS AN ADMIRER OF CARTOONS,BUT AS AN EX MEDIAPERSON(THOUGH I DO HAVE WEBMAGAZINE WHICH COVERS DEVOLOPMENTAL ISSUES AND AWARENESS OF RIGHTS ETC-AAWAAZ.ADITIFOUNDATION.CO.IN) .
I REMEMBER JUST BEFORE 13 OCT 1998 ELECTION,THERE WAS A PRESS CONFERENCE AT ADVANIJI'S RESIDENCE WHERE SUDHIRJI WAS INVITED.BEFORE HE WENT THERE,I REQUESTED HIM TO ASK A QUESTION FROM MY SIDE ALSO-"WHY BJP DON'T GIVE TICKETS TO WOMEN CANDIDATES??"...WELL WITH HIS QUESTIONS HE ASKED MINE ALSO,"FOR WHICH ADVANIJI HAD SAID-"ONE NEED TO HAVE WINNABILITY QUALITIES IN THEM,WHETHER ITS MAN OR A WOMAN CANDIDATE!!!"....I MENTIONED THIS IN MY OFFICE(TVI).THIS NEWS WAS RAISED WHY THERE ARE LESS WOMEN CANDIDATES IN BJP.INCIDENTLY SUSHMAJI GOT THE TICKET AND BECAME FIRST BJP AND FIRST DELHI WOMAN CM.LATER ON- IN DEC 2003 MS UMA BHARATI BECAME FIRST LADY CM OF MADHYA PRADESH AND THEN IN RAJASTHAN FIRST LADY CM WAS SMT VASUNDHARA RAJE SCINDIA(DEC 2003 TO 2008)....I WON'T TAKE CREDIT OF 33%RESERVATION DISCUSSION FOR WOMEN IN PARLIAMENT BUT ITS TRUE THAT DURING MSGS SHOOT IN SAHARA I HAD ASKED THIS QUESTION(I WAS A PROFFESSIONAL JOURNALIST THEN) TO SHRI MULAYAMJI AND SHRI SHARAD YADAV JI AS THEY ARE AUTHORITY IN THEIR RESPECTIVE PARTIES.SHRI LALLUJI HAS TAKEN DRAMATIC ACTION BY MAKING RABRIJI FIRST LADY CM OF BIHAR IN 1997,WHEN HE WAS STUCK IN CHAARRA GHOTALA/OTHER CORRUPTION AND CRIMINAL CASES...THOUGH PERSONALLY EVEN HE DON'T BELIEVE IN GIVING RESERVATION TO WOMEN SO EASILY.
THOUGH PERSONALLY I BELIEVE ONE SHOULD TAKE RESERVATION/QUOTA SYSTEM OR ANY SIFARISH/..PUSH/HELP TILL IT REALLY NEEDED URGENTLY OR IN EMERGENCY ,AS WOMEN IN OUR COUNTRY STILL FACES DISCRIMINATIONS IN MANY WAYS DUE TO OWN AND OTHER'S MINDSETS AND SITUATIONS...SINCE YEARS.OTHERWISE WALKING WITH THE HELP OF THESE CRUTCHES ARE NOT GOOD FOR SELF ESTEEM....!!!
RECENTLY ONE OF THE MP OF BIKANER MR ARJUN MEGHWAL WENT FOR THE MEETING OF "VYAPAAR MANDAL"OF BIKANER THERE.AND MENTION THIS TO PEOPLE THAT WHEN HE MET MAMATAJI BEFORE THE RAILWAY BUDGET REGARDING TRAIN TO BIKANER FROM DELHI TO AND FRO,SHE SAID "I AM AWARE OF IT.YOU PEOPLE HAD 3 TRAINS EARLIER BUT NOW ZERO,SO TELL ME THE DETAILS".
"BUT INTERESTING POINT IS-"SHE HAS MENTIONED,"HAVE YOU SEEN HOARDING OF CARTOONS BY SUDHIR TAILANG IN FRONT OF MY HOME AND OTHER PART OF DELHI??...IT GAVE ME THE IDEA AND SERIOUSNESS OF THIS PROBLEM."
ONE OF OUR FRIEND FROM BIKANER RANG UP SUDHIRJI TO TELL THIS CONTENT OF SPEECH.WELL WE ARE PLEASED WITH THIS INDIRECT PRAISE.ATLEAST THEY ACKNOWLEDGED SUDHIRJI'S EFFORT OF LAST 2YEARS!!....BUT FINALLY WHEN IT WILL MATERIALIZES PRACTICALLY,WHICH I HAVE HEARD SHRI ASHOK GEHLOTJI IS FLAGGING IT OFF ON 30/3/11...WE'LL FEEL CONTENT.THERE ARE MANY RAJASTHANI,SPECIALLY MARWARI'S ARE LIVING IN DELHI,CALCUTTA,NORTH-EAST..AND TRAVEL BACK HOME TO BIKANER ANNUALLY OR MORE OFTEN,OTHER THEN FOR EDUCATION OR BUSSINESS PURPOSES.
THANKS MAMATA DI.
SPEAK EFFECTIVLY!!
PEOPLE DO HAVE IMPRESSION THAT I CANNOT SPEAK OR WRITE WELL OR EFFECTIVLY!!
....OR DON'T HAVE LEADERSHIP QUALITIES IN GENERAL!!!
THIS IS ONE POINT AGENDA FOR ME TO WORK ON NOW,
....OTHER THEN MANY OTHER WORK,
...I WANT TO BE A ROLE MODEL FOR MY DAUGHTER,CAN'T SAY ABOUT OTHERS!!
GOOD WISHES TO ME!!
(PLZ REMIND ME WHENEVER I TRY TO THINK OR WORK FOR OTHERS...OR COUNTRY...AS I HAD PROMISED TO MYSELF TO WORK FOR SELF TILL ITS VERY IMPORTANT TO INTERFERE IN OTHERS MATTER)NO MORE CRICKET AFTER THIS WORLD CUP FOR ME!!
...AND HAVE TO TRY TO CONTROL ALL MY EMOTIONS INCLUDING ANGER(NOT TO BE LIKE MANOJ BAJPAI OF SHOOL), AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE...NO MORE EVEN ACTING SHACTING WHICH WE DOES AT TIMES....DON'T WANT ANYONE'S "NAMES" GET MALIGN!!....I WISH FOR ALL THAT THEY MAKE PEOPLE AROUND THEM PROUD OF THEM...BUT "DOOSRON KE JAI SE PEHLE,KHUDD KO JAI KARE"...WHICH MEANS PREACH OTHERS LATER, FIRST LEARN TO CONTROL OWN EMOTIONS AND CORRECT THEMSELF IF ANY DEFECT IN ONE'S PERSONALITY IS THERE!!! )
PLZ DON'T REMIND ME IF DEEPIKA DIED IN SOME MOVIE I SHOULD ALSO SAY ADIEU..."AAAP TOO THEE" ABB NAHIN HEIN,YOU'RE FINISHED!!...THESE ARE "MOMENTARY COMMENTS"...IN SOME OR OTHER CONTEXT!!!...AS I HAVE CREATED THIS PLATFORM FOR SELF,WILL WORK WHETHER "ONE THINK I AM DEAD OR ALIVE","ACCEPT IT THAT I AM THERE STILL WORKING AND CONTRIBUTING OR NOT" OR "YOU'RE BETTER OR WORSE THEN OTHERS".HAUSALLA NAHIN TOOTENEIN DENE KA KYA???..RASTE KANTAHEEN HOKER BANNTEI JAYEINGE!!
...EVEN GHARELU WOMEN CAN DO WELL...AFTER MY ENCOURAGEMENT 2YRS BACK MY YOUNGER SISTER HAS GIVEN EXAMS(AFTER LONG GAP) FOR SOME GOVT POST IN HER HUSBAND'S OFFICE...APPLIED,GIVEN WRITTEN TEST,INTERVIEW WHICH SHE QUALIFIED IN FINAL STAGE,BUT HER HUSBAND REFUSE TO DO SHIFARISH(HER NAME WAS IN WAITING LIST)..NOW SHE IS DOING MBA.EVEN MY CHHOTI BHABHI STARTED DOING SOCIAL WORK VOLUNTARILY AND USED TO TEACH DROPOUT KIDS OF MAZDOORS AT CONSTRUCTION SITES WITH HER CMD'S WIFE AND GROUP OF NHPC CLUB...FEW YRS BACK(AT SOORAJKUND SITE/FARIDABAAD)...SHE WAS A SCHOOL TEACHER(D.A.V) BEFORE HER MARRIAGE-I HAD TAUGHT TUITIONS TO DHOBI'S KIDS AT HOME VOLUNTARILY)...NOW SHE IS IN CHANDHIGAARH AND ELDER BRO'S FAMILY HAS SHIFTED TO GREATER.NOIDA
...EVEN DIDI DISLIKED JIJAJI'S KOSHISH OF SOCIAL WORK'S...HIS INITIATIVE SAMANATA OR ACTIVITY FOR YOUTH FOR EQUALITY(EVEN I AM MEMBER OF IT AND SUDHIRJI DO GET INVITATIONS) INITIALLY DURING STAY IN HARIDWAR AS HE WAS DOING FULL TIME WORK BUT HELPED IN HIS WORK AFTER MY SUGGESTIONS.NOW LEFT IT AS THEY SHIFTED TO NOIDA....OR TO MOTIVATING ADITI TO HAVE A GOOD PROFESSIONAL WORK EXPERIENCE BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.AFTER THAT IT WILL BE HER DECISION TO WORK OR NOT.THOUGH I WOULD LIKE HER TO MAKE HER NAME IN LIFE WITH HER QUALITIES AND TALENT.EVEN TO SUDHIRJI TO CONTRIBUTE BACK TO BIKANER- HIS HOME TOWN IN SOME WAY!!...HE DID BY TRYING FOR A TRAIN- DELHI TO BIKANER WHICH WAS !BADLY NEEDED!!...EVEN CONSTRUCTION OF AIRPORT IN NAAL OF BIKANER IS IN PROGRESS.
WON'T TALK ABOUT OTHER MALE OR FEMALE OR KIDS OF OUR BOTH SIDES OF FAMILY OR EVEN FRIENDS...IF I HAVE ENCOURAGED,HELPED IN SOME WAY...IN THEIR PERSONAL-EMOTIONAL,PROFESSIONAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH PROBLEMS...OR ABOUT SPIRITUAL TALK OF HEALING, WHICH PEOPLE SAY MOTIVATIONAL TALK...IN SO MANY(46) YEARS(MANY OF YOU ALL HAVE DONE THAT...SAAB KARTEIN HEIN)...THAT THEY NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE INSTEAD OF PUTTING FINGURES ON MY DINCHARRYA/OR SOME GOSSIPS WHICH CAN BE MERE SPECULATIONS BASED OF FICTIONS...OR THEY SHOULD TRY TO GO IN DEPTH AND FIND OUT REALITIES...THEN THEY WOULD FIND SOME OF MY QUALITIES AND ACHIEVEMENTS ALSO...OR ACCEPT THAT WHAT THEY SAID WAS BASED ON FICTIONS...WHICH THEY CLAIM THEY DON'T SEE(GOOD EVEN I DON'T WANT TO SEE...IF I'LL WILL LET YOU ALL KNOW)...IT APPLIES ON BOTH SIDE OF MY FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS..."AAAROP TOOO AAROOP HOTE HEIN JAB TAK SAABIT NA HO JAYEIN...CHAHE HUM LAGAIN YA AAP...ONE CAN NOT BECOME MALLIKA SHERAWAT/MALLIYKA KHAN/..LATAJI/AASHA BHONSLE/OR ANY ONE ...LALLUJI/NITISHJI...NARENDRA MODI..NEITHER INDIRA GANDHI/NEHRU OR MAHATMA GANDHIJI JUST LIKE THAT???!!!
...BUT DEFINITLY WANTED TO BE RAGS TO RICHES(SAMRIDDH) LIKE STARS IN MANY SERIALS OR MOVIES CAN BE CONSIDERED VERY AMBITIOUS...BUT OVER DO IS BAD IN ANYTHING- EXCEPT COMEDY...OR TRYING TO CREATE SOMETHING OUT OF NOTHING.
IF I CAN MOTIVATE THEM AND MAKE THEM TO CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETY (AS A SOCIAL WORKER)MORE THEN HOUSEHOLD WORK...WHY CAN'T I DO IT MYSELF WHO NOW HAVE A FREE TIME AND GOT A REGISTERED NGO(EARLIER WITHOUT IT I HAD WORKED) AND ITS REGISTERED OFFICIAL WEBSITE....AND ITS INITIATIVE WEBMAGAZINE-"AAWAAZ."!!!
I KNOW WHATEVER I HAVE WRITTEN IN MY BLOGS(3BLOGS) HAS HOT UP SOME OLD DAYS TALKS WHICH PEOPLE MAY HAVE FORGOTTEN OTHERWISE...BUT IT WAS IMPORTANT FOR ONCE AND FINALLY HOW "MEIN AAYEE HOON U.P./BIHAR LOOTNE"-"katcch baniyaan group"...SATYA/SHOOL/SHANTI(AND ITS DIFFERENT CHARACTERS INCLUDING TULSI,NIDHI..ETC)...TILL TODAY'S SCENE....WAS GETTING WORSE!!!BUT IN A WAY ITS GOOD THAT ALL KIND OF EXPOSE REVEALED IN/BY MEDIA...WHETHER INSPIRED BY FICTION WHICH CANNOT BE 100% TRUTH OF ANYONE'S LIFE...AS LIFE CANNOT BE SO MUCH FILMY OR MASALEDAAR BUT IT IS REALITY AND DO EXIST...!! FOR EXAMPLE CASES OF BABA'S PERSONAL LIVES/CRIME/CORRUPTION/SCAMS/SUPERTITIONS/DISASTER ETC...EMOTIONAL OUTBRUSTS/ROAD RAGE/FICTIONS/REALITY(ITS MIXTURE...AS PEOPLE STARTED LIVING IN IT AND LIKING IT)....AND NOW CLARITY THOUGH I CAN'T SAY IF ALL MISCONCEPTION HAS CLEARED OR NOT AS NO DEAL/SAUDA /CORRUPTION/CRIMINAL CASES IS ON US ...CAN'T SAY ABOUT 'KATHNI-KARNI KA FARQ'(LITTLE KABZA AT OUR RESIDENTIAL PLOT IS LEGALLY DECLARED IN OUR HOUSE TAX FORM AND WE PAY TAX FOR THAT SPACE ALSO...SO WE ARE NOT WRONG IN ANYWAY...THOUGH WE HAVE GOT OCCASIONAL NOTICES FOR HOUSE TAX OR INCOME TAXES...WHICCH FINALLY PROVED THAT WE WERE RIGHT)
... THOUGH NOT INTERESTED IN WATCHING MUCH TV ANYMORE.ITS EFFECTING MY EYESIGHTS.I DON'T FEEL SPECIAL(AS MONITORING IS NOT AN APPOINTED OFFICIAL WORK FOR ME WHICH GIVES ME CREDIT OF SOME CONSTRUCTIVE WORK..OR POSITIVITY IN LIFE!!!...THOUGH AT TIMES I DO FEEL AS IF ITS MY RESPONSIBILITY TO DO SO..ISN'T IT CRAZZY???...WHILE DOING THAT AT TIMES I WRITE COMMENTS WHILE WATCHING TV AS IF I WANT TO ANSWER BACK PERSON'S COMMENT I HAVE SEEN!!....ISN'T THAT CRAAZY??...AS I DID FEW DAYS BACK WHILE WATCHING MUSHAARAF SAHIB ON TIMES NOW!!...HIS INTERVIEW WITH ARNAB GOSWAMI AFTER WIKILEAKS HIT...AND RAHUL GANDJI'S COMMENT ON "HINDU TERRORISM IS MORE DANGEROUS" CAME)
VIBHA TAILANG
....OR DON'T HAVE LEADERSHIP QUALITIES IN GENERAL!!!
THIS IS ONE POINT AGENDA FOR ME TO WORK ON NOW,
....OTHER THEN MANY OTHER WORK,
...I WANT TO BE A ROLE MODEL FOR MY DAUGHTER,CAN'T SAY ABOUT OTHERS!!
GOOD WISHES TO ME!!
(PLZ REMIND ME WHENEVER I TRY TO THINK OR WORK FOR OTHERS...OR COUNTRY...AS I HAD PROMISED TO MYSELF TO WORK FOR SELF TILL ITS VERY IMPORTANT TO INTERFERE IN OTHERS MATTER)NO MORE CRICKET AFTER THIS WORLD CUP FOR ME!!
...AND HAVE TO TRY TO CONTROL ALL MY EMOTIONS INCLUDING ANGER(NOT TO BE LIKE MANOJ BAJPAI OF SHOOL), AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE...NO MORE EVEN ACTING SHACTING WHICH WE DOES AT TIMES....DON'T WANT ANYONE'S "NAMES" GET MALIGN!!....I WISH FOR ALL THAT THEY MAKE PEOPLE AROUND THEM PROUD OF THEM...BUT "DOOSRON KE JAI SE PEHLE,KHUDD KO JAI KARE"...WHICH MEANS PREACH OTHERS LATER, FIRST LEARN TO CONTROL OWN EMOTIONS AND CORRECT THEMSELF IF ANY DEFECT IN ONE'S PERSONALITY IS THERE!!! )
PLZ DON'T REMIND ME IF DEEPIKA DIED IN SOME MOVIE I SHOULD ALSO SAY ADIEU..."AAAP TOO THEE" ABB NAHIN HEIN,YOU'RE FINISHED!!...THESE ARE "MOMENTARY COMMENTS"...IN SOME OR OTHER CONTEXT!!!...AS I HAVE CREATED THIS PLATFORM FOR SELF,WILL WORK WHETHER "ONE THINK I AM DEAD OR ALIVE","ACCEPT IT THAT I AM THERE STILL WORKING AND CONTRIBUTING OR NOT" OR "YOU'RE BETTER OR WORSE THEN OTHERS".HAUSALLA NAHIN TOOTENEIN DENE KA KYA???..RASTE KANTAHEEN HOKER BANNTEI JAYEINGE!!
...EVEN GHARELU WOMEN CAN DO WELL...AFTER MY ENCOURAGEMENT 2YRS BACK MY YOUNGER SISTER HAS GIVEN EXAMS(AFTER LONG GAP) FOR SOME GOVT POST IN HER HUSBAND'S OFFICE...APPLIED,GIVEN WRITTEN TEST,INTERVIEW WHICH SHE QUALIFIED IN FINAL STAGE,BUT HER HUSBAND REFUSE TO DO SHIFARISH(HER NAME WAS IN WAITING LIST)..NOW SHE IS DOING MBA.EVEN MY CHHOTI BHABHI STARTED DOING SOCIAL WORK VOLUNTARILY AND USED TO TEACH DROPOUT KIDS OF MAZDOORS AT CONSTRUCTION SITES WITH HER CMD'S WIFE AND GROUP OF NHPC CLUB...FEW YRS BACK(AT SOORAJKUND SITE/FARIDABAAD)...SHE WAS A SCHOOL TEACHER(D.A.V) BEFORE HER MARRIAGE-I HAD TAUGHT TUITIONS TO DHOBI'S KIDS AT HOME VOLUNTARILY)...NOW SHE IS IN CHANDHIGAARH AND ELDER BRO'S FAMILY HAS SHIFTED TO GREATER.NOIDA
...EVEN DIDI DISLIKED JIJAJI'S KOSHISH OF SOCIAL WORK'S...HIS INITIATIVE SAMANATA OR ACTIVITY FOR YOUTH FOR EQUALITY(EVEN I AM MEMBER OF IT AND SUDHIRJI DO GET INVITATIONS) INITIALLY DURING STAY IN HARIDWAR AS HE WAS DOING FULL TIME WORK BUT HELPED IN HIS WORK AFTER MY SUGGESTIONS.NOW LEFT IT AS THEY SHIFTED TO NOIDA....OR TO MOTIVATING ADITI TO HAVE A GOOD PROFESSIONAL WORK EXPERIENCE BEFORE GETTING MARRIED.AFTER THAT IT WILL BE HER DECISION TO WORK OR NOT.THOUGH I WOULD LIKE HER TO MAKE HER NAME IN LIFE WITH HER QUALITIES AND TALENT.EVEN TO SUDHIRJI TO CONTRIBUTE BACK TO BIKANER- HIS HOME TOWN IN SOME WAY!!...HE DID BY TRYING FOR A TRAIN- DELHI TO BIKANER WHICH WAS !BADLY NEEDED!!...EVEN CONSTRUCTION OF AIRPORT IN NAAL OF BIKANER IS IN PROGRESS.
WON'T TALK ABOUT OTHER MALE OR FEMALE OR KIDS OF OUR BOTH SIDES OF FAMILY OR EVEN FRIENDS...IF I HAVE ENCOURAGED,HELPED IN SOME WAY...IN THEIR PERSONAL-EMOTIONAL,PROFESSIONAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH PROBLEMS...OR ABOUT SPIRITUAL TALK OF HEALING, WHICH PEOPLE SAY MOTIVATIONAL TALK...IN SO MANY(46) YEARS(MANY OF YOU ALL HAVE DONE THAT...SAAB KARTEIN HEIN)...THAT THEY NEED TO ACKNOWLEDGE INSTEAD OF PUTTING FINGURES ON MY DINCHARRYA/OR SOME GOSSIPS WHICH CAN BE MERE SPECULATIONS BASED OF FICTIONS...OR THEY SHOULD TRY TO GO IN DEPTH AND FIND OUT REALITIES...THEN THEY WOULD FIND SOME OF MY QUALITIES AND ACHIEVEMENTS ALSO...OR ACCEPT THAT WHAT THEY SAID WAS BASED ON FICTIONS...WHICH THEY CLAIM THEY DON'T SEE(GOOD EVEN I DON'T WANT TO SEE...IF I'LL WILL LET YOU ALL KNOW)...IT APPLIES ON BOTH SIDE OF MY FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS..."AAAROP TOOO AAROOP HOTE HEIN JAB TAK SAABIT NA HO JAYEIN...CHAHE HUM LAGAIN YA AAP...ONE CAN NOT BECOME MALLIKA SHERAWAT/MALLIYKA KHAN/..LATAJI/AASHA BHONSLE/OR ANY ONE ...LALLUJI/NITISHJI...NARENDRA MODI..NEITHER INDIRA GANDHI/NEHRU OR MAHATMA GANDHIJI JUST LIKE THAT???!!!
...BUT DEFINITLY WANTED TO BE RAGS TO RICHES(SAMRIDDH) LIKE STARS IN MANY SERIALS OR MOVIES CAN BE CONSIDERED VERY AMBITIOUS...BUT OVER DO IS BAD IN ANYTHING- EXCEPT COMEDY...OR TRYING TO CREATE SOMETHING OUT OF NOTHING.
IF I CAN MOTIVATE THEM AND MAKE THEM TO CONTRIBUTE TO SOCIETY (AS A SOCIAL WORKER)MORE THEN HOUSEHOLD WORK...WHY CAN'T I DO IT MYSELF WHO NOW HAVE A FREE TIME AND GOT A REGISTERED NGO(EARLIER WITHOUT IT I HAD WORKED) AND ITS REGISTERED OFFICIAL WEBSITE....AND ITS INITIATIVE WEBMAGAZINE-"AAWAAZ."!!!
I KNOW WHATEVER I HAVE WRITTEN IN MY BLOGS(3BLOGS) HAS HOT UP SOME OLD DAYS TALKS WHICH PEOPLE MAY HAVE FORGOTTEN OTHERWISE...BUT IT WAS IMPORTANT FOR ONCE AND FINALLY HOW "MEIN AAYEE HOON U.P./BIHAR LOOTNE"-"katcch baniyaan group"...SATYA/SHOOL/SHANTI(AND ITS DIFFERENT CHARACTERS INCLUDING TULSI,NIDHI..ETC)...TILL TODAY'S SCENE....WAS GETTING WORSE!!!BUT IN A WAY ITS GOOD THAT ALL KIND OF EXPOSE REVEALED IN/BY MEDIA...WHETHER INSPIRED BY FICTION WHICH CANNOT BE 100% TRUTH OF ANYONE'S LIFE...AS LIFE CANNOT BE SO MUCH FILMY OR MASALEDAAR BUT IT IS REALITY AND DO EXIST...!! FOR EXAMPLE CASES OF BABA'S PERSONAL LIVES/CRIME/CORRUPTION/SCAMS/SUPERTITIONS/DISASTER ETC...EMOTIONAL OUTBRUSTS/ROAD RAGE/FICTIONS/REALITY(ITS MIXTURE...AS PEOPLE STARTED LIVING IN IT AND LIKING IT)....AND NOW CLARITY THOUGH I CAN'T SAY IF ALL MISCONCEPTION HAS CLEARED OR NOT AS NO DEAL/SAUDA /CORRUPTION/CRIMINAL CASES IS ON US ...CAN'T SAY ABOUT 'KATHNI-KARNI KA FARQ'(LITTLE KABZA AT OUR RESIDENTIAL PLOT IS LEGALLY DECLARED IN OUR HOUSE TAX FORM AND WE PAY TAX FOR THAT SPACE ALSO...SO WE ARE NOT WRONG IN ANYWAY...THOUGH WE HAVE GOT OCCASIONAL NOTICES FOR HOUSE TAX OR INCOME TAXES...WHICCH FINALLY PROVED THAT WE WERE RIGHT)
... THOUGH NOT INTERESTED IN WATCHING MUCH TV ANYMORE.ITS EFFECTING MY EYESIGHTS.I DON'T FEEL SPECIAL(AS MONITORING IS NOT AN APPOINTED OFFICIAL WORK FOR ME WHICH GIVES ME CREDIT OF SOME CONSTRUCTIVE WORK..OR POSITIVITY IN LIFE!!!...THOUGH AT TIMES I DO FEEL AS IF ITS MY RESPONSIBILITY TO DO SO..ISN'T IT CRAZZY???...WHILE DOING THAT AT TIMES I WRITE COMMENTS WHILE WATCHING TV AS IF I WANT TO ANSWER BACK PERSON'S COMMENT I HAVE SEEN!!....ISN'T THAT CRAAZY??...AS I DID FEW DAYS BACK WHILE WATCHING MUSHAARAF SAHIB ON TIMES NOW!!...HIS INTERVIEW WITH ARNAB GOSWAMI AFTER WIKILEAKS HIT...AND RAHUL GANDJI'S COMMENT ON "HINDU TERRORISM IS MORE DANGEROUS" CAME)
VIBHA TAILANG
Sunday, March 27, 2011
Nuisance
Nuisance is bore,drag,irritating or anything or anyone,
who annoy's you or irritates you.
It depends on person's nature and taste,
what they personally consider as a nuisance!!!
Vibha Tailang
I FOUND RUNNING WATER UNNECCESSARILY NUISSANCE.IN OUR COUNTRY WHISTEBLOWERS ARE CONSIDERED NUISSENCE AND GET KILLED.I FOUND MANY MOVIES NUISSANCE FOR EXAMPLE "15 PARK AVENUE(NOW I REMEMBER)"-..."I DON'T REMEMBER ITS COMPLETE NAME BUT SMT SHABANA AZMI,RAHUL BOSE,ETC WERE ACTED IN IT.SHABANAJI COULDN'T MARRY AS SHE WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER MOTHER AND YOUNGER SISTER..APARNA SEN'S DAUGHTER(MS KONKANA SEN) WHO BECAME INSANE AFTER SOME INCIDENCE AND USED TO REMEMBER SOME OLD INCIDENCES,PROMISES(HER FRIEND WHOM SHE WAS ENGAGED WITH BEFORE ACCIDENT BUT WAS MARRIED BY THEN TO SOMEONE ELSE,WHICH SHE COULDN'T ACCEPT) AND CRY FOR SADDAM WHILE WATCHING TV,THAT PEOPLE(AMERICAN'S) WILL KILL HIM!!....CAN'T SAY HOW ONE GET SUCH INTERESTING IDEAS OR CONCEPT AND SUCH PRESENTATION OF IT LIKE THIS IN FORM OF MOVIES/FICTIONS???...WELL GOOD WISHES TO MOVIE MAKERS!!!....VIBHA)
who annoy's you or irritates you.
It depends on person's nature and taste,
what they personally consider as a nuisance!!!
Vibha Tailang
I FOUND RUNNING WATER UNNECCESSARILY NUISSANCE.IN OUR COUNTRY WHISTEBLOWERS ARE CONSIDERED NUISSENCE AND GET KILLED.I FOUND MANY MOVIES NUISSANCE FOR EXAMPLE "15 PARK AVENUE(NOW I REMEMBER)"-..."I DON'T REMEMBER ITS COMPLETE NAME BUT SMT SHABANA AZMI,RAHUL BOSE,ETC WERE ACTED IN IT.SHABANAJI COULDN'T MARRY AS SHE WANTED TO TAKE CARE OF HER MOTHER AND YOUNGER SISTER..APARNA SEN'S DAUGHTER(MS KONKANA SEN) WHO BECAME INSANE AFTER SOME INCIDENCE AND USED TO REMEMBER SOME OLD INCIDENCES,PROMISES(HER FRIEND WHOM SHE WAS ENGAGED WITH BEFORE ACCIDENT BUT WAS MARRIED BY THEN TO SOMEONE ELSE,WHICH SHE COULDN'T ACCEPT) AND CRY FOR SADDAM WHILE WATCHING TV,THAT PEOPLE(AMERICAN'S) WILL KILL HIM!!....CAN'T SAY HOW ONE GET SUCH INTERESTING IDEAS OR CONCEPT AND SUCH PRESENTATION OF IT LIKE THIS IN FORM OF MOVIES/FICTIONS???...WELL GOOD WISHES TO MOVIE MAKERS!!!....VIBHA)
Saturday, March 26, 2011
aacche swastheya ke liye aachook nushka!!!
Kabhi -kabhi choti si kharonch mein infection ho jaye to nasuur bann jatti hain,
kharonch ka ilaaj vaqt per hona zaroori hai,yeh aacche swastheya ke liye aachook nushka hai!!
Vibha Tailang
kharonch ka ilaaj vaqt per hona zaroori hai,yeh aacche swastheya ke liye aachook nushka hai!!
Vibha Tailang
What Can Afghanistan and Pakistan Teach Us About Nonviolence? Wednesday 23 March 2011
What Can Afghanistan and Pakistan Teach Us About Nonviolence?
Wednesday 23 March 2011
by: David Swanson | WarIsACrime.org | News Analysis
What Can Afghanistan and Pakistan Teach Us About Nonviolence?
Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan and Mahatma Gandhi. (Photo: Wikimedia)
I may soon have an opportunity to meet with nonviolent activists in Afghanistan, an area of the world we falsely imagine has earned the name "graveyard of empires" purely through violent resistance. I was educated in the United States and learned in some detail about the lives of several morally repulsive halfwits who happened to have "served" in various U.S. wars, assaults, and genocides. But I was never even taught the name Badshah Khan. Were you?
Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan, 1890-1988, was given the honorary title Badshah by the people of what was then the northwest frontier of India, much as his friend and ally further south, Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, was given the title Mahatma. Khan was a Pashtun, or Pathan, as are many members of the Taliban today.
The imperial occupier 100 years ago was not the United States, but the British empire, and Khan raised a 100,000-strong unarmed, but uniformed and disciplined, nonviolent army to face down a vicious all-out violent assault in an isolated territory, with communication to the outside world cut off. The nonviolent Pashtun became more feared by the British than the violent. The local people became more independent, self-sustaining, and prosperous. And they understood nonviolence to be the weapon of the strong.
A traditionally violent people found continuity in a shift to nonviolence, because they continued to use the strongest weapon they could find -- they had simply found a new one. "That such men," Gandhi said of the Pashtuns, "who would have killed a human being with no more thought than they would kill a sheep or a hen should at the bidding of one man have laid down their arms and accepted nonviolence as the superior weapon sounds almost like a fairy tale."
It was real. The people of Pakistan and Afghanistan have since, with a great deal of encouragement from outside their region, reverted in great measure to the use of violence. But that course is not unalterable. Nor is it unusual. If the United States were occupied by outside powers, it might take us longer to develop a nonviolent resistance than it has taken Afghans during the current war. We used nonviolence to end Jim Crow but used violence to end Iraq.
Khan was a devout Muslim who would always remain a devout Muslim, one who thought his religion required nonviolence. Beginning in 1910, Khan opened schools in the mountainous region he grew up in. He opened schools for boys and for girls. He taught agriculture, sanitation, self-sufficiency, and nonviolent resistance to empire. Khan learned of Gandhi in 1915 and joined him in calling for nonviolent opposition to the British in 1919, for which Khan was locked up for 6 months.
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In 1920, with Khan's support, the Indian National Congress resolved to nonviolently achieve self-rule. Khan continued building schools and going to jail for it. If you've ever seen a photo of Gandhi and Khan, the latter appears a giant towering over the Mahatma. A British deputy commissioner expressed disbelief in Khan's professed nonviolence, and Khan credited Gandhi. Asked what he would have done if not for Gandhi, Khan placed his gigantic hands around two bars of his jail cell and slowly pulled them apart. "That is what I would have done to you," he said. He was sentenced to 3 more years in prison.
When released in 1924, Khan found his movement grown and inspired by his refusal to cooperate with the British. After a pilgrimage to Mecca, Khan formed a new organization, launched a journal in his language, Pushto, encouraged women to participate, continued touring and teaching in the Frontier, and went to meet Gandhi. By 1930 Khan had created his nonviolent volunteer army, the Khudai Khidmatgars, who swore an oath to serve humanity in the name of God and refrain from violence and revenge. Khan continued to be arrested and imprisoned. A nonviolent general strike faced violence but did not join it. Gene Sharp describes a scene recently re-created in Cairo, Egypt:
"When those in front fell down wounded by the shots, those behind came forward with their breasts bared and exposed themselves to the fire, so much so that some people got as many as 21 bullet wounds in their bodies, and all the people stood their ground without getting into a panic."
This continued for six hours. When an elite military unit called the Garhwal Rifles was ordered to fire on an unarmed crowd, its members refused and were themselves court-martialed and sent to prison.
The Frontier was made a province with an indigenous minister at the head of the government. The British still threatened to arrest Khan, but Gandhi threatened to launch a new nonviolent campaign if they did. Khan told the British what Afghans or Pakistanis might tell the United States and NATO today: If "half the money spent in ruination and the killing of tribesmen" were used to develop cottage industries and schools, the British would not need to fear Pathans.
In 1931 the British arrested Khan and Gandhi and escalated their brutality. In 1934 Khan was released but banned from the Frontier. He went to live with Gandhi, to organize the Muslims in Bengal, and to spread the word in Bombay of what his people had been doing to resist the British in the Northwest. In 1937, elections of legislative councils were held for the first time, and Khan's brother was elected prime minister of the Frontier. His first act was to remove the ban on his brother, who immediately returned and resumed his work. The next year, Gandhi visited twice.
Khan and Gandhi left the Indian National Congress rather than support possible violent participation in World War II, returning to it only when that idea was dropped.
Khan and his army marched into British government offices carrying Congress flags and chanting anti-British slogans. Khan and 50 nonviolent soldiers were beaten by police with sticks, breaking two of his ribs. With Gandhi and Khan both imprisoned again, India turned violent, but the Frontier continued with nonviolent resistance. Supporters asked Khan, in prison, if they could cut British communications lines without hurting anyone, and he replied that they could if they turned themselves into the police right afterwards.
By 1945 Winston Churchill had retired, a new British government promised freedom for India, and political prisoners were released. But Gandhi and Khan had to go to Bengal to calm an outbreak of Hindu-Muslim violence. A primarily nonviolent, and even amicable, victory over empire came in 1947, with independence from the British. That accomplishment cannot be overstated.
But with independence in 1947 came the division of Pakistan from India, which Gandhi and Khan opposed. Gandhi planned a walk to the Frontier but was murdered by a Hindu who viewed him as pro-Muslim. While the Frontier had elected officials from the ranks of Khan's army, Pakistan was run by the Muslim league. In 1948, Khan was imprisoned for 7 years for being pro-Hindu.
During the first 30 years of Pakistan's existence, Khan spent 15 in prison. When free, he pushed for democracy and an independent Pashtun province. In 1956 he and three other leaders formed a People's Party, which functioned as the major opposition party during the 1960s and 1970s. When Khan died in 1988, a new empire was dying in Afghanistan, the Soviet Union. Despite heavy fighting, both sides in that Afghan war declared a ceasefire for Khan's funeral and burial.
Khan, like Gandhi, taught the elimination of anger and fear, and the dominance of strength, love, and courage. Khan opposed passivity, and advocated fighting with the most powerful weapon available: nonviolence. He achieved much for his people, despite the set-back of religious division and the revival of violence. And, as people learn from those who have gone before, it is entirely possible that most of what Khan achieved has yet to happen. In fact, we are all in a lot of trouble if that does not prove true. Unless ignoring and bombing Libya, for example, are not the only two conceivable options, violence will be the end of us all.
Wednesday 23 March 2011
by: David Swanson | WarIsACrime.org | News Analysis
What Can Afghanistan and Pakistan Teach Us About Nonviolence?
Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan and Mahatma Gandhi. (Photo: Wikimedia)
I may soon have an opportunity to meet with nonviolent activists in Afghanistan, an area of the world we falsely imagine has earned the name "graveyard of empires" purely through violent resistance. I was educated in the United States and learned in some detail about the lives of several morally repulsive halfwits who happened to have "served" in various U.S. wars, assaults, and genocides. But I was never even taught the name Badshah Khan. Were you?
Khan Abdul Ghaffar Khan, 1890-1988, was given the honorary title Badshah by the people of what was then the northwest frontier of India, much as his friend and ally further south, Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi, was given the title Mahatma. Khan was a Pashtun, or Pathan, as are many members of the Taliban today.
The imperial occupier 100 years ago was not the United States, but the British empire, and Khan raised a 100,000-strong unarmed, but uniformed and disciplined, nonviolent army to face down a vicious all-out violent assault in an isolated territory, with communication to the outside world cut off. The nonviolent Pashtun became more feared by the British than the violent. The local people became more independent, self-sustaining, and prosperous. And they understood nonviolence to be the weapon of the strong.
A traditionally violent people found continuity in a shift to nonviolence, because they continued to use the strongest weapon they could find -- they had simply found a new one. "That such men," Gandhi said of the Pashtuns, "who would have killed a human being with no more thought than they would kill a sheep or a hen should at the bidding of one man have laid down their arms and accepted nonviolence as the superior weapon sounds almost like a fairy tale."
It was real. The people of Pakistan and Afghanistan have since, with a great deal of encouragement from outside their region, reverted in great measure to the use of violence. But that course is not unalterable. Nor is it unusual. If the United States were occupied by outside powers, it might take us longer to develop a nonviolent resistance than it has taken Afghans during the current war. We used nonviolence to end Jim Crow but used violence to end Iraq.
Khan was a devout Muslim who would always remain a devout Muslim, one who thought his religion required nonviolence. Beginning in 1910, Khan opened schools in the mountainous region he grew up in. He opened schools for boys and for girls. He taught agriculture, sanitation, self-sufficiency, and nonviolent resistance to empire. Khan learned of Gandhi in 1915 and joined him in calling for nonviolent opposition to the British in 1919, for which Khan was locked up for 6 months.
Busy schedule? Click here to keep up with Truthout with free email updates.
In 1920, with Khan's support, the Indian National Congress resolved to nonviolently achieve self-rule. Khan continued building schools and going to jail for it. If you've ever seen a photo of Gandhi and Khan, the latter appears a giant towering over the Mahatma. A British deputy commissioner expressed disbelief in Khan's professed nonviolence, and Khan credited Gandhi. Asked what he would have done if not for Gandhi, Khan placed his gigantic hands around two bars of his jail cell and slowly pulled them apart. "That is what I would have done to you," he said. He was sentenced to 3 more years in prison.
When released in 1924, Khan found his movement grown and inspired by his refusal to cooperate with the British. After a pilgrimage to Mecca, Khan formed a new organization, launched a journal in his language, Pushto, encouraged women to participate, continued touring and teaching in the Frontier, and went to meet Gandhi. By 1930 Khan had created his nonviolent volunteer army, the Khudai Khidmatgars, who swore an oath to serve humanity in the name of God and refrain from violence and revenge. Khan continued to be arrested and imprisoned. A nonviolent general strike faced violence but did not join it. Gene Sharp describes a scene recently re-created in Cairo, Egypt:
"When those in front fell down wounded by the shots, those behind came forward with their breasts bared and exposed themselves to the fire, so much so that some people got as many as 21 bullet wounds in their bodies, and all the people stood their ground without getting into a panic."
This continued for six hours. When an elite military unit called the Garhwal Rifles was ordered to fire on an unarmed crowd, its members refused and were themselves court-martialed and sent to prison.
The Frontier was made a province with an indigenous minister at the head of the government. The British still threatened to arrest Khan, but Gandhi threatened to launch a new nonviolent campaign if they did. Khan told the British what Afghans or Pakistanis might tell the United States and NATO today: If "half the money spent in ruination and the killing of tribesmen" were used to develop cottage industries and schools, the British would not need to fear Pathans.
In 1931 the British arrested Khan and Gandhi and escalated their brutality. In 1934 Khan was released but banned from the Frontier. He went to live with Gandhi, to organize the Muslims in Bengal, and to spread the word in Bombay of what his people had been doing to resist the British in the Northwest. In 1937, elections of legislative councils were held for the first time, and Khan's brother was elected prime minister of the Frontier. His first act was to remove the ban on his brother, who immediately returned and resumed his work. The next year, Gandhi visited twice.
Khan and Gandhi left the Indian National Congress rather than support possible violent participation in World War II, returning to it only when that idea was dropped.
Khan and his army marched into British government offices carrying Congress flags and chanting anti-British slogans. Khan and 50 nonviolent soldiers were beaten by police with sticks, breaking two of his ribs. With Gandhi and Khan both imprisoned again, India turned violent, but the Frontier continued with nonviolent resistance. Supporters asked Khan, in prison, if they could cut British communications lines without hurting anyone, and he replied that they could if they turned themselves into the police right afterwards.
By 1945 Winston Churchill had retired, a new British government promised freedom for India, and political prisoners were released. But Gandhi and Khan had to go to Bengal to calm an outbreak of Hindu-Muslim violence. A primarily nonviolent, and even amicable, victory over empire came in 1947, with independence from the British. That accomplishment cannot be overstated.
But with independence in 1947 came the division of Pakistan from India, which Gandhi and Khan opposed. Gandhi planned a walk to the Frontier but was murdered by a Hindu who viewed him as pro-Muslim. While the Frontier had elected officials from the ranks of Khan's army, Pakistan was run by the Muslim league. In 1948, Khan was imprisoned for 7 years for being pro-Hindu.
During the first 30 years of Pakistan's existence, Khan spent 15 in prison. When free, he pushed for democracy and an independent Pashtun province. In 1956 he and three other leaders formed a People's Party, which functioned as the major opposition party during the 1960s and 1970s. When Khan died in 1988, a new empire was dying in Afghanistan, the Soviet Union. Despite heavy fighting, both sides in that Afghan war declared a ceasefire for Khan's funeral and burial.
Khan, like Gandhi, taught the elimination of anger and fear, and the dominance of strength, love, and courage. Khan opposed passivity, and advocated fighting with the most powerful weapon available: nonviolence. He achieved much for his people, despite the set-back of religious division and the revival of violence. And, as people learn from those who have gone before, it is entirely possible that most of what Khan achieved has yet to happen. In fact, we are all in a lot of trouble if that does not prove true. Unless ignoring and bombing Libya, for example, are not the only two conceivable options, violence will be the end of us all.
Friday, March 25, 2011
उर्जा का अति दोहन,मानवता का शोषण है
Environnement-Pryavaran
उर्जा का अति दोहन,मानवता का शोषण है
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुट्ठी में,उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में,
माँ के आंचल में,मेरे घर के अंगान में.
गाँव के पीपल में,चौपाल के बूढ़े बर्गाद में.
नन्हीं सी कोंपल में,नडी किनारे पान्घात. में.
गली में,मोहाले में,तालाब में जंगल में.
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
शहर की सड़क में,तड़क-भड़क में.
गार्री.में जहाज़ में,देश की आवाज़ में
कैसे बचैयें इसे,कैसे बधैयें इसे
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
हवा में,मेरी सांसों में
कण कण में समाई आपार उर्जा
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
तेल की कुओं में
नदियों की धारों में
खानों,खादानों में
सूरज की तपन में
कण-कण में समाई आपार उर्जा
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
उर्जा के बिना जीवन
सिर्फ है एक जंग
उर्जा नहीं तो जीवन
रसहीन है और बदरंग
उर्जा का खूब दोहन
अपना ही है शोषण
बिगड़े पर्यावरण.
फैलता है प्रदूशन
उर्जा के बिना जीवन
रसहीन है,बदरंग है
सबको मिले उर्जा
ऐसा हो इंतजाम
न हो इसकी किल्लत
न बढे इस्सका दाम
इसकी कीमतों से
Anटी हुई ढीली ....
जनता के चेहरे
त्रस्त और हुई पीली
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
कण कण में समाई है आपार उर्जा ...!!!
विभा तैलंग
(aawaaz.aditifoundation.co.in...environment category)
उर्जा का अति दोहन,मानवता का शोषण है
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुट्ठी में,उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में,
माँ के आंचल में,मेरे घर के अंगान में.
गाँव के पीपल में,चौपाल के बूढ़े बर्गाद में.
नन्हीं सी कोंपल में,नडी किनारे पान्घात. में.
गली में,मोहाले में,तालाब में जंगल में.
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
शहर की सड़क में,तड़क-भड़क में.
गार्री.में जहाज़ में,देश की आवाज़ में
कैसे बचैयें इसे,कैसे बधैयें इसे
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
हवा में,मेरी सांसों में
कण कण में समाई आपार उर्जा
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
तेल की कुओं में
नदियों की धारों में
खानों,खादानों में
सूरज की तपन में
कण-कण में समाई आपार उर्जा
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
उर्जा के बिना जीवन
सिर्फ है एक जंग
उर्जा नहीं तो जीवन
रसहीन है और बदरंग
उर्जा का खूब दोहन
अपना ही है शोषण
बिगड़े पर्यावरण.
फैलता है प्रदूशन
उर्जा के बिना जीवन
रसहीन है,बदरंग है
सबको मिले उर्जा
ऐसा हो इंतजाम
न हो इसकी किल्लत
न बढे इस्सका दाम
इसकी कीमतों से
Anटी हुई ढीली ....
जनता के चेहरे
त्रस्त और हुई पीली
उर्जा की ताक़त मेरी मुठी में
उर्जा की ताक़त तेरी मुठी में
कण कण में समाई है आपार उर्जा ...!!!
विभा तैलंग
(aawaaz.aditifoundation.co.in...environment category)
Thursday, March 24, 2011
Constitutionals Provisions for Nepal's Business and Economy trying to pursuade folks not to impose failed ideologies(good points need2 b taken-vibha)
Today discussions at CCD @ 2 pm - Constitutionals Provisions for Nepal's Business and Economy...trying to pursuade folks to get away from imposing failed ideologies....
trying to figure out how socialism, mixed economy and partnerships all can be clubbed into one concotion for economic structure for the constitutuion....for a free market and economic freedom propogant, this sounds really sanskrit......
I think the word 'fusion' is best left to music and food...
A COMMENT BY MR SUJEEV SHAKYA. I AGREE WITH HIM PARTIALLY.HE IS OUR FRIEND FROM NEPAL.
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Manjushree Thapa I'm surprised that this should be a matter for mention in the constitution, free market or mixed economy, either way. Isn't it more appropriate to leave it to elected governments to decide their policies?
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Sujeev Shakya @ Manjushree...yes...but the definition of our mixed economy sounds more classical socialism that has failed badly....no one has been able to give me what will get into the constitution..its like recipe for bloody mary where people have their own ones...and a bar in kathmandu actually uses whisky to make bloody mary! this is sort of Nepali concotion is what I cannot understand....
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Manjushree Thapa Well I'm a bit of a mixed economy gal myself, think it's worked fine in Europe and Canada, and even in India, where it laid the groundwork for liberalization. But still wonder whether it's something that should be specified in the constitution (beyond vague guarantees about private property, etc.).
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Sujeev Shakya Yes, but using socialism and mixed economy together is an oxymoron. the socialism defined at times here is state ownership of capital and business.....China too is a form of mixed economy, but some think that China has gone too far into the capitalist territory...so it has to be some steps back...YES...best to keep these debates away from constitution I agree...
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I thought - mixed economy does have the elements of socialism in it. The thing we lack is not choices between socialism , capitalism or mixed economy - but a system to monitor its functioning. If capitalism / privatization would lead to ex...amples like Hariishiddi bricks, Bansbari Jutta, Biratnagar Jute, or Bhrikuti Kagaj.... I do not know where it will take things. A system that deals with evaluation of management competency, and economic governance is something that may be worth considering. Fusion creates confusion - if the person driving the fusion is confused :-)See More
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Sujeev Shakya @ Kiran, good examples of govt businesses are No Oil Corporation (NOC), No Electricity Authority (NEA) and No Aircrafts Corporation (NAC)...but yes the private sector also here have to do a lot to establish their credibility...
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Nar Kumar Chhantyal @Manjushree I don't think Mixed economy worked in India and and laid the groundwork for liberalization. It somewhat worked in Europe, but nowadays they are feeling the pain of it.
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I don't know whether India has written something like mixed or free market on their constitution. I guess they haven't.
The most positive part of Indian constitution is 'Property Rights'. which obviously fueling the free market system.
And ...mixed nature of economy is hampering the farmers and poor the most. I can't sell my farm products out of my state. This is socialist way. And I can purchase whole lot of Unilever products all around India. This is market approach. Look which producer is suffering here
MY COMMENT---(I AM TRYING TO INCREASE MY CREDIBILITIES IN A WAY,SO THAT..ONE CAN SAY THEY ARE PROUD OF ME FINALLY!!!...VIBHA)
---As you mentioned india...i want to suggest...Well one need to incorporate good points from even failed idealogies.Indian constitution does that.I think Indian topographical,demographical,population...many aspects are quite different from Nepal's...so as economy.Socialism has failed,though its elements are there in our constitution.We all are equals,deserve everything equally thats why social justice and reservations are there.About economy- socialist way is to keep state economy and trade in states hands.One can buy from whichever state but cannot sell their products out side own state...which didn't work in our country as every state is not self independent,neither they produces everything they want to have!!...so they not self relaint or self sustainable...though this theory was quite ideologically good...many step ahead of initial batter system which can make locals self independent,self sufficiant or self content with lesser choices!!
...This is what even Gandhian economics says.
Mixed economy in which public private government partanerships...lead to open market economy and privatization (and end of licenceraj which had increased corruption and cases of black money.)It lead to finally liberalization and globalization,it suited indian economy and financial growth and even temparament till some extent!!!
....but it resulted in increase of poverty and farmer suicides also...or disbalance and gap between two...rich are richer and poor remain poor...with increase in population....which can be an asset but has added in problems...its other side of coin!!!
Nepal has socialism.Now its opening up.And is not so rich country.Many products/goods are imported from outside.So they need element of all to create original theory according to what suits to there local conditions...instead of some fixed existing ideologies we all are following since years...its my suggestion as a friend.
As much I know about Nepal it is An isolated, agrarian society until the mid-20th century, Nepal entered the modern era in 1951 without schools, hospitals, roads, telecommunications, electric power, industry, or civil service. The country has, however, made progress toward sustainable economic growth since the 1950s and is committed to a program of economic liberalization.
Nepal has used a series of five-year plans in an attempt to make progress in economic development. It completed its ninth economic development plan in 2002; its currency has been made convertible, and 17 state enterprises have been privatized. Foreign aid accounts for more than half of the development budget. Government priorities over the years have been the development of transportation and communication facilities, agriculture, and industry. Since 1975, improved government administration and rural development efforts have been emphasized.
trying to figure out how socialism, mixed economy and partnerships all can be clubbed into one concotion for economic structure for the constitutuion....for a free market and economic freedom propogant, this sounds really sanskrit......
I think the word 'fusion' is best left to music and food...
A COMMENT BY MR SUJEEV SHAKYA. I AGREE WITH HIM PARTIALLY.HE IS OUR FRIEND FROM NEPAL.
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Manjushree Thapa I'm surprised that this should be a matter for mention in the constitution, free market or mixed economy, either way. Isn't it more appropriate to leave it to elected governments to decide their policies?
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Sujeev Shakya @ Manjushree...yes...but the definition of our mixed economy sounds more classical socialism that has failed badly....no one has been able to give me what will get into the constitution..its like recipe for bloody mary where people have their own ones...and a bar in kathmandu actually uses whisky to make bloody mary! this is sort of Nepali concotion is what I cannot understand....
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Manjushree Thapa Well I'm a bit of a mixed economy gal myself, think it's worked fine in Europe and Canada, and even in India, where it laid the groundwork for liberalization. But still wonder whether it's something that should be specified in the constitution (beyond vague guarantees about private property, etc.).
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Sujeev Shakya Yes, but using socialism and mixed economy together is an oxymoron. the socialism defined at times here is state ownership of capital and business.....China too is a form of mixed economy, but some think that China has gone too far into the capitalist territory...so it has to be some steps back...YES...best to keep these debates away from constitution I agree...
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Kiran Krishna Shrestha
I thought - mixed economy does have the elements of socialism in it. The thing we lack is not choices between socialism , capitalism or mixed economy - but a system to monitor its functioning. If capitalism / privatization would lead to ex...amples like Hariishiddi bricks, Bansbari Jutta, Biratnagar Jute, or Bhrikuti Kagaj.... I do not know where it will take things. A system that deals with evaluation of management competency, and economic governance is something that may be worth considering. Fusion creates confusion - if the person driving the fusion is confused :-)See More
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Sujeev Shakya @ Kiran, good examples of govt businesses are No Oil Corporation (NOC), No Electricity Authority (NEA) and No Aircrafts Corporation (NAC)...but yes the private sector also here have to do a lot to establish their credibility...
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Nar Kumar Chhantyal @Manjushree I don't think Mixed economy worked in India and and laid the groundwork for liberalization. It somewhat worked in Europe, but nowadays they are feeling the pain of it.
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Nar Kumar Chhantyal
I don't know whether India has written something like mixed or free market on their constitution. I guess they haven't.
The most positive part of Indian constitution is 'Property Rights'. which obviously fueling the free market system.
And ...mixed nature of economy is hampering the farmers and poor the most. I can't sell my farm products out of my state. This is socialist way. And I can purchase whole lot of Unilever products all around India. This is market approach. Look which producer is suffering here
MY COMMENT---(I AM TRYING TO INCREASE MY CREDIBILITIES IN A WAY,SO THAT..ONE CAN SAY THEY ARE PROUD OF ME FINALLY!!!...VIBHA)
---As you mentioned india...i want to suggest...Well one need to incorporate good points from even failed idealogies.Indian constitution does that.I think Indian topographical,demographical,population...many aspects are quite different from Nepal's...so as economy.Socialism has failed,though its elements are there in our constitution.We all are equals,deserve everything equally thats why social justice and reservations are there.About economy- socialist way is to keep state economy and trade in states hands.One can buy from whichever state but cannot sell their products out side own state...which didn't work in our country as every state is not self independent,neither they produces everything they want to have!!...so they not self relaint or self sustainable...though this theory was quite ideologically good...many step ahead of initial batter system which can make locals self independent,self sufficiant or self content with lesser choices!!
...This is what even Gandhian economics says.
Mixed economy in which public private government partanerships...lead to open market economy and privatization (and end of licenceraj which had increased corruption and cases of black money.)It lead to finally liberalization and globalization,it suited indian economy and financial growth and even temparament till some extent!!!
....but it resulted in increase of poverty and farmer suicides also...or disbalance and gap between two...rich are richer and poor remain poor...with increase in population....which can be an asset but has added in problems...its other side of coin!!!
Nepal has socialism.Now its opening up.And is not so rich country.Many products/goods are imported from outside.So they need element of all to create original theory according to what suits to there local conditions...instead of some fixed existing ideologies we all are following since years...its my suggestion as a friend.
As much I know about Nepal it is An isolated, agrarian society until the mid-20th century, Nepal entered the modern era in 1951 without schools, hospitals, roads, telecommunications, electric power, industry, or civil service. The country has, however, made progress toward sustainable economic growth since the 1950s and is committed to a program of economic liberalization.
Nepal has used a series of five-year plans in an attempt to make progress in economic development. It completed its ninth economic development plan in 2002; its currency has been made convertible, and 17 state enterprises have been privatized. Foreign aid accounts for more than half of the development budget. Government priorities over the years have been the development of transportation and communication facilities, agriculture, and industry. Since 1975, improved government administration and rural development efforts have been emphasized.
Wednesday, March 23, 2011
WE ARE LIVING IN A COUNTRY WHERE EVERYONE
BIG OR NOT SO BIG ARE EQUALS IN THE EYES OF LAW OF LAND,
AND PUNISHABLE IF ONE HAS PROVEN GUILTY.
BUT IF SITUATIONS ARE EXTRA-ORDINARY,
INSTEAD OF PUTTING BLAME ON EACH OTHER
ONE NEED TO UNDERSTAND FIRST WHAT AND WHY ANYTHING IS HAPPENING
HOW IT HAS HAPPENED EARLIER,AND IF WOULD GET REPEATED
WHAT ARE THE COMPULSIVE STEPS ONE SHOULD TAKE TO RECTIFY IT.
ONE'S MOTTO SHOULD BE LIVE AND LET OTHERS LIVE,
WORK AND GROW AND LET OTHERS ALSO EVOLVE IN THEIR OWN SPECTRUM WHATEVER INTEREST, ABILITY,CAPABILITY,OPPORTUNITY AND LIMITATIONS ONE HAS AND CAN EXPLORE INSTEAD OF PROVING ONE WRONG AND OTHERS RIGHT...LET OTHERS DECIDE WHOM THEY ADMIRE OR SEE AS INSPIRATIONS AND AS A ROLE MODEL.
ONE WHO THINK I COMPLICATED EVERYTHING SHOULD SEE HOW THEY REACTED AND CONTRIBUTED,
AT THE SAMETIME MUST UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS HAPPENNING IN SO MANY YEARS,ITS IMPACT-GOOD OR BAD IN PEOPLE WHO GET INFLUENCED OR MAKE IMPRESSIONS BY LISTENING OR WATCHING...INSTEAD OF KNOWING REALITY OR ACCEPTING THIS FACT THAT THEY EVEN WATCH AND GET INFLUENCED BY FICTIONS OR OTHER MEDIUM OF MASSMEDIA OR PEOPLE REACTIONS WHICH NOW THEY COME TO KNOW ABOUT...I MEAN ABBRETIONS...ITS NOT MERE GOSSIPS OR SPECULATIONS OF ANY KIND BUT IT CAN MAKE DIFFERENCE IN INNOCENTS LIFE....SPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE JUST ENJOYING WITH KIDS PLAYING JUGALBANDI A STEP,OR RHYMING LINES OR MAYBE DISCUSSING FICTIONS....AND HOW IT RESULTED....AS IF ITS HAPPENING ONE CAN NOT PUT BLIND EYES...WHETHER THEY WATCH IT OR NOT(ONE SHOULD KNOW ITS TRUTH IN THEIR HEART...WELL ADDICTION IS BAD....BUT IF ONE FEEL ITS IMPORTANT TO PROVE "ON RECORD" HOW ANYTHING IS HAPPENNING ITS PROCESS...ONE NEED TO OVERDO TO SHOW ...AS I DID....I THINK INSTEAD OF CRITICIZING ONE SHOULD PRAISE THE RISK FACTOR....OR GUTS...ATLEAST ONE UNDERSTAND HOW "VICIOUS CIRCLE" OF FICTION,SOUNDBYTES,ACTION,REACTIONS,ITS INTERPETATIONS,ISSUES,AND MIX OF EVERYTHING AROUND YOU OR ON SCREEN,ON GROUND KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY....HOW SO MANY THINGS HAS HAPPENED GOOD OR BAD...PRAISE OR CRITICISM...SHANTI OR ASHANTI(AT HOME OR IN STATES...ATLEAST WHAT I WAS WATCHING AND BELIEVING OR STILL BELIEVE IN...ONE CAN CHECK THE RECORD......FAME OR DEFAME....MAKING ELDERS HAPPY TO WIN THEIR HEART OR SAVE THEM FROM WRONG IMPRESSIONS...ETC????..IF ANYONE FELT BAD IN PROCESS DUE TO ANY OF MY ACTIONS,GESTURES,WORDS OR REACTIONS THEN I AM SORRY BUT....I WON'T LIKE TO REPEAT ANY THING WHICH HURTS OTHERS,BUT THEN DON'T WANT ANYONE TO EXPECT ANYTHING EITHER FROM ME,FORGET ABOUT IF ANYONE UNDERSTANDS MY FEELINGS!!!....GOOD WISHES TO ALL!!!
BIG OR NOT SO BIG ARE EQUALS IN THE EYES OF LAW OF LAND,
AND PUNISHABLE IF ONE HAS PROVEN GUILTY.
BUT IF SITUATIONS ARE EXTRA-ORDINARY,
INSTEAD OF PUTTING BLAME ON EACH OTHER
ONE NEED TO UNDERSTAND FIRST WHAT AND WHY ANYTHING IS HAPPENING
HOW IT HAS HAPPENED EARLIER,AND IF WOULD GET REPEATED
WHAT ARE THE COMPULSIVE STEPS ONE SHOULD TAKE TO RECTIFY IT.
ONE'S MOTTO SHOULD BE LIVE AND LET OTHERS LIVE,
WORK AND GROW AND LET OTHERS ALSO EVOLVE IN THEIR OWN SPECTRUM WHATEVER INTEREST, ABILITY,CAPABILITY,OPPORTUNITY AND LIMITATIONS ONE HAS AND CAN EXPLORE INSTEAD OF PROVING ONE WRONG AND OTHERS RIGHT...LET OTHERS DECIDE WHOM THEY ADMIRE OR SEE AS INSPIRATIONS AND AS A ROLE MODEL.
ONE WHO THINK I COMPLICATED EVERYTHING SHOULD SEE HOW THEY REACTED AND CONTRIBUTED,
AT THE SAMETIME MUST UNDERSTAND WHAT WAS HAPPENNING IN SO MANY YEARS,ITS IMPACT-GOOD OR BAD IN PEOPLE WHO GET INFLUENCED OR MAKE IMPRESSIONS BY LISTENING OR WATCHING...INSTEAD OF KNOWING REALITY OR ACCEPTING THIS FACT THAT THEY EVEN WATCH AND GET INFLUENCED BY FICTIONS OR OTHER MEDIUM OF MASSMEDIA OR PEOPLE REACTIONS WHICH NOW THEY COME TO KNOW ABOUT...I MEAN ABBRETIONS...ITS NOT MERE GOSSIPS OR SPECULATIONS OF ANY KIND BUT IT CAN MAKE DIFFERENCE IN INNOCENTS LIFE....SPECIALLY WHEN YOU'RE JUST ENJOYING WITH KIDS PLAYING JUGALBANDI A STEP,OR RHYMING LINES OR MAYBE DISCUSSING FICTIONS....AND HOW IT RESULTED....AS IF ITS HAPPENING ONE CAN NOT PUT BLIND EYES...WHETHER THEY WATCH IT OR NOT(ONE SHOULD KNOW ITS TRUTH IN THEIR HEART...WELL ADDICTION IS BAD....BUT IF ONE FEEL ITS IMPORTANT TO PROVE "ON RECORD" HOW ANYTHING IS HAPPENNING ITS PROCESS...ONE NEED TO OVERDO TO SHOW ...AS I DID....I THINK INSTEAD OF CRITICIZING ONE SHOULD PRAISE THE RISK FACTOR....OR GUTS...ATLEAST ONE UNDERSTAND HOW "VICIOUS CIRCLE" OF FICTION,SOUNDBYTES,ACTION,REACTIONS,ITS INTERPETATIONS,ISSUES,AND MIX OF EVERYTHING AROUND YOU OR ON SCREEN,ON GROUND KNOWINGLY OR UNKNOWINGLY....HOW SO MANY THINGS HAS HAPPENED GOOD OR BAD...PRAISE OR CRITICISM...SHANTI OR ASHANTI(AT HOME OR IN STATES...ATLEAST WHAT I WAS WATCHING AND BELIEVING OR STILL BELIEVE IN...ONE CAN CHECK THE RECORD......FAME OR DEFAME....MAKING ELDERS HAPPY TO WIN THEIR HEART OR SAVE THEM FROM WRONG IMPRESSIONS...ETC????..IF ANYONE FELT BAD IN PROCESS DUE TO ANY OF MY ACTIONS,GESTURES,WORDS OR REACTIONS THEN I AM SORRY BUT....I WON'T LIKE TO REPEAT ANY THING WHICH HURTS OTHERS,BUT THEN DON'T WANT ANYONE TO EXPECT ANYTHING EITHER FROM ME,FORGET ABOUT IF ANYONE UNDERSTANDS MY FEELINGS!!!....GOOD WISHES TO ALL!!!
Tuesday, March 22, 2011
PAPERWORKS AND LAWS ARE NOTEFFECTIVE TILL OUR HEART AND MINDSET WON'T CHANGE....VIBHA
PAPERWORKS AND LAWS ARE IMPORTANT,BUT IT WON'T BECOME EFFECTIVE TILL OUR HEART AND MINDSET WON'T CHANGE.PEOPLE ARE BOUND TO FIND EASY WAY OF CORRUPTION AND LOOPHOLES.SO ONE NEED TO CREATE AWARENESS,SHOW THE WAY OF RELIEF AND FIND THE FINAL SOLUTION INSIDE THE SYSTEM AND OUTSIDE IN EVERY SPHERE!!!
....THEN ONLY THESE LAWS AND PAPERWORKS HAS ANY MEANING AND EFFECTIVENESS.
VIBHA TAILANG
....THEN ONLY THESE LAWS AND PAPERWORKS HAS ANY MEANING AND EFFECTIVENESS.
VIBHA TAILANG
WHAT IS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN COMMERCIALIZATION OF ANY PROFESSION AND DOING BUSINESS!!
WHAT IS DIFFERENCE BETWEEN COMMERCIALIZATION OF ANY PROFESSION AND DOING BUSINESS!!
COMMERCIALIZATION IS TO WORK JUST FOR PROFIT LIKE A SHOPKEEPER DOES...ITS MOSTLY REFER TO ENTERTAINMENT CATEGORY...FOR EXAMPLE NOW IPL IS SPORTSENTERTAINMENT!!!....SO AS EVEN MEDIA IS INFOTAINMENT.....!!! AFTER PRIVATIZATION OF MEDICAL PROFESSION ALSO BECAME BUSSINESS,BUT IN PARAMETER OF SOME ETHICS,IF NOT AS A MISSION. AS IT COMES UNDER SOCIAL WORK CATEGORY.WE SHOULD UNDERSTAND TO DIFFERENTIATE IT.
SAME APPLIES ON ADVERTISIMENTS...ONE CAN MAKE OR USE COMMERCIALS RELATED TO ANY PRODUCT/OR BRANDING OF A PERSON AS A PERSONALITY AND CREATE AN IMAGE...ITS DIFFERENT,SO AS ITS DIFFERENT IN CASE OF SOCIAL CAUSES OR IF ITS FOR NGO/NPO/CSR/PPP!!!
....ITS MY OWN VIEW AND BELIEF.
VIBHA TAILANG
COMMERCIALIZATION IS TO WORK JUST FOR PROFIT LIKE A SHOPKEEPER DOES...ITS MOSTLY REFER TO ENTERTAINMENT CATEGORY...FOR EXAMPLE NOW IPL IS SPORTSENTERTAINMENT!!!....SO AS EVEN MEDIA IS INFOTAINMENT.....!!! AFTER PRIVATIZATION OF MEDICAL PROFESSION ALSO BECAME BUSSINESS,BUT IN PARAMETER OF SOME ETHICS,IF NOT AS A MISSION. AS IT COMES UNDER SOCIAL WORK CATEGORY.WE SHOULD UNDERSTAND TO DIFFERENTIATE IT.
SAME APPLIES ON ADVERTISIMENTS...ONE CAN MAKE OR USE COMMERCIALS RELATED TO ANY PRODUCT/OR BRANDING OF A PERSON AS A PERSONALITY AND CREATE AN IMAGE...ITS DIFFERENT,SO AS ITS DIFFERENT IN CASE OF SOCIAL CAUSES OR IF ITS FOR NGO/NPO/CSR/PPP!!!
....ITS MY OWN VIEW AND BELIEF.
VIBHA TAILANG
Friday, March 18, 2011
RECENTLY I HAVE NOTICED "BOOM" IN CREATIVITY…MAINLY STORY TELLING-,FULL OF IMAGINATION,VISION AND ZEAL!!!
I HAVE NOTICED IN LAST MANY MONTHS ON TV SCREEN ALSO...PEOPLE BELONG TO WHICHEVER STRATA OR CATEGORY ARE SPEAKING OPENLY AND HEADSTRONGLY ABOUT EVERY ISSUES ON CAMERA.
Thursday, March 17, 2011
OUR PRIORITIES-INSTEAD OF RURAL AGAINST URBAN...OR VICE VERSA ..THEY NEED TO GROW TOGETHER
RURAL INDIA NEED TO BE SELF SUSTAINABLE AND SELF DEVOLOPED
SO THAT FOR ALL THE BASIC NECCESSATIES-AND SMALL TO BIG WORK,
STUDY AND LIVLIHOOD,SURVIVAL AND HEALTHCARE
ONE SHOULDN'T HAVE TO FLEE FROM THEIR HOMETOWN,
LIKE URBAN AND DEVOLOPED AREAS POPULATIONS,
EVEN THEY NEED TO HAVE OPTIONS AND CHOICES,
AND RIGHTS TO STUDY,WORK AND LIVE WHEREVER THEY WANT,
IN OWN COUNTRY AND NOT A COMPULSION TO FLEE AS CITIZEN.
AND NOT CONSIDERED AS A "INCREASING LIABILITIES'ON URBAN OR SURBURB AREAS
AND FOR THAT "PEOPLE IN POWER" NEED TO THINK,WHAT SHOULD BE PRIORITIES
FOR FASTER GROWTH AND DEVOLOPMENT....MEANS OF COMMUNICATIONS,
LIKE COMPUTERS(NEED ELECTRICITY AND EDUCATION FIRST TO OPERATE IT...???
AND MOBILES,CARS AND OTHER BASIC HOME APPLIANCES OR
RIGHT TO PRIMARY EUCATION,HEALTHCARE,LIVLIHOOD,HOME,ROADS,
FERTILIZERS,ELECTRICITIES,WATER RESOURCES
WHATEVER MAKE THEM SELF SUSTAINABLE ,SELF RELIANT,SELF INDEPENDENT,
SELF DEVOLOPED AND FULL OF SELF RESPECT AND PRIDE....???
I THINK BALANCED APPROACH IN EVERYTHING!!!!
VIBHA TAILANG
SO THAT FOR ALL THE BASIC NECCESSATIES-AND SMALL TO BIG WORK,
STUDY AND LIVLIHOOD,SURVIVAL AND HEALTHCARE
ONE SHOULDN'T HAVE TO FLEE FROM THEIR HOMETOWN,
LIKE URBAN AND DEVOLOPED AREAS POPULATIONS,
EVEN THEY NEED TO HAVE OPTIONS AND CHOICES,
AND RIGHTS TO STUDY,WORK AND LIVE WHEREVER THEY WANT,
IN OWN COUNTRY AND NOT A COMPULSION TO FLEE AS CITIZEN.
AND NOT CONSIDERED AS A "INCREASING LIABILITIES'ON URBAN OR SURBURB AREAS
AND FOR THAT "PEOPLE IN POWER" NEED TO THINK,WHAT SHOULD BE PRIORITIES
FOR FASTER GROWTH AND DEVOLOPMENT....MEANS OF COMMUNICATIONS,
LIKE COMPUTERS(NEED ELECTRICITY AND EDUCATION FIRST TO OPERATE IT...???
AND MOBILES,CARS AND OTHER BASIC HOME APPLIANCES OR
RIGHT TO PRIMARY EUCATION,HEALTHCARE,LIVLIHOOD,HOME,ROADS,
FERTILIZERS,ELECTRICITIES,WATER RESOURCES
WHATEVER MAKE THEM SELF SUSTAINABLE ,SELF RELIANT,SELF INDEPENDENT,
SELF DEVOLOPED AND FULL OF SELF RESPECT AND PRIDE....???
I THINK BALANCED APPROACH IN EVERYTHING!!!!
VIBHA TAILANG
Our country is speacial because of its diversity, February 16, 2009
Our country is speacial because of its diversity, we all are so different from each other but united. It is a COMPOSITE society where we all belong to different states, different castes,different religion, different strata or financial background. We have different, eating habits, dress, traditions, language,thinking, climate, topographical situation, crops...so many things...still we are united and live with love, effection and respect. We always did as, history has proofs, so many civilizations created and destroyed, so man
y dynasties invaded us, ruled us, tried to dystroy us,but finally get absorbed. Their impact is still on us as we are large hearted multiculutured society, which has seen ups and downs in so many years but survived and thrieving, as IQBAL rightly said, QUA BAT HAI KI HASTI MITATI NAHI HAMARI, SADIYON RAHA HAI DUSHMAN DAURE ZAMAN HAMARA. SARE JAHAN SE ACCHA HINDUSTAN HAMARA. We have lots of responsibilities on us as in history its we who shown paths to the whole world, whether as rulers or as spiritual dharm gurus...or in many other fields.
February 16, 2009 8:20 AM
(IN OUR TAILANG FAMILY WE HAVE UNITY IN DIVERSITY AS MOST OF US BELONG TO DIFFERENT STATES AND BACKGROUND!!!...VIBHA)
y dynasties invaded us, ruled us, tried to dystroy us,but finally get absorbed. Their impact is still on us as we are large hearted multiculutured society, which has seen ups and downs in so many years but survived and thrieving, as IQBAL rightly said, QUA BAT HAI KI HASTI MITATI NAHI HAMARI, SADIYON RAHA HAI DUSHMAN DAURE ZAMAN HAMARA. SARE JAHAN SE ACCHA HINDUSTAN HAMARA. We have lots of responsibilities on us as in history its we who shown paths to the whole world, whether as rulers or as spiritual dharm gurus...or in many other fields.
February 16, 2009 8:20 AM
(IN OUR TAILANG FAMILY WE HAVE UNITY IN DIVERSITY AS MOST OF US BELONG TO DIFFERENT STATES AND BACKGROUND!!!...VIBHA)
I Think mixture of Mordernity and traditional thinking is contemporary indian values. February 15, 2009
I Think mixture of Mordernity and traditional thinking is contemporary indian values.
February 15, 2009 7:01 PM
vibha tailang said...
Let me explain it, in my view,mixed version of mordernity and traditional thinking means, if you donot follow any tradition or western concepts mindlessly.If you think universally,logically and do scintific interpetation of things, understand what is right and wrong for you and society as society has some norms and we are a social animals.For example- even Ayurveda, yoga, ved, upnishad, Ramayan, mahabharata,Panchtantra...has its value if we take benificial things out of it or interpret things scintifically and weed out wrongs like supertitions bad traditions etc.., as some people say -apne suvidha ke mutabik sochna. But If I say it in one line, its a doha- SAR SAR GAHI KARE, THOTHA DE UDHAYE.
February 15, 2009 7:17 PM
(WE DO BELIEVE IN IT...VIBHA)
February 15, 2009 7:01 PM
vibha tailang said...
Let me explain it, in my view,mixed version of mordernity and traditional thinking means, if you donot follow any tradition or western concepts mindlessly.If you think universally,logically and do scintific interpetation of things, understand what is right and wrong for you and society as society has some norms and we are a social animals.For example- even Ayurveda, yoga, ved, upnishad, Ramayan, mahabharata,Panchtantra...has its value if we take benificial things out of it or interpret things scintifically and weed out wrongs like supertitions bad traditions etc.., as some people say -apne suvidha ke mutabik sochna. But If I say it in one line, its a doha- SAR SAR GAHI KARE, THOTHA DE UDHAYE.
February 15, 2009 7:17 PM
(WE DO BELIEVE IN IT...VIBHA)
February 19, 2009 7:24 PM -this is how I defined Dharma in my blog 2yrs ago
vibha tailang said...
I define Dharm as a kartavya for and aastha in any thing. If you believe in a stone and start doing seva as vaishnav's do to krishna's murti,you start feeling the emotions for that piece of stone or murti, which we describe as a pranpratishtha...this is what make as Insaan instead of robot. Only this Aastha, Prem,Karuna,sneh bhav..can make world free from hatred, jealously, bloodbath...
February 19, 2009 7:24 PM
(SHRI KAMALHASAN'S MOVIE "DASHAVATAAR'S...SONG "PUJO TOOO BHAGWAAN HAI,NA PUJO PASHAAN" REFLECTS MY WORDS,BELIEF AND SENTIMENTS....VIBHA)
WE TAILANG FAMILY IS 'VAISHNAV BRAHAMINS'AND HAD HINDU IDEOLOGY....THOUGH WITH TIME ALL OF WE DON'T GO THOURGH ALL RITUALS 100% AND STARTED BELIEVING IN KABIR'S---"MANN CHAANGA TO KATAUTH MEIN GANGA"...VIBHA!!!
I define Dharm as a kartavya for and aastha in any thing. If you believe in a stone and start doing seva as vaishnav's do to krishna's murti,you start feeling the emotions for that piece of stone or murti, which we describe as a pranpratishtha...this is what make as Insaan instead of robot. Only this Aastha, Prem,Karuna,sneh bhav..can make world free from hatred, jealously, bloodbath...
February 19, 2009 7:24 PM
(SHRI KAMALHASAN'S MOVIE "DASHAVATAAR'S...SONG "PUJO TOOO BHAGWAAN HAI,NA PUJO PASHAAN" REFLECTS MY WORDS,BELIEF AND SENTIMENTS....VIBHA)
WE TAILANG FAMILY IS 'VAISHNAV BRAHAMINS'AND HAD HINDU IDEOLOGY....THOUGH WITH TIME ALL OF WE DON'T GO THOURGH ALL RITUALS 100% AND STARTED BELIEVING IN KABIR'S---"MANN CHAANGA TO KATAUTH MEIN GANGA"...VIBHA!!!
THE MENTOR AND HIS VISION...THROUGH SELF ACTIONS,CREATED NUMBER OF STUDENTS ...AND ONE WHO ACTED TO REALISE HIS ACTIONS RELIGIOUSLY/BLINDLY
IF LORD KRISHNA CAN SHOW HIS VIKRAAL ROOP DURING MAHABARAT TO ARJUN,OR AT THE TIME OF CHIIR HARAAN TO DRAUPADI....WE LESS MORTAALS(AND NOT DEVILS OR DEMONS) CAN TRY TO REPLICATE OUR MYTHOLOGICAL HEROES IN SUCH TIMES....
ONCE I WAS TOLD,"YOU THINK YOU ARE CREATING SOMETHING OUT OF AIR,BUT OTHERS ARE NOT LOOKING THE WAY YOU ARE TELLING THE STORY OR BELIEVING."
NO I AM DOING WHAT I BELIEVE IN.AND I AM SURE NOW ONWARDS I WON'T LET YOU PEOPLE THINK,WHAT PREJUDICED OR PERCIEVED OPININON/NOTIONS YOU ALL HAVE "ABOUT ME" OR OUR FAMILY MEMBERS(EVEN TO INSIDERS NEED TO CORRECT IT)...WHATEVER SECTOR ONE BELONGS TO---SARKARI/PRIVATE/PUBLIC/MEDIA...SPECIALLY SUDHIRJI/ADITI.
BAAKI BREAK KE BAAAD....(ITS A NAME OF A RECENT MOVIE)
TRANSPARENCY IS THE NEED OF TIME.WHEN I GOT TO KNOW I CAN REACH TO YOU ALL LIKE THIS...I WAS VERY HAPPY OR ACTUALLY HAD A MIXED FEELINGS INITIALLY..AS CHATTING HERE IS EASIER THEN WATCHING AND MURMURING OR SCRIBBLING....IT CAN MISUNDERSTOOD OR MISCONTRURED....!!!
AND AT TIMES OUR TALKS WERE VERY PERSONAL.
LAST TIME I'LL POINT WISE TRY TO CONVINCE YOU'LL.AFTERWARDS I WON'T GIVE ANY JUSTIFICATIONS.ITS "A DASTAWEJ" FOR MY NEAR ONE'S BY WHICH ONE CAN PROVE,IF THEY CHECK THE ARCHIEVE OF NEWS/VIEWS/AND EVENT'S THEMES AND VARIOUS FORMS OF FICTIONS!!!
....ITS NOT ALL THAT DARK AS EVERYONE ARE THINKING.IT WAS NEVER BEEN.
1-LITERATURE----I WAS STUDENT OF HINDI LITERATURE AND HINDI JOURNALIST,SO HAS A HABBIT OF USING NAME OF 'BOOKS','STORIES','NOVELS'...OR FILM BASED ON THEM IN SOME OR OTHER CONTEXT!!!....BUT ONE SHOULD KNOW THE CONTEXT AND SO AS 'CRUX' OR 'SAAR' OF THAT 'BOOK'....AND SHOULDN'T TAKE IT 'LITRALLY',OTHERWISE YOU CANNOT ENJOY IT,OR MISUNDERSTAND ME AND SITUATION...!!!
BOOKS ARE NOT ONLY FOR ENHANCEMENT OF KNOWLEDGE BUT FOR ENJOYMENT ALSO,OTHERWISE IT WILL BECOME VERY BORING!!!
.....STORY LIKE "72 SAAAL KA BACCHA"- BY AABID SURTI,"...ITS ABOUT AN OLD MAN HAS THAT BACCHPANA AT HEART- WHICH MADE HIM LIVE LONG.
"EK CHAADAR MEILI SI"(WILL WRITE WRITER'S NAME LATER ON)...IN WHICH WOMEN AFTER HUSBAND'S UNTIMLY DEATH ARE FORCED TO MARRY THEIR DEWAR TO PROTECT FAMILY'S PROPERTIES AND RESPECT!!...ITS A TRADITION IN FEW PARTS OF PUNJAB.
A MOVIE WAS MADE ON IT.
"CHARITRAHEEN" BY SHARATCHANDRAJI(WRITER OF 'DEVDAAS')...ITS ABOUT A YOUNG BOY, WHO WAS IN LOVE WITH HIS BEAUTIFUL COOK...A WIDOW,AND ITS COMPLEXITY...AS THAT WAS ...PERIOD OF BELIEFS IN SUPERTITIONS ETC...!!!RACISM,UNTOUCHABILITY,WIDOW..AS APSHAGUNIS...ETC.
RECENTLY DD HAS MADE A SERIAL ON IT WITH SAME NAME...ITS ON AIR.
VISHNUPRABHAKARJI HAS WRITTEN A BOOK ON SHARATCHAANDRA'S LIFE NAMED "AAWARA MASIHA"....IT'S HAS HIS ALL SHADES OF BOHEMIAN LIFE...TRAVELLLING,STAYING AT FRIENDS PLACES...WHERE EVER HE STAYED HE HELPED PEOPLE MONETRALY,EMOTIONALLY.A NICE CARING MAN!!!...PROJECTED HIM AS A GOOD HUMAN BEING AND A PROLIFIC WRITER...HE USED TO STAY THERE FOR MONTHS AND WRITE.
"AAMRAPALI" BY BHAGWATI CHARAN VERMA(A MOVIE HAS MADE ON IT)
...A BEAUTIFUL CLASSICAL DANCER,WHO BECAME RAJNARTAKI....DESHBAKTH WITH CORE OF HER HEART...LIVED IN BIHAR-VAISHALI...DIDN'T KNEW A SAINIK IN LOVE WITH IS ACTUALLY A KING OF NEIGHBOURING COUNTRY...AND AN ENEMY...AJATSHATRU.
FINALLY SHE WAS DECLARED DESHDROHI,AS PEOPLE TOOK HER AS HELPING HAND OF HIM....AND DEFAULTER OF BREAKING RULES....WAS UNDERARREST...HE ATTACKED,FOUGHT,RUINED VAISHAALI!!!...AND PROUDLY FREED HER SAYING HE DID IT FOR HER...WHICH MADE HER "INSANE" FOR A WHILE!!!...WAS IN SHOCK, SHE HAS ACCEPTED BODHH DHARMA. LATER ON WHEN AJATSHATRU CAME TO TAKE HER WITH HIM...SHE GAVE HIM A LECTURE,WHICH CHANGED HIS LIFE AND HE ALSO BECAME A BUDDHIST. ITS A HISTORICAL TRUTH.
"JHAANSI KI RANI"(TV SERIAL MADE ON IT..ITS ON AIR)...A GREAT FREEDOM FIGHTER AND A GREAT WOMAN WARRIOR.
"RANI PADMINI OF CHITTORHGARH,RAJASTHAN(TV SERIAL MADE ON IT RECENTLY!!!...FEW MONTHS BACK.....NOW ITS OFF AIR)--A GREAT WOMEN WHO FOUGHT AND SACRIFICED HER LIFE FOR HER HUSBAND AND SELF PRIDE)
CHANAKYA(TEACHER IN A TAKHSHEELA) AND CHANDRA GUPTA(RECENTLY LAST WEEK HAS STARTED SHOWING A SERIAL ON IT IN NDTV IMAGINE)....OF MAGADH(BIHAR).CHANAKYA HAS CHOSEN HIS MATRABHOOMI MAGAADH AS A PLACE TO START HIS YATRA OF "AAKHAAND BHARATA"...HE THOUGHT ITS FIT TO DO SO",BUT THAT "AAIYAASH KING" DIDN'T LISTEN TO HIM AND DISRESPECTFULLY HE WAS THROWN OUT.FINALLY HE HAD CHOSEN A DALIT BOY "CHANDRA GUPTA",TRAINED AND MADE HIM A KING IN THAT KING'S(GHANANAND'S) PLACE!!!
WE ALL KNOW THE STORY OF GUPTA SAMRAJAYA(DYNASTY)AND EXPANSION OF THE BOUNDARIES OF BHARATVARSHA IN HIS PERIOD.AND OFCOURSE CHANAKYA'S CONTRIBUTION IN IT!!! CHANAKYA "THE MENTOR",NEVER LET GO "HIS POWER" IN EVEN CHANDRAGUPTA'S "HANDS"!!!...ETC....AND OTHER FICTIONS....YOU ALL ARE WATCHING AND DEFINITLY BOOKS LIKE..."BRANDING I NDIA,ARGUMENTATIVE INDIANS,RETHINKING INDIANS--(VINAY RAI...TOWARDS AN INDO-US PARTNERSHIP CONCORD---CHANGING HEARTS AND MINDSETS)...EXPERIMENTS WITH THE TRUTH AND HINDU DHARMA OF GANDHIJI,GLIMPSES OF WORLD HISTORY,DISCOVERY OF INDIA BY NEHRUJI,...NATION AND NATIONAL IDENTITY IN SOUTH ASIA,SANSKRITI KE CHAAR AADHYAY BY SHRI DINKARJI...ETC...HAD HABBIT BUT IT INCREASED/OR LEARNT MORE IN "SANGAT OF" SUDHIRJI....(AAAJKAL BOLNEIN KI AADAAT HO GAYI HAI TOO PADHNA KUM HO GAYA HAI....ZAMEEN SE JUDEE RAHNA CHAHTI HOON...WOH AANUBHAV BHI ZAROORI HAI...AUR EK HADD TAK MUJHE HAI BHI....UPDATE KARNA HAI)!!!
..BUT AT TIMES I DO FEEL I NEED TO LIVE ALONE NOT BECAUSE I NEED AUTONOMY,BUT ITS A NEED OF TIME...AND WELFARE OF EVERYONE(WORLD....AM I SOUNDING WRONG OR SELFISH...OR TOO MUCH...AND NOW I DON'T NEED TO HIDE ANY OF ""MY QUALITIES"""...LEARNING PROCESS IS ALWAYS THERE(CAN WRITE,SPEAK,READ,AND MAKE PEOPLE LISTEN),WHETHER IT GETS FORMAL OR OFFICIAL PLATFORM OR NOT...I AM IN PROCESS OF CREATING ONE FOR SELF (OFFICIALLY)..AND THUS FOR OTHERS...IF OTHERS WANTS TO GET BENIFITED BY IT???)
BAKI BAAD MEIN...!!! WELL EVEN SUDHIRJI IS CREATING CARTOONS AND ITS SUBJECT'S ARE...MAINLY POLITICS AND POLITICIANS IN IT....DAILY.
ITS VERY CHALLENGING WORK.
THOUGH WE BOTH ARE EACH OTHERS MENTORS!!
DO WE NEED TO TAKE OVER OR ONE NEED TO ACT TO GROW,WHAT ONE IS CAPABLE OF,CAN EVOLOVE IN...ACCORDING TO THEIR VISION,AMBITIONS,ASPIRATIONS AND INTERESTS....AND IF ONE HAS THAT 'BHOOK'IN THEM..ONE SHOULD ACT THEMSELF...INSTEAD OF WAITING TO BE INVITED BY PEOPLE TO BE ON ANY CHAIR....OR COME HOME TO "MANAO....ROOTHE HUE KO"...SOUNDING LIKE MOVIE ..."TAAL"OR MANY OTHERS!!!!
..OR MAYBE GETTING OFFERS IS BETTER OPTION...FOR WORK OR (FOR MARRIAGES-IN ADITI'S CONTEXT).
RECENTLY I HAVE NOTICED "BOOM" IN CREATIVITY…MAINLY "STORY TELLING"-FULL OF IMAGINATION AND ZEAL..SOUNDING REPEATATIVE!!!
ONCE I WAS TOLD,"YOU THINK YOU ARE CREATING SOMETHING OUT OF AIR,BUT OTHERS ARE NOT LOOKING THE WAY YOU ARE TELLING THE STORY OR BELIEVING."
NO I AM DOING WHAT I BELIEVE IN.AND I AM SURE NOW ONWARDS I WON'T LET YOU PEOPLE THINK,WHAT PREJUDICED OR PERCIEVED OPININON/NOTIONS YOU ALL HAVE "ABOUT ME" OR OUR FAMILY MEMBERS(EVEN TO INSIDERS NEED TO CORRECT IT)...WHATEVER SECTOR ONE BELONGS TO---SARKARI/PRIVATE/PUBLIC/MEDIA...SPECIALLY SUDHIRJI/ADITI.
BAAKI BREAK KE BAAAD....(ITS A NAME OF A RECENT MOVIE)
TRANSPARENCY IS THE NEED OF TIME.WHEN I GOT TO KNOW I CAN REACH TO YOU ALL LIKE THIS...I WAS VERY HAPPY OR ACTUALLY HAD A MIXED FEELINGS INITIALLY..AS CHATTING HERE IS EASIER THEN WATCHING AND MURMURING OR SCRIBBLING....IT CAN MISUNDERSTOOD OR MISCONTRURED....!!!
AND AT TIMES OUR TALKS WERE VERY PERSONAL.
LAST TIME I'LL POINT WISE TRY TO CONVINCE YOU'LL.AFTERWARDS I WON'T GIVE ANY JUSTIFICATIONS.ITS "A DASTAWEJ" FOR MY NEAR ONE'S BY WHICH ONE CAN PROVE,IF THEY CHECK THE ARCHIEVE OF NEWS/VIEWS/AND EVENT'S THEMES AND VARIOUS FORMS OF FICTIONS!!!
....ITS NOT ALL THAT DARK AS EVERYONE ARE THINKING.IT WAS NEVER BEEN.
1-LITERATURE----I WAS STUDENT OF HINDI LITERATURE AND HINDI JOURNALIST,SO HAS A HABBIT OF USING NAME OF 'BOOKS','STORIES','NOVELS'...OR FILM BASED ON THEM IN SOME OR OTHER CONTEXT!!!....BUT ONE SHOULD KNOW THE CONTEXT AND SO AS 'CRUX' OR 'SAAR' OF THAT 'BOOK'....AND SHOULDN'T TAKE IT 'LITRALLY',OTHERWISE YOU CANNOT ENJOY IT,OR MISUNDERSTAND ME AND SITUATION...!!!
BOOKS ARE NOT ONLY FOR ENHANCEMENT OF KNOWLEDGE BUT FOR ENJOYMENT ALSO,OTHERWISE IT WILL BECOME VERY BORING!!!
.....STORY LIKE "72 SAAAL KA BACCHA"- BY AABID SURTI,"...ITS ABOUT AN OLD MAN HAS THAT BACCHPANA AT HEART- WHICH MADE HIM LIVE LONG.
"EK CHAADAR MEILI SI"(WILL WRITE WRITER'S NAME LATER ON)...IN WHICH WOMEN AFTER HUSBAND'S UNTIMLY DEATH ARE FORCED TO MARRY THEIR DEWAR TO PROTECT FAMILY'S PROPERTIES AND RESPECT!!...ITS A TRADITION IN FEW PARTS OF PUNJAB.
A MOVIE WAS MADE ON IT.
"CHARITRAHEEN" BY SHARATCHANDRAJI(WRITER OF 'DEVDAAS')...ITS ABOUT A YOUNG BOY, WHO WAS IN LOVE WITH HIS BEAUTIFUL COOK...A WIDOW,AND ITS COMPLEXITY...AS THAT WAS ...PERIOD OF BELIEFS IN SUPERTITIONS ETC...!!!RACISM,UNTOUCHABILITY,WIDOW..AS APSHAGUNIS...ETC.
RECENTLY DD HAS MADE A SERIAL ON IT WITH SAME NAME...ITS ON AIR.
VISHNUPRABHAKARJI HAS WRITTEN A BOOK ON SHARATCHAANDRA'S LIFE NAMED "AAWARA MASIHA"....IT'S HAS HIS ALL SHADES OF BOHEMIAN LIFE...TRAVELLLING,STAYING AT FRIENDS PLACES...WHERE EVER HE STAYED HE HELPED PEOPLE MONETRALY,EMOTIONALLY.A NICE CARING MAN!!!...PROJECTED HIM AS A GOOD HUMAN BEING AND A PROLIFIC WRITER...HE USED TO STAY THERE FOR MONTHS AND WRITE.
"AAMRAPALI" BY BHAGWATI CHARAN VERMA(A MOVIE HAS MADE ON IT)
...A BEAUTIFUL CLASSICAL DANCER,WHO BECAME RAJNARTAKI....DESHBAKTH WITH CORE OF HER HEART...LIVED IN BIHAR-VAISHALI...DIDN'T KNEW A SAINIK IN LOVE WITH IS ACTUALLY A KING OF NEIGHBOURING COUNTRY...AND AN ENEMY...AJATSHATRU.
FINALLY SHE WAS DECLARED DESHDROHI,AS PEOPLE TOOK HER AS HELPING HAND OF HIM....AND DEFAULTER OF BREAKING RULES....WAS UNDERARREST...HE ATTACKED,FOUGHT,RUINED VAISHAALI!!!...AND PROUDLY FREED HER SAYING HE DID IT FOR HER...WHICH MADE HER "INSANE" FOR A WHILE!!!...WAS IN SHOCK, SHE HAS ACCEPTED BODHH DHARMA. LATER ON WHEN AJATSHATRU CAME TO TAKE HER WITH HIM...SHE GAVE HIM A LECTURE,WHICH CHANGED HIS LIFE AND HE ALSO BECAME A BUDDHIST. ITS A HISTORICAL TRUTH.
"JHAANSI KI RANI"(TV SERIAL MADE ON IT..ITS ON AIR)...A GREAT FREEDOM FIGHTER AND A GREAT WOMAN WARRIOR.
"RANI PADMINI OF CHITTORHGARH,RAJASTHAN(TV SERIAL MADE ON IT RECENTLY!!!...FEW MONTHS BACK.....NOW ITS OFF AIR)--A GREAT WOMEN WHO FOUGHT AND SACRIFICED HER LIFE FOR HER HUSBAND AND SELF PRIDE)
CHANAKYA(TEACHER IN A TAKHSHEELA) AND CHANDRA GUPTA(RECENTLY LAST WEEK HAS STARTED SHOWING A SERIAL ON IT IN NDTV IMAGINE)....OF MAGADH(BIHAR).CHANAKYA HAS CHOSEN HIS MATRABHOOMI MAGAADH AS A PLACE TO START HIS YATRA OF "AAKHAAND BHARATA"...HE THOUGHT ITS FIT TO DO SO",BUT THAT "AAIYAASH KING" DIDN'T LISTEN TO HIM AND DISRESPECTFULLY HE WAS THROWN OUT.FINALLY HE HAD CHOSEN A DALIT BOY "CHANDRA GUPTA",TRAINED AND MADE HIM A KING IN THAT KING'S(GHANANAND'S) PLACE!!!
WE ALL KNOW THE STORY OF GUPTA SAMRAJAYA(DYNASTY)AND EXPANSION OF THE BOUNDARIES OF BHARATVARSHA IN HIS PERIOD.AND OFCOURSE CHANAKYA'S CONTRIBUTION IN IT!!! CHANAKYA "THE MENTOR",NEVER LET GO "HIS POWER" IN EVEN CHANDRAGUPTA'S "HANDS"!!!...ETC....AND OTHER FICTIONS....YOU ALL ARE WATCHING AND DEFINITLY BOOKS LIKE..."BRANDING I NDIA,ARGUMENTATIVE INDIANS,RETHINKING INDIANS--(VINAY RAI...TOWARDS AN INDO-US PARTNERSHIP CONCORD---CHANGING HEARTS AND MINDSETS)...EXPERIMENTS WITH THE TRUTH AND HINDU DHARMA OF GANDHIJI,GLIMPSES OF WORLD HISTORY,DISCOVERY OF INDIA BY NEHRUJI,...NATION AND NATIONAL IDENTITY IN SOUTH ASIA,SANSKRITI KE CHAAR AADHYAY BY SHRI DINKARJI...ETC...HAD HABBIT BUT IT INCREASED/OR LEARNT MORE IN "SANGAT OF" SUDHIRJI....(AAAJKAL BOLNEIN KI AADAAT HO GAYI HAI TOO PADHNA KUM HO GAYA HAI....ZAMEEN SE JUDEE RAHNA CHAHTI HOON...WOH AANUBHAV BHI ZAROORI HAI...AUR EK HADD TAK MUJHE HAI BHI....UPDATE KARNA HAI)!!!
..BUT AT TIMES I DO FEEL I NEED TO LIVE ALONE NOT BECAUSE I NEED AUTONOMY,BUT ITS A NEED OF TIME...AND WELFARE OF EVERYONE(WORLD....AM I SOUNDING WRONG OR SELFISH...OR TOO MUCH...AND NOW I DON'T NEED TO HIDE ANY OF ""MY QUALITIES"""...LEARNING PROCESS IS ALWAYS THERE(CAN WRITE,SPEAK,READ,AND MAKE PEOPLE LISTEN),WHETHER IT GETS FORMAL OR OFFICIAL PLATFORM OR NOT...I AM IN PROCESS OF CREATING ONE FOR SELF (OFFICIALLY)..AND THUS FOR OTHERS...IF OTHERS WANTS TO GET BENIFITED BY IT???)
BAKI BAAD MEIN...!!! WELL EVEN SUDHIRJI IS CREATING CARTOONS AND ITS SUBJECT'S ARE...MAINLY POLITICS AND POLITICIANS IN IT....DAILY.
ITS VERY CHALLENGING WORK.
THOUGH WE BOTH ARE EACH OTHERS MENTORS!!
DO WE NEED TO TAKE OVER OR ONE NEED TO ACT TO GROW,WHAT ONE IS CAPABLE OF,CAN EVOLOVE IN...ACCORDING TO THEIR VISION,AMBITIONS,ASPIRATIONS AND INTERESTS....AND IF ONE HAS THAT 'BHOOK'IN THEM..ONE SHOULD ACT THEMSELF...INSTEAD OF WAITING TO BE INVITED BY PEOPLE TO BE ON ANY CHAIR....OR COME HOME TO "MANAO....ROOTHE HUE KO"...SOUNDING LIKE MOVIE ..."TAAL"OR MANY OTHERS!!!!
..OR MAYBE GETTING OFFERS IS BETTER OPTION...FOR WORK OR (FOR MARRIAGES-IN ADITI'S CONTEXT).
RECENTLY I HAVE NOTICED "BOOM" IN CREATIVITY…MAINLY "STORY TELLING"-FULL OF IMAGINATION AND ZEAL..SOUNDING REPEATATIVE!!!
Tuesday, March 15, 2011
Transparency is the need of time in today's time of corruptions and scams.
Transparency is the need of time in today's time of corruptions and scams.
Its not to prove a person wrong,but set an example for everyone how transperency in every section of life will clear the wind of corruption,scams and increase the credibility of all-- specially politicians in "aam janta's eyes"....though one do feel hurt if one works for country...and you keep putting Q mark on them.
But then no one is above the law unless it/system works with vested interest and vengence!!!
(and also...if one don't steal your original ideas and act before you did, to take credits?????)
If one works on own original ideas its always better!!
And i do agree with this fact that one need to set an example first themself with action,then should ask others to comeout clean!!!...but usually it doesn't happen.we like pointing fingures towards others.
Its not to prove a person wrong,but set an example for everyone how transperency in every section of life will clear the wind of corruption,scams and increase the credibility of all-- specially politicians in "aam janta's eyes"....though one do feel hurt if one works for country...and you keep putting Q mark on them.
But then no one is above the law unless it/system works with vested interest and vengence!!!
(and also...if one don't steal your original ideas and act before you did, to take credits?????)
If one works on own original ideas its always better!!
And i do agree with this fact that one need to set an example first themself with action,then should ask others to comeout clean!!!...but usually it doesn't happen.we like pointing fingures towards others.
Sunday, March 13, 2011
think before you predict anything or about anyone....!!!
tu-tu,mein-mein,in limit is o.k,but one find her/his predictions(atleast 8 out of 10 times)are coming true in reality!!!....should speak,predict or bet(shart)....after thinking and not without any reason or base(bussss eisee hi kah diya)...as people believes their words!!!
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Saturday, March 12, 2011
HOW IMPORTANT IS KNOWLEDGE OF OUR CULTURE IS FOR US???....VIBHA TAILANG
ART,PAINTING,MUSIC,WRITING,CULTURE,DANCE,DRAMA,LITERATURE,FILM ETC ARE INTEGRAL PART OF OUR RICH TRADITION AND SANSKRITI.
JOURNALISM,WRITING NEWS/VIEWS/BOOKS/WRITEUPS/EDITORIALS ON SOCIO-POLITICAL-ECONOMIC-DEVOLOPMENTAL ISSUES AND MAKING CARTOONS ARE MORE SERIOUS WORK AND NEED TO BE A VISIONARY...OTHER THEN LITERARY SKILLS AND ART FORMS(IN CARTOONING AND DESIGING).
ITS FILL COLOURS AND INTELLECT IN OUR LIFE.IT'S REFLECTS ALL SHADES AND EMOTIONS OF HUMANKIND AND PRAKRITI.
WE ALL NEED RELAXATION,RECREATION,ENTERTAINMENT....BESIDES GET KNOWLEDGE AND ESSENCE OF MYTHOLOGY,LITERARY,FOLK,MORDERN ART FORM!!!
...TODAY IT INCORPORATED SOCIAL CAUSES/ISSUES AND RIGHTS ALSO AS A THEME AND TOPICS IN A BIGWAY!!!
...NUKKAD NATAK IS A BIG EXAMPLE.
IT GIVES EMPLOYMENT TO MANY AS AN OFFBEAT SUBJECT AND PROFESSION/ENTERPRENEURSHIP....BESIDES SPORTS, WHICH TODAY ALSO INCORPORATES ALL THIS..!!!
JOURNALISM,WRITING NEWS/VIEWS/BOOKS/WRITEUPS/EDITORIALS ON SOCIO-POLITICAL-ECONOMIC-DEVOLOPMENTAL ISSUES AND MAKING CARTOONS ARE MORE SERIOUS WORK AND NEED TO BE A VISIONARY...OTHER THEN LITERARY SKILLS AND ART FORMS(IN CARTOONING AND DESIGING).
ITS FILL COLOURS AND INTELLECT IN OUR LIFE.IT'S REFLECTS ALL SHADES AND EMOTIONS OF HUMANKIND AND PRAKRITI.
WE ALL NEED RELAXATION,RECREATION,ENTERTAINMENT....BESIDES GET KNOWLEDGE AND ESSENCE OF MYTHOLOGY,LITERARY,FOLK,MORDERN ART FORM!!!
...TODAY IT INCORPORATED SOCIAL CAUSES/ISSUES AND RIGHTS ALSO AS A THEME AND TOPICS IN A BIGWAY!!!
...NUKKAD NATAK IS A BIG EXAMPLE.
IT GIVES EMPLOYMENT TO MANY AS AN OFFBEAT SUBJECT AND PROFESSION/ENTERPRENEURSHIP....BESIDES SPORTS, WHICH TODAY ALSO INCORPORATES ALL THIS..!!!
IF YOU HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE,SO NOTHING TO LOSE....JUST TO GAIN!!!
IF ONE DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO HIDE,
THAT PERSON DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO LOSE
THUS ONE CAN PRAISE OR CRITICIZES HER/HIM/THEM
BUT LIVING IN "TRANSPARENCY" IS VERY BRAVE STEP
OR THING TO DO,ONE MUST UNDERSTAND...DO YOU UNDERSTAND????!!!
VIBHA TAILANG
THAT PERSON DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING TO LOSE
THUS ONE CAN PRAISE OR CRITICIZES HER/HIM/THEM
BUT LIVING IN "TRANSPARENCY" IS VERY BRAVE STEP
OR THING TO DO,ONE MUST UNDERSTAND...DO YOU UNDERSTAND????!!!
VIBHA TAILANG
Friday, March 11, 2011
बिहार की नीतीश सरकार ने एक बार फिर स्वच्छ प्रशासन की दिशा में बड़ा कदम उटा कर पूरे देश के लिए मिसाल पेश कर दी है।
बिहार की नीतीश सरकार ने एक बार फिर स्वच्छ प्रशासन की दिशा में बड़ा कदम उटा कर पूरे देश के लिए मिसाल पेश कर दी है। राज्य सरकार ने 85,000 ऑफिसरों/कर्मियों की संपत्ति सार्वजनिक कर दी है। राज्य सामान्य प्रशासन विभाग के सूत्रों ने बताया कि राज्य के कुल 4.75 ल...ाख कर्मचारियों में से 85,000 ऑफिसरों/कर्मचारियों की संपत्ति के विवरण इंटरनेट पर डाल दिए गए हैं। इनमें 190 आईएएस, 169 आईपीएस, 29 आईएफएस और 2800 प्रदेश प्रशासनिक सेवा के ऑफिसर शामिल हैं। सूत्रों के मुताबिक सभी 4.75 लाख कर्मचारियों की संपत्ति के विवरण सार्वजनिक करना बड़ा कठिन काम है, फिर भी विभाग युद्ध स्तर पर कार्य में जुटा हुआ है और उम्मीद की जा रही है कि इस महीने के अंत तक यह काम पूरा कर लिया जाएगा। सामान्य प्रशासन विभाग के प्रमुख सचिव दीपक कुमार ने बताया, संपत्ति के विवरण देने संबंधी राज्य सरकार के निर्देश को काफी गंभीरता से लिया गया है और सिर्फ उन्हीं अधिकारियों की फरवरी महीने की सैलरी क्लिअर हुई जिन्होंने इस निर्देश के मुताबिक 28 फरवरी तक विवरण जमा कर दिए थे। जो अधिकारी अपनी संपत्ति का विवरण जमा नहीं करा सके उन्हें अपना रुख साफ करने के लिए एक और मौका दिया गया है।
AT TIMES WHAT YOU FEEL IS "AN INSULT TO YOU GIVES STRENGTH AND THIS DETERMINATION TO YOU" TO DO WELL AND WIN EVERYONE'S HEART WITH YOUR ACTION,YOUR INTELLIGENCE AND PERSONALITY.PATIENCE DO COUNT SO AS DIFFERENT SHADES OF YOUR PERSONALITY.AT TIMES IF YOU FEEL YOUR ACTION IS NOT FRUITFUL,BUT IT CAN FOR OTHERS, AS THEY GET INSPIRED.
FOR EXAMPLE---
FEW DAYS BACK I WENT FOR A 'WALK IN INTERVIEW' FOR FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE--IN A GOVERNMENT OFFICE UNKNOWINGLY THAT I DON'T QUALIFY FOR THAT POST(consultant/salary 50,000+)...AS I DID HAD EXPERIENCE(AGE LIMIT WAS 65..PEOPLE ABOVE 60 WERE ALSO THERE)BUT THEY NEEDED PG IN JOURNALISM AND JUST 1 OR 2 YEARS EXPERIENCE.
ITS INTERESTING TO KNOW, HOW FOR 15 SEATS(DIFFERENT STREAMS) 1000 OF APPLICATANTS/UNEMPLOYED WERE THERE,INCLUDING INTERVIEWEES FROM 'OUT OF STATION'.
BUSY TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL,I AM BETTER CANDIDATE,SO YOU LEAVE!!!
SO THAT'S COMPETITIVENESS AND SURVIVAL FOR THE FITTEST!!!
...IF THERE IS NO PULL N PUSH???
GOOD THAT IN PRIVATE SECTOR,IF YOU HAVE INNOVATIVENESS IN IDEAS(DEPENDS ON NATURE OF WORK)...WHETHER,YOU HAVE LITTLE LESS DEGREES OR EXPERIENCES...YOU CAN GIVEN A CHANCE!!!
...BUT AS NO BUSSINESSMEN PUT RISK IN VAIN...ONE HAVE TO WORK HARD TO PROVE HIS/HER QUALITIES/ABILITIES AT THE BEST.AS NO POST IS PARMANENT THERE, AS IT IS IN GOVERNMENT OFFICES,OR P.S.U'S WHERE,IF ONE GET INTO JOB ONCE,WILL ONLY COMEOUT AFTER RETIREMENT!!!
WELL...HUR SEEKKKE KE DOO PAHLOO HOTEEI HEIN!!!
...SO ITS GOOD TO HAVE PROFESSIONAL DEGREES AND TRAININGS
(BUT EVEN GRADUATES AND VOCATIONAL TRAINED PEOPLE NEED CHANCES),
EXPERIENCES
(NEW BEGINNERS ALSO NEED CHANCES),
TALENT AND INNOVATIVENESS....AND LEADERSHIP QUALITIES
(GOOD TO BE AN ENTERPRENEUR IN WHICHEVER SECTOR AS WELL,... AS ONE NEED TO CREATE THEIR OWN SPACE ALSO)!!!
COMING TO THE POINT...WHEN 3 PANEL COULD HAVE SHORTLISTED THEIR NAMES AND COULD HAVE TAKEN INTERVIEWS IN 3ROOMS SIMULTANEOUSLY,THEY TOOK IT IN 3DAYS BY QNE PANEL OF FEW INTERVIEWERS.
PEOPLE WERE FRUSTRATED BY ARRANGEMENTS AND LACK OF FACILITIES OF IT.CREEBBING ABOUT IT,SAYING PRIVATE OFFICES HAS MUCH MORE ACCOUNTABILITY,EFFICIENCY AND PROFESSIONALISM.THUS I SPOKE IN THE FAVOUR OF SARKARI OFFICES THERE.
THEY WERE IN QUITE CORPORATE 'AANDAAZ', AS IT WAS FOR 'WATER BORNE DISEASES IN 'PRIVATE-PUBLIC-PARTENERSHIP MODEL' FOR DELHI GOVERNMENT.
ANYWAY,I CAME BACK.I TOLD MY DAUGHTER HOW I WENT THERE,HAD EXPERIENCE OF HEARING PEOPLE,AS THAT'S HOW YOU COME TO KNOW THE PULSE/NABZ OF "AAM JANTA".
COULDN'T TECHNICALLY QUALIFIED FOR IT(AS I WAS NOT A PG IN JOURNALISM,AS NEEDED...BUT HAS EXPERIENCES OF 20YRS OF PRINT/TV/DOCUMENTARY MAKING/WRITING...AND DO HAVE EXPERIENCES OF VOLOUNTEERALY DONE SOCIAL WORK ALSO...NOW HAS AN NGO-since sept 2008,AND ITS WEBSITE-aditifoundation.co.in WHICH "CONCEPT,CONTENT AND DESIGN" IS PREPARED BY ME SOLELY!!!...AND NOW IT'S ONE MORE INITIATIVE---AAWAAZ.ADITIFOUNDATION.CO.IN)...SO I WAS BACK!!!
...THOUGH MANY PEOPLE(THERE) TOLD ME, I'LL GET THROUGH(ONLY ONE SEAT WAS THERE), AS PANEL WERE ASKING MOST OF THE QUESTIONS ABOUT/RELATED TO.... "MEDIA/JOURNALISM/P.R.O"!!!ABOUT...WHICH 'I KNEW' MORE THAN THOSE MANAGEMENT/DOCTOR'S/SOCIALWORKER/ DEGREED...CANDIDATES!!!
WELL!!! RIGHT N DESERVING PERSON NEED TO QUALIFY!!!
I TOLD THIS TO MY NEPHEW BITTOO@SAURABH ALSO,FILLED MY BIODATA IN NAUKARI.COM IN WEB WITH MY NEPHEW'S BIODATA,SAYING YOU ALSO DO IT!!!...LATER ON SEND(FORWARDED) HIM ONE MSG REGARDING JOB WITH LAWYERS QUALIFICATIONS....!!!
FEW DAYS LATER HE TOLD ME, HE GOT MANY MAILS FOR JOB,WENT FOR "WALK IN INTERVIEWS" FOR "CONFIDENCE BUILDING" AND JUDGING HIS OWN "PUBLIC SPEAKING ABILITY",AND TO GET "AN IDEA OF HIS FIELD"!!!
....HE GOT THE GOOD JOB IMMEDIATLY-IN 2ND ATTEMPT!!!...CALLED ME BACK SAYING -"I HAVE NOT DONE LAW SO DIDN'T WENT FOR INTERVIEW...WHAT YOU MSGED.
(GOOD HE IS NOT A LAWYER LIKE SHAHRUKH OF "DEVDAAS",HE UNDERSTOOD).
BUT GOT THE WORK OF HIS CHOICE(HE IS M.C.A...) AND SUBJECT OF INTEREST AND HAD QUALIFICATIONS.HE IS DOING WELL.
THAT TIME I HAD MAILED ADITI'S BIO DATA ALSO.SHE DIDN'T ENTERTAINED IT AS IT WAS NOT OF HER CHOICE,BUT TRIED IN 'INDIAN EXPRESS'NEWSPAPER THROUGH HER FRIEND,WITHOUT USING HER FATHER'S APPROACH(SHE IS LUCKY AND PREVILEDGED TO HAVE WELL CONNECTED FATHER AND OTHER RELATIVES IN FAMILY,WHO CAN GUIDE HER IN SUBJECTS OF HER CHOICE!!!)
...THOUGH EVERYONE KNEW ABOUT HER,BECAUSE OF HER SIRNAME AND ITS HER OWN FRIENDS CIRCLE.AFTER TRAINING, HER BOSS RECOMMENDED HER NAME FURTHER IN 'INDIA TODAY' AND 'TIMEOUT' MAGAZINES AS SHE HAD SAID-"WANTS TO DO FEATURES AND NOT THE NEWS."
SHE MAILED HER BIODATA.GOT INTERVIEW CALL...FACED IT,SHOWN HER 'PORTFOLIO'.'TIMEOUT' HAD VACANCIES SO SHE GOT THROUGH!!!
...HER PREVIOUS BOSS HAD PRAISED HER AND HER WORK,AND OFCOURSE SHE HAS GOT AN APPRECIATION LETTER AS WELL, OFFICIALLY.
SHE ALWAYS GET GUIDANCE FROM SUDHIRJI, BUT HAS BECOME QUITE INDEPENDENT WITH TIME FLYING AWAY.
BUT HAD-- DO REALISED,ONE CAN FAIL OR PASS,GET PRAISED OR CRITICISED AT TIMES.ONE NEED TO BE READY TO FACE AND TACKLE EVERY/ALL KIND OF SITUATIONS AND PEOPLE,WITHOUT GETTING "STUCK INTO IT"!!
GOOD WISHES TO BOTH/EVERYONE!!!...AND SPECIALLY ALL OF THEIR GENERATIONS!!!
PEOPLE CONSTANTLY ASKED ME ONE QUESTION "AM I FROM RAJASTHAN???---YES! I AM,AS IT IS MY SASURAL(BIKANER...TAILANG FAMILY).AND SAME WAY SUDHIRJI IS DAMAAD OF BIHAR SO HE DO BELONG TO THAT STATE AND TO CHOUDHARY FAMILY!!!
....THOUGH MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR FOR US IS- WE ARE INDIANS!!!
AND ONE MORE THING IS---"SIR" N "MADAM" WORDS ARE USED WITH RESPECT TO SENIOURS IN PUBLIC LIFE OR ANYWHERE,ITS AN ETTIQUETTE.
IN THE OFFICES ALSO,SENIORS ARE 'SIR' N 'MADAM'.
IN SCHOOLS/COLLEGES...GURU-TEACHERS ARE 'SIR' N 'MADAM'!!!
....ITS GOOD TO HAVE SUCH "TITLES" IN GENERAL LIFE!!!"
FOR EXAMPLE---
FEW DAYS BACK I WENT FOR A 'WALK IN INTERVIEW' FOR FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE--IN A GOVERNMENT OFFICE UNKNOWINGLY THAT I DON'T QUALIFY FOR THAT POST(consultant/salary 50,000+)...AS I DID HAD EXPERIENCE(AGE LIMIT WAS 65..PEOPLE ABOVE 60 WERE ALSO THERE)BUT THEY NEEDED PG IN JOURNALISM AND JUST 1 OR 2 YEARS EXPERIENCE.
ITS INTERESTING TO KNOW, HOW FOR 15 SEATS(DIFFERENT STREAMS) 1000 OF APPLICATANTS/UNEMPLOYED WERE THERE,INCLUDING INTERVIEWEES FROM 'OUT OF STATION'.
BUSY TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL,I AM BETTER CANDIDATE,SO YOU LEAVE!!!
SO THAT'S COMPETITIVENESS AND SURVIVAL FOR THE FITTEST!!!
...IF THERE IS NO PULL N PUSH???
GOOD THAT IN PRIVATE SECTOR,IF YOU HAVE INNOVATIVENESS IN IDEAS(DEPENDS ON NATURE OF WORK)...WHETHER,YOU HAVE LITTLE LESS DEGREES OR EXPERIENCES...YOU CAN GIVEN A CHANCE!!!
...BUT AS NO BUSSINESSMEN PUT RISK IN VAIN...ONE HAVE TO WORK HARD TO PROVE HIS/HER QUALITIES/ABILITIES AT THE BEST.AS NO POST IS PARMANENT THERE, AS IT IS IN GOVERNMENT OFFICES,OR P.S.U'S WHERE,IF ONE GET INTO JOB ONCE,WILL ONLY COMEOUT AFTER RETIREMENT!!!
WELL...HUR SEEKKKE KE DOO PAHLOO HOTEEI HEIN!!!
...SO ITS GOOD TO HAVE PROFESSIONAL DEGREES AND TRAININGS
(BUT EVEN GRADUATES AND VOCATIONAL TRAINED PEOPLE NEED CHANCES),
EXPERIENCES
(NEW BEGINNERS ALSO NEED CHANCES),
TALENT AND INNOVATIVENESS....AND LEADERSHIP QUALITIES
(GOOD TO BE AN ENTERPRENEUR IN WHICHEVER SECTOR AS WELL,... AS ONE NEED TO CREATE THEIR OWN SPACE ALSO)!!!
COMING TO THE POINT...WHEN 3 PANEL COULD HAVE SHORTLISTED THEIR NAMES AND COULD HAVE TAKEN INTERVIEWS IN 3ROOMS SIMULTANEOUSLY,THEY TOOK IT IN 3DAYS BY QNE PANEL OF FEW INTERVIEWERS.
PEOPLE WERE FRUSTRATED BY ARRANGEMENTS AND LACK OF FACILITIES OF IT.CREEBBING ABOUT IT,SAYING PRIVATE OFFICES HAS MUCH MORE ACCOUNTABILITY,EFFICIENCY AND PROFESSIONALISM.THUS I SPOKE IN THE FAVOUR OF SARKARI OFFICES THERE.
THEY WERE IN QUITE CORPORATE 'AANDAAZ', AS IT WAS FOR 'WATER BORNE DISEASES IN 'PRIVATE-PUBLIC-PARTENERSHIP MODEL' FOR DELHI GOVERNMENT.
ANYWAY,I CAME BACK.I TOLD MY DAUGHTER HOW I WENT THERE,HAD EXPERIENCE OF HEARING PEOPLE,AS THAT'S HOW YOU COME TO KNOW THE PULSE/NABZ OF "AAM JANTA".
COULDN'T TECHNICALLY QUALIFIED FOR IT(AS I WAS NOT A PG IN JOURNALISM,AS NEEDED...BUT HAS EXPERIENCES OF 20YRS OF PRINT/TV/DOCUMENTARY MAKING/WRITING...AND DO HAVE EXPERIENCES OF VOLOUNTEERALY DONE SOCIAL WORK ALSO...NOW HAS AN NGO-since sept 2008,AND ITS WEBSITE-aditifoundation.co.in WHICH "CONCEPT,CONTENT AND DESIGN" IS PREPARED BY ME SOLELY!!!...AND NOW IT'S ONE MORE INITIATIVE---AAWAAZ.ADITIFOUNDATION.CO.IN)...SO I WAS BACK!!!
...THOUGH MANY PEOPLE(THERE) TOLD ME, I'LL GET THROUGH(ONLY ONE SEAT WAS THERE), AS PANEL WERE ASKING MOST OF THE QUESTIONS ABOUT/RELATED TO.... "MEDIA/JOURNALISM/P.R.O"!!!ABOUT...WHICH 'I KNEW' MORE THAN THOSE MANAGEMENT/DOCTOR'S/SOCIALWORKER/ DEGREED...CANDIDATES!!!
WELL!!! RIGHT N DESERVING PERSON NEED TO QUALIFY!!!
I TOLD THIS TO MY NEPHEW BITTOO@SAURABH ALSO,FILLED MY BIODATA IN NAUKARI.COM IN WEB WITH MY NEPHEW'S BIODATA,SAYING YOU ALSO DO IT!!!...LATER ON SEND(FORWARDED) HIM ONE MSG REGARDING JOB WITH LAWYERS QUALIFICATIONS....!!!
FEW DAYS LATER HE TOLD ME, HE GOT MANY MAILS FOR JOB,WENT FOR "WALK IN INTERVIEWS" FOR "CONFIDENCE BUILDING" AND JUDGING HIS OWN "PUBLIC SPEAKING ABILITY",AND TO GET "AN IDEA OF HIS FIELD"!!!
....HE GOT THE GOOD JOB IMMEDIATLY-IN 2ND ATTEMPT!!!...CALLED ME BACK SAYING -"I HAVE NOT DONE LAW SO DIDN'T WENT FOR INTERVIEW...WHAT YOU MSGED.
(GOOD HE IS NOT A LAWYER LIKE SHAHRUKH OF "DEVDAAS",HE UNDERSTOOD).
BUT GOT THE WORK OF HIS CHOICE(HE IS M.C.A...) AND SUBJECT OF INTEREST AND HAD QUALIFICATIONS.HE IS DOING WELL.
THAT TIME I HAD MAILED ADITI'S BIO DATA ALSO.SHE DIDN'T ENTERTAINED IT AS IT WAS NOT OF HER CHOICE,BUT TRIED IN 'INDIAN EXPRESS'NEWSPAPER THROUGH HER FRIEND,WITHOUT USING HER FATHER'S APPROACH(SHE IS LUCKY AND PREVILEDGED TO HAVE WELL CONNECTED FATHER AND OTHER RELATIVES IN FAMILY,WHO CAN GUIDE HER IN SUBJECTS OF HER CHOICE!!!)
...THOUGH EVERYONE KNEW ABOUT HER,BECAUSE OF HER SIRNAME AND ITS HER OWN FRIENDS CIRCLE.AFTER TRAINING, HER BOSS RECOMMENDED HER NAME FURTHER IN 'INDIA TODAY' AND 'TIMEOUT' MAGAZINES AS SHE HAD SAID-"WANTS TO DO FEATURES AND NOT THE NEWS."
SHE MAILED HER BIODATA.GOT INTERVIEW CALL...FACED IT,SHOWN HER 'PORTFOLIO'.'TIMEOUT' HAD VACANCIES SO SHE GOT THROUGH!!!
...HER PREVIOUS BOSS HAD PRAISED HER AND HER WORK,AND OFCOURSE SHE HAS GOT AN APPRECIATION LETTER AS WELL, OFFICIALLY.
SHE ALWAYS GET GUIDANCE FROM SUDHIRJI, BUT HAS BECOME QUITE INDEPENDENT WITH TIME FLYING AWAY.
BUT HAD-- DO REALISED,ONE CAN FAIL OR PASS,GET PRAISED OR CRITICISED AT TIMES.ONE NEED TO BE READY TO FACE AND TACKLE EVERY/ALL KIND OF SITUATIONS AND PEOPLE,WITHOUT GETTING "STUCK INTO IT"!!
GOOD WISHES TO BOTH/EVERYONE!!!...AND SPECIALLY ALL OF THEIR GENERATIONS!!!
PEOPLE CONSTANTLY ASKED ME ONE QUESTION "AM I FROM RAJASTHAN???---YES! I AM,AS IT IS MY SASURAL(BIKANER...TAILANG FAMILY).AND SAME WAY SUDHIRJI IS DAMAAD OF BIHAR SO HE DO BELONG TO THAT STATE AND TO CHOUDHARY FAMILY!!!
....THOUGH MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR FOR US IS- WE ARE INDIANS!!!
AND ONE MORE THING IS---"SIR" N "MADAM" WORDS ARE USED WITH RESPECT TO SENIOURS IN PUBLIC LIFE OR ANYWHERE,ITS AN ETTIQUETTE.
IN THE OFFICES ALSO,SENIORS ARE 'SIR' N 'MADAM'.
IN SCHOOLS/COLLEGES...GURU-TEACHERS ARE 'SIR' N 'MADAM'!!!
....ITS GOOD TO HAVE SUCH "TITLES" IN GENERAL LIFE!!!"
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
WHEN HUNUMANJI HAS FORGOTTEN HIS INNER HIDDEN "POWER",
HE WAS REMINDED BY RAMJI AND LAKSHMANJI,
WHICH RESULTED IN "SAMUDRALANGHAN",
AND "ASHOVATIKA MEIN VRIKKSHON SE FAALBHAKSHAAN,AUR "LANKA DHAHAN"....!!!
PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW THEIR "HIDDEN TALENT AND POWER",
THEY CAN CONVERT IMPOSSIBLE INTO POSSIBLE,
BUT UNKNOWINGLY WHAT GOOD OR NOT SO GOOD ONE DOES,
NEED NOT BE CONSIDERED WRONG OR DISCREDIT,
TILL ITS PROVEN OR GIVEN CREDIT TO,
ITS PEOPLE AROUND THEM NEED TO TELL,
WHAT EXTRAORDINARY QUALITIES THAT PERSON/KID POSSES!!!
OTHERWISE EVEN "ERROR OF JUDGEMENT" WILL ALSO GO ON...!!!
"PATA HI NAHIN THA...MERI BATEIN AAP TAK PAHUNCH RAHIN HEIN,"
YA KIISSI MEIN BHI KOI KHAS CREATIVE GUUN HAI"
VIBHA TAILANG
Posted by vibha tailang at 6:51 PM 0 comments
I AM LISTENING SOMEONE ON TV,
WELL LIKE TO SAY,EVEN SIMPLE GRADUATES
CAN BE GOOD IN PROFESSIONAL WORK
BY OBSERVING AND LEARNING,BY LISTENING AND READING
BY WORKING AND EXPERIENCING,BY INNOVATIVENESS OF SELF CREATED IDEAS
BY OWN NATURAL TALENT AND VISION....SO PLZ DON'T UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE
LET THEM WORK,FAIL AND PASS,FALL AND GROW,
GIVE THEM CHANCE TO LIVE AND CONTRIBUTE CONSTRUCTIVLY!!!
VBHA TAILANG
Posted by vibha tailang at 9:12 AM 0 comments
Monday, March 7, 2011
TO SPECIALIZED IN A WORK ONE NEED TO FOCUS IN A PARTIICULAR FIELD OR SUBJECT
TO CREATE A IMAGE OF A PERSON'S PERSONALITY OR A PRODUCT
ADMEN FOLLOW THEM RELIGIOUSLY AND AGRESSIVILY TO DO SO,
THAT'S THEIR STRATEGY FOR AD CAMPAIGN AND RULES OF ADVERTISEMENT BRAND MAKING.
BUT "SOMEHOW" I FEEL,IF I AM NOT "IGNORED"
(AS I AM A FREELANCE WRITER NOW)
....AND IF REALLY POINTS SAID BY ME OR AROUND,GET HIGHLIGHTED....THEN,
IT WILL BE DIFFICULT TO FOLLOW ONLY,ONE PERSON,ONE NUMBER OR ONLY ONE ISSUE FOREVER,
WHAT MAKERS/CREATERS DOES, WHOM AND WHAT THEY FOLLOW,ITS THEIR CHOICE,
BUT, LETS SEE HOW THINGS WILL TURN OUT IN THE FUTURE!!!
Posted by vibha tailang at 6:07 PM 0 comments
IN SO MANY YEARS AS TIME PASSES ON,PEOPLE EVOLVES
HIS/HER THINKING CHANGES,SO AS OTHERS ABOUT THEM/YOU.
MUST FOLLOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT SELF,
BUT MUST RESPECT WHAT YOU GIVE CHOICE TO OTHERS TO THINK ABOUT YOU???
AS PEOPLE THINK WHATEVER KNOWLEDGE,UNDERSTANING,INTENTIONS,PREJUDICES
THEY HAVE ABOUT ISSUES,PERSONS AND SITUATIONS!!!
AND MUST EVOLVE,OR CHANGE WHERE EVER IT NEEDED!!!
GOOD WISHES!!!
VIBHA TAILANG
Posted by vibha tailang at 6:04 PM 0 comments
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Today Sudhirji told me you usually write what bad was said...not about good
things...what anyone told about you.
I was trying to correct(and not whitewash) things/parivartan in vatavaran and mindsets VOLUNATARIALLY!!!
--- as till you don't have big bank balance or inherited or created Big properties,or you are not in a big post,has power to implement or officially what you do go "on record" and get added in your "biodata" as well...How you proclaimed to be a BIG AND POWERFULL PERSON. Though I do feel a person who has people's support is as POWERFUL AS ANY OTHER "POWERFUL"PERSON!!!
.... while creating Aditi(uday of her generation as I had written that I am watching with her and her camera's eyes.Other then talking and chatting with her generation friends as well..But has written about few things like--
By watching ...TV,NEWPAPERS,INTERNET,BOOKS ETC...AVAILABLE AT HOME AS TILL NOW I WAS IN "HYBERNATION-AS PEOPLE SAY",THOUGH HAS DONE SOME GROUND WORK ON FIELD.HAD DONE AS PRINT/TV JOURNALIST ALSO.HAS DONE SOCIAL WORK VOLUNTARILY IN SO MANY(46YRS) YEARS.SO,MAYBE I DO NOT HAVE MASTER'S DEGREE IN ANY SUBJECT LIKE OTHER MEMBERS OF MY FAMILY'S OF MY GENERATION.AS I AM A GRADUATE.BUT HAS KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE.AND HAS NOT ANY CORRUPTION,CRIME,OR UNLAWFULL CHARGES.
I HAD SAID ONCE THAT NO COMMERCIAL ACTIVITIES ARE HAPPENNING HERE TO ESTABLISH WE ARE UPRIGHT PEOPLE...AS WE DO WORK FROM HOME,AS MOST OF THE PEOPLE HAS OFFICE OR LIBRARY INSIDE THEIR RESIDENC AND COMPUTER,INTERNET,SCANNER,PRINTER...FAX ETC...SO THAT ONE CAN EMAIL,PEOPLE DO COME AT TIMES FOR OFFICIAL MEETINGS,BUT THAT'S INDIVIDUAL WORK...OR WE TAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER...BUT ITS NOT FUNCTIONING AS A COMMERCIAL OFFICE OR DUKAAN.THOUGH TILL NOW AF'S OFFICIAL ADDRESS AND STUDIO ANIMATION'S POSTAL ADDRESS ARE OUR RESIDENTIAL ADDRESS ONLY.
NEITHER WE HAVE DONE BIG 'KABZA'S' OF PROPERTIES.LITTLE ENCROACHMENT OF 2 SMALL ROOMS BY COVERING BALCONIES...IN OUR AREA AND PARAMETER OF PLOT SIZE.IF PEOPLE THINK ITS WRONG AND CORRUPTION THEN,ONE IS READY TO CORRECT IT.
OUR INCOME TAX RETURNS ARE APPROPRIATE.WE DON'T BELIEVE IN GIVE AND TAKE OF BIG GIFTS.MORE OFTEN IT IS (USUALLY BOOKS/CARICATURES/CARTOONS/) OR MONEY AS SHAGUN IN B'DAY,ANNIVERSARIES OR ON ANY SUCH OCCASIONS OR CELEBRATIONS...MORE THEN SPECTRUM OF CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS.I PERSONALLY DON'T GO BEYOND TOKEN GIFTS.
BUT DO THINK ADITI FOUNDATION IS ELIGIBLE FOR A NEW BEGINNING OR MAY BE WHERE WE LEFT IT.IT WAS REGD.IN FIRST WEEK OF 2008 SEPT.,BUT HAS NOT DONE MANY WORK PRACTICALLY ON FIELD. BUT BY NOW WE EMPHASISED - MORE ON PAPERWORK AND RESEARCH WORK AND HAS DONE IT.ITS A BEGINNING OF AF'S AND ADITI'S CAREER ALONG.I HAVE SUDHIRJI'S SUPPORT THOUGH AT TIMES OUR VIEWS AND IDEAS DO DIFFER.WELL WE DO LIVE DEMOCRATICALLY.ONE CAN GAIN THEIR OWN CREDIBILITY BY WORKING ON FIELD ONLY AND GROW ALL ROUNDEDLY, PERSONALLY AND WITH FAMILY AS WELL.FIRST I NEED TO MAKE MY OWN CREDIBILITY.SUDHIRJI HAS.THOUGH I THINK I HARDLY SPEAK A LIE.ONE CAN GET 'DIPLOMATIC' AT TIMES.OR MAYBE DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT SELF BEFORE RIGHT TIME COMES IN HER/HIS PERSPECTIVE.(AS WE SEE- HOW 'NAMES' ARE GETTING HIGHLIGHTED.FOR EXAMPLE,I DON'T EVEN MET ARNAB,OR RECENTLY MET SHRAVANJI FIRST TIME, THOUGH HAD TALKED TO HIM FEW TIMES EARLIER.THOUGH THEY ALL KNOW SUDHIRJI....BUT THESE STORIES CONTENT,SPECIALLY DIALOUGES DO REFLECT OUR WORDS...INFACT IN BETTER WAY OR WHATEVER WAY...TAILANG FAMILY IS NEVER OUT OF FOCUS OR SPOTLIGHT,THAT'S WHY OUR RESPONSIBILITIES INCREASES.AND I THINK I NEVER RAN AWAY FROM IT)
SUDHIRJI HAS SELF IMPOSED DISCIPLINE IN HIS NATURE.ONLY PERSON IN OUR FAMILY WHO IS CONSTANT AND CONSISTENT AS A JOURNALIST/CARTOONIST(THOUGH NO ONE HAS DONE JOURNALISN COURSE PROFESSIONALLY)...THOUGH HE HAS TOUCHED ALL DIMENSIONS OF CARTOONING.I HAVE WRITTEN ABOUT HIM IN THIS BLOG MANY TIMES IN SOME OR OTHER CONTEXT.HE DO HAVE FANFARES,IS MUCH RESPECTED AND IS A CELEBRATED PERSON.I THINK PEOPLE AROUND HIM KNOW HIS QUALITIES,QUALIFICATIONS,AND CHARMING BUT RESERVE NATURE.IF HE FEELS FOR SOME REASON HE HAS BECOME 'ABHISHAAPT' OR 'UNLUCKY',AS HIS WIFE IS NOT NORMAL PERSON...THEN GOD BLESS HIM.I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE MY QUALITIES MORE EVIDENT NOW.NEED CONSTRUCTIVE IMAGE...AND CONSTANTLY ONE NEED TO WORK BUT CAN'T SAY ABOUT OTHERS INTERFERENCES!!!
I THINK ONE MORE POINT NEED TO BE CLEARED IS,I NEVER RAN AWAY FROM MY RESPONSIBILITIES.WHEN I TOOK 15DAYS OFF FROM SAHARA OFFICE IN JAN 2001,I WAS UNWELL.THIS IS TRUE THAT "BHARAT UTSAV CELEBRATION WAS GOING ON IN LUCKHNOW THOSE DAYS,AND NO ONE WAS ALLOWED TO TAKE LEAVE,BUT I TOOK IT AS I NEEDED IT.THEN I HAD SENT APPLICATION BY FAX AND HAD ITS FAX REPORT ALSO.THOUGH A NOTICE CAME TO MY HOME,SAYING I HAD NOT INFORMED THE OFFICE ABOUT MY LEAVE.LATER ON I TOOK MEDICAL REPORT AND SUBMITTED IT.EVEN GM PERSONEL AGREED THAT HE RECIEVED MY FAX.CAN'T SAY WHO PLAYED MISCHIEF IN BETWEEN.I LEFT/RESIGNED/SACKED/KICKED OFF(WHATEVER ONE SAY....EVEN GETTING/FELT INSULTED CAN BECOME REASON FOR LEAVING WORK...OR GIVING PRIORITY TO OWN FAMILY CAN BECOME REASON TO DO SO) WORKING ON 25TH FEB 2001.
BEEN TO BIHAR AFTER 2 DAYS OF ADITI'S FINAL EXAMS GOT OVER THEN,IN THE LAST WEEK OF MARCH FOR 15 DAYS.AND WERE THERE WITH MY FAMILY IN BHAGALPUR,BEGUSARAI,MOKAMA MADHUBANI AND NEPAL(PARENTS AND SISTER'S FAMILY).
PLZ IF YOU'LL THINK "MEIN GALATIYAN,PE GALATIYAN KARTI HOON" "YA EK NE SARA MAHAUL KHRAAB KAR RAKHHA HEI TOO SAAB AAPNA BHI AATMAVLOKAN KARAIN,AUR AATMMANTHAN KAREIN...KAHAN WOH GALAAT HEIN....AUR MERI BAATON KA KHAYAL NA KAREIN/IGNORE KAREIN/MUJHE MERI TARAH SE JEENE DEIN AUR KOOCCH AAPEKSHA NA KAREIN.MEIN AAPNI TARAF SE HUMESHA PRAYAASRAT HOON KI KOI GALAT KANOON NA BANE YA AANARATH NA HO.LEKIN MERE KAAM MEIN GALAT DHUNG SE DHAKHALANDAZI KER KI(SHAYAD BATON KO THIK SE SAMAJH NAHIN PAYE HONE YA AAPNE HISAAB SE SAMAJHNA CHAHTEIN HONGE)... MERE IRD-GIRD KE LOG YA AAP SAAB NE KITNA YOGDAAN DIYA HAI,ISSKE BAREIN MEIN BHI SOOCHEIN,TAKI YEH DOOBARA NA HO!!!!!WAISE BAHOOT BAHOOT DHANYAWAAD KI KAI VARSHON SE JO BATEIN SAAF NAHIN HO PAAA RAHIN THEEN,UMEED HAI AAB SAAF HO GAYEE HOGI,AUR AARTH KA AANAARTH NAHIN HOGO!!!....VIBHA TAILANG)
Well coming to the point...no religious danga's after Godhra though akshaardham terrorist attack happened afterwards.
no terrorists attack post Mumbai.other such big incidents we haven't heard about in even J and K.or North East.
no warlike attack after Kargil.
CrossBorder Terrorism Lessen.We are heading towards peace or warlike situation????
"Bhagva Terror" ki kucch khabrein thii woh bhi aajkal nahin hein.Pragyaji kahan gayeen kucch pata nahin.
this year cases of beating up of youth's on valentine day has also registered less.
so as "honour killing cases" must have reduced.As it was not shown much in last few months which shows some thinking,pondering before such henious crimes.So as discussion shown on Tv shows reflects much maturer comments by youth and kids on all kind of issues.Which means little openness made them think about all kind of good and bad aspects of life. one can check the record to see if what i write is correct factually or not!!!
even naxalism is more or less is in controll now.
Big incidents of Railway accidents,explosions on tracks has much less now.
Aircrafts accidents,hijacks lessen in number.
Farmers suicides either lessen up or news channels are not noticing it.
Kidnappings,rapes,supari/contract killings,...such big incidents or names related to underworld dons has lessened though we couldn't able to punish Dawood Abrahim kind of dons till now.
Neither are able to punish Kasaab,or other related terrorists,and like Afzal guru etc.
Demands for separate small states has lessen up except Tailangana which is long pending and others which pop up occasionally.If you go through my blog then I have written about Delhi and Rajasthan also.Bandhs and Big Andolon's which used to disrupt daily works has lessen up now.Sports,Cricket,IPL,Scams in it,art,culture..!!
Good to see Number of Scams,Corruption cases of big people came out/exposed but let see if it reached to the conclusion.And Related Bigwigs get punished and some loopholes get blocked or some alternative solution get framed/formed.
You all know what ever is written and what has came out as result.What laws and change in mindset is there as result.Whether its journalism,media,film,radio,fm,fiction,advertising,books,magazines,content,photography,art field,marketing,its commercial and social aspects,bussiness,CSR,PPP,NGO's,media... to be continued.
Privacy,Secracy,Transparency,history,memoirs,literature,stardust kind of gossips-its relevance and it, as a reality of life...its impact on us and on common people's mind etc,relationship of people in family,friends,knowns and unknowns,horror,UFO's,Jaddu,supertitions,Jyotish,LGBT,....and our journey about everything towards "balanced thinkings and mindsets" and "balanced News,views and Reports on the basis of authentic sources and proofs...and its lakshman rekha or parameter"...won't talk about foreign policies or economic policies,recession etc!!!
....!!!You tell us what more????....
Posted by vibha tailang at 8:23 AM 0 comments
WHEN HUNUMANJI HAS FORGOTTEN HIS INNER HIDDEN "POWER",
HE WAS REMINDED BY RAMJI AND LAKSHMANJI,
WHICH RESULTED IN "SAMUDRALANGHAN",
AND "ASHOVATIKA MEIN VRIKKSHON SE FAALBHAKSHAAN,AUR "LANKA DHAHAN"....!!!
PEOPLE NEED TO KNOW THEIR "HIDDEN TALENT AND POWER",
THEY CAN CONVERT IMPOSSIBLE INTO POSSIBLE,
BUT UNKNOWINGLY WHAT GOOD OR NOT SO GOOD ONE DOES,
NEED NOT BE CONSIDERED WRONG OR DISCREDIT,
TILL ITS PROVEN OR GIVEN CREDIT TO,
ITS PEOPLE AROUND THEM NEED TO TELL,
WHAT EXTRAORDINARY QUALITIES THAT PERSON/KID POSSES!!!
OTHERWISE EVEN "ERROR OF JUDGEMENT" WILL ALSO GO ON...!!!
"PATA HI NAHIN THA...MERI BATEIN AAP TAK PAHUNCH RAHIN HEIN,"
YA KIISSI MEIN BHI KOI KHAS CREATIVE GUUN HAI"
VIBHA TAILANG
Posted by vibha tailang at 6:51 PM 0 comments
I AM LISTENING SOMEONE ON TV,
WELL LIKE TO SAY,EVEN SIMPLE GRADUATES
CAN BE GOOD IN PROFESSIONAL WORK
BY OBSERVING AND LEARNING,BY LISTENING AND READING
BY WORKING AND EXPERIENCING,BY INNOVATIVENESS OF SELF CREATED IDEAS
BY OWN NATURAL TALENT AND VISION....SO PLZ DON'T UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE
LET THEM WORK,FAIL AND PASS,FALL AND GROW,
GIVE THEM CHANCE TO LIVE AND CONTRIBUTE CONSTRUCTIVLY!!!
VBHA TAILANG
Posted by vibha tailang at 9:12 AM 0 comments
Monday, March 7, 2011
TO SPECIALIZED IN A WORK ONE NEED TO FOCUS IN A PARTIICULAR FIELD OR SUBJECT
TO CREATE A IMAGE OF A PERSON'S PERSONALITY OR A PRODUCT
ADMEN FOLLOW THEM RELIGIOUSLY AND AGRESSIVILY TO DO SO,
THAT'S THEIR STRATEGY FOR AD CAMPAIGN AND RULES OF ADVERTISEMENT BRAND MAKING.
BUT "SOMEHOW" I FEEL,IF I AM NOT "IGNORED"
(AS I AM A FREELANCE WRITER NOW)
....AND IF REALLY POINTS SAID BY ME OR AROUND,GET HIGHLIGHTED....THEN,
IT WILL BE DIFFICULT TO FOLLOW ONLY,ONE PERSON,ONE NUMBER OR ONLY ONE ISSUE FOREVER,
WHAT MAKERS/CREATERS DOES, WHOM AND WHAT THEY FOLLOW,ITS THEIR CHOICE,
BUT, LETS SEE HOW THINGS WILL TURN OUT IN THE FUTURE!!!
Posted by vibha tailang at 6:07 PM 0 comments
IN SO MANY YEARS AS TIME PASSES ON,PEOPLE EVOLVES
HIS/HER THINKING CHANGES,SO AS OTHERS ABOUT THEM/YOU.
MUST FOLLOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT SELF,
BUT MUST RESPECT WHAT YOU GIVE CHOICE TO OTHERS TO THINK ABOUT YOU???
AS PEOPLE THINK WHATEVER KNOWLEDGE,UNDERSTANING,INTENTIONS,PREJUDICES
THEY HAVE ABOUT ISSUES,PERSONS AND SITUATIONS!!!
AND MUST EVOLVE,OR CHANGE WHERE EVER IT NEEDED!!!
GOOD WISHES!!!
VIBHA TAILANG
Posted by vibha tailang at 6:04 PM 0 comments
Thursday, March 3, 2011
Today Sudhirji told me you usually write what bad was said...not about good
things...what anyone told about you.
I was trying to correct(and not whitewash) things/parivartan in vatavaran and mindsets VOLUNATARIALLY!!!
--- as till you don't have big bank balance or inherited or created Big properties,or you are not in a big post,has power to implement or officially what you do go "on record" and get added in your "biodata" as well...How you proclaimed to be a BIG AND POWERFULL PERSON. Though I do feel a person who has people's support is as POWERFUL AS ANY OTHER "POWERFUL"PERSON!!!
.... while creating Aditi(uday of her generation as I had written that I am watching with her and her camera's eyes.Other then talking and chatting with her generation friends as well..But has written about few things like--
By watching ...TV,NEWPAPERS,INTERNET,BOOKS ETC...AVAILABLE AT HOME AS TILL NOW I WAS IN "HYBERNATION-AS PEOPLE SAY",THOUGH HAS DONE SOME GROUND WORK ON FIELD.HAD DONE AS PRINT/TV JOURNALIST ALSO.HAS DONE SOCIAL WORK VOLUNTARILY IN SO MANY(46YRS) YEARS.SO,MAYBE I DO NOT HAVE MASTER'S DEGREE IN ANY SUBJECT LIKE OTHER MEMBERS OF MY FAMILY'S OF MY GENERATION.AS I AM A GRADUATE.BUT HAS KNOWLEDGE AND EXPERIENCE.AND HAS NOT ANY CORRUPTION,CRIME,OR UNLAWFULL CHARGES.
I HAD SAID ONCE THAT NO COMMERCIAL ACTIVITIES ARE HAPPENNING HERE TO ESTABLISH WE ARE UPRIGHT PEOPLE...AS WE DO WORK FROM HOME,AS MOST OF THE PEOPLE HAS OFFICE OR LIBRARY INSIDE THEIR RESIDENC AND COMPUTER,INTERNET,SCANNER,PRINTER...FAX ETC...SO THAT ONE CAN EMAIL,PEOPLE DO COME AT TIMES FOR OFFICIAL MEETINGS,BUT THAT'S INDIVIDUAL WORK...OR WE TAKE DECISIONS TOGETHER...BUT ITS NOT FUNCTIONING AS A COMMERCIAL OFFICE OR DUKAAN.THOUGH TILL NOW AF'S OFFICIAL ADDRESS AND STUDIO ANIMATION'S POSTAL ADDRESS ARE OUR RESIDENTIAL ADDRESS ONLY.
NEITHER WE HAVE DONE BIG 'KABZA'S' OF PROPERTIES.LITTLE ENCROACHMENT OF 2 SMALL ROOMS BY COVERING BALCONIES...IN OUR AREA AND PARAMETER OF PLOT SIZE.IF PEOPLE THINK ITS WRONG AND CORRUPTION THEN,ONE IS READY TO CORRECT IT.
OUR INCOME TAX RETURNS ARE APPROPRIATE.WE DON'T BELIEVE IN GIVE AND TAKE OF BIG GIFTS.MORE OFTEN IT IS (USUALLY BOOKS/CARICATURES/CARTOONS/) OR MONEY AS SHAGUN IN B'DAY,ANNIVERSARIES OR ON ANY SUCH OCCASIONS OR CELEBRATIONS...MORE THEN SPECTRUM OF CLOSE FAMILY AND FRIENDS.I PERSONALLY DON'T GO BEYOND TOKEN GIFTS.
BUT DO THINK ADITI FOUNDATION IS ELIGIBLE FOR A NEW BEGINNING OR MAY BE WHERE WE LEFT IT.IT WAS REGD.IN FIRST WEEK OF 2008 SEPT.,BUT HAS NOT DONE MANY WORK PRACTICALLY ON FIELD. BUT BY NOW WE EMPHASISED - MORE ON PAPERWORK AND RESEARCH WORK AND HAS DONE IT.ITS A BEGINNING OF AF'S AND ADITI'S CAREER ALONG.I HAVE SUDHIRJI'S SUPPORT THOUGH AT TIMES OUR VIEWS AND IDEAS DO DIFFER.WELL WE DO LIVE DEMOCRATICALLY.ONE CAN GAIN THEIR OWN CREDIBILITY BY WORKING ON FIELD ONLY AND GROW ALL ROUNDEDLY, PERSONALLY AND WITH FAMILY AS WELL.FIRST I NEED TO MAKE MY OWN CREDIBILITY.SUDHIRJI HAS.THOUGH I THINK I HARDLY SPEAK A LIE.ONE CAN GET 'DIPLOMATIC' AT TIMES.OR MAYBE DON'T WANT TO TALK ABOUT SELF BEFORE RIGHT TIME COMES IN HER/HIS PERSPECTIVE.(AS WE SEE- HOW 'NAMES' ARE GETTING HIGHLIGHTED.FOR EXAMPLE,I DON'T EVEN MET ARNAB,OR RECENTLY MET SHRAVANJI FIRST TIME, THOUGH HAD TALKED TO HIM FEW TIMES EARLIER.THOUGH THEY ALL KNOW SUDHIRJI....BUT THESE STORIES CONTENT,SPECIALLY DIALOUGES DO REFLECT OUR WORDS...INFACT IN BETTER WAY OR WHATEVER WAY...TAILANG FAMILY IS NEVER OUT OF FOCUS OR SPOTLIGHT,THAT'S WHY OUR RESPONSIBILITIES INCREASES.AND I THINK I NEVER RAN AWAY FROM IT)
SUDHIRJI HAS SELF IMPOSED DISCIPLINE IN HIS NATURE.ONLY PERSON IN OUR FAMILY WHO IS CONSTANT AND CONSISTENT AS A JOURNALIST/CARTOONIST(THOUGH NO ONE HAS DONE JOURNALISN COURSE PROFESSIONALLY)...THOUGH HE HAS TOUCHED ALL DIMENSIONS OF CARTOONING.I HAVE WRITTEN ABOUT HIM IN THIS BLOG MANY TIMES IN SOME OR OTHER CONTEXT.HE DO HAVE FANFARES,IS MUCH RESPECTED AND IS A CELEBRATED PERSON.I THINK PEOPLE AROUND HIM KNOW HIS QUALITIES,QUALIFICATIONS,AND CHARMING BUT RESERVE NATURE.IF HE FEELS FOR SOME REASON HE HAS BECOME 'ABHISHAAPT' OR 'UNLUCKY',AS HIS WIFE IS NOT NORMAL PERSON...THEN GOD BLESS HIM.I WOULD LIKE TO MAKE MY QUALITIES MORE EVIDENT NOW.NEED CONSTRUCTIVE IMAGE...AND CONSTANTLY ONE NEED TO WORK BUT CAN'T SAY ABOUT OTHERS INTERFERENCES!!!
I THINK ONE MORE POINT NEED TO BE CLEARED IS,I NEVER RAN AWAY FROM MY RESPONSIBILITIES.WHEN I TOOK 15DAYS OFF FROM SAHARA OFFICE IN JAN 2001,I WAS UNWELL.THIS IS TRUE THAT "BHARAT UTSAV CELEBRATION WAS GOING ON IN LUCKHNOW THOSE DAYS,AND NO ONE WAS ALLOWED TO TAKE LEAVE,BUT I TOOK IT AS I NEEDED IT.THEN I HAD SENT APPLICATION BY FAX AND HAD ITS FAX REPORT ALSO.THOUGH A NOTICE CAME TO MY HOME,SAYING I HAD NOT INFORMED THE OFFICE ABOUT MY LEAVE.LATER ON I TOOK MEDICAL REPORT AND SUBMITTED IT.EVEN GM PERSONEL AGREED THAT HE RECIEVED MY FAX.CAN'T SAY WHO PLAYED MISCHIEF IN BETWEEN.I LEFT/RESIGNED/SACKED/KICKED OFF(WHATEVER ONE SAY....EVEN GETTING/FELT INSULTED CAN BECOME REASON FOR LEAVING WORK...OR GIVING PRIORITY TO OWN FAMILY CAN BECOME REASON TO DO SO) WORKING ON 25TH FEB 2001.
BEEN TO BIHAR AFTER 2 DAYS OF ADITI'S FINAL EXAMS GOT OVER THEN,IN THE LAST WEEK OF MARCH FOR 15 DAYS.AND WERE THERE WITH MY FAMILY IN BHAGALPUR,BEGUSARAI,MOKAMA MADHUBANI AND NEPAL(PARENTS AND SISTER'S FAMILY).
PLZ IF YOU'LL THINK "MEIN GALATIYAN,PE GALATIYAN KARTI HOON" "YA EK NE SARA MAHAUL KHRAAB KAR RAKHHA HEI TOO SAAB AAPNA BHI AATMAVLOKAN KARAIN,AUR AATMMANTHAN KAREIN...KAHAN WOH GALAAT HEIN....AUR MERI BAATON KA KHAYAL NA KAREIN/IGNORE KAREIN/MUJHE MERI TARAH SE JEENE DEIN AUR KOOCCH AAPEKSHA NA KAREIN.MEIN AAPNI TARAF SE HUMESHA PRAYAASRAT HOON KI KOI GALAT KANOON NA BANE YA AANARATH NA HO.LEKIN MERE KAAM MEIN GALAT DHUNG SE DHAKHALANDAZI KER KI(SHAYAD BATON KO THIK SE SAMAJH NAHIN PAYE HONE YA AAPNE HISAAB SE SAMAJHNA CHAHTEIN HONGE)... MERE IRD-GIRD KE LOG YA AAP SAAB NE KITNA YOGDAAN DIYA HAI,ISSKE BAREIN MEIN BHI SOOCHEIN,TAKI YEH DOOBARA NA HO!!!!!WAISE BAHOOT BAHOOT DHANYAWAAD KI KAI VARSHON SE JO BATEIN SAAF NAHIN HO PAAA RAHIN THEEN,UMEED HAI AAB SAAF HO GAYEE HOGI,AUR AARTH KA AANAARTH NAHIN HOGO!!!....VIBHA TAILANG)
Well coming to the point...no religious danga's after Godhra though akshaardham terrorist attack happened afterwards.
no terrorists attack post Mumbai.other such big incidents we haven't heard about in even J and K.or North East.
no warlike attack after Kargil.
CrossBorder Terrorism Lessen.We are heading towards peace or warlike situation????
"Bhagva Terror" ki kucch khabrein thii woh bhi aajkal nahin hein.Pragyaji kahan gayeen kucch pata nahin.
this year cases of beating up of youth's on valentine day has also registered less.
so as "honour killing cases" must have reduced.As it was not shown much in last few months which shows some thinking,pondering before such henious crimes.So as discussion shown on Tv shows reflects much maturer comments by youth and kids on all kind of issues.Which means little openness made them think about all kind of good and bad aspects of life. one can check the record to see if what i write is correct factually or not!!!
even naxalism is more or less is in controll now.
Big incidents of Railway accidents,explosions on tracks has much less now.
Aircrafts accidents,hijacks lessen in number.
Farmers suicides either lessen up or news channels are not noticing it.
Kidnappings,rapes,supari/contract killings,...such big incidents or names related to underworld dons has lessened though we couldn't able to punish Dawood Abrahim kind of dons till now.
Neither are able to punish Kasaab,or other related terrorists,and like Afzal guru etc.
Demands for separate small states has lessen up except Tailangana which is long pending and others which pop up occasionally.If you go through my blog then I have written about Delhi and Rajasthan also.Bandhs and Big Andolon's which used to disrupt daily works has lessen up now.Sports,Cricket,IPL,Scams in it,art,culture..!!
Good to see Number of Scams,Corruption cases of big people came out/exposed but let see if it reached to the conclusion.And Related Bigwigs get punished and some loopholes get blocked or some alternative solution get framed/formed.
You all know what ever is written and what has came out as result.What laws and change in mindset is there as result.Whether its journalism,media,film,radio,fm,fiction,advertising,books,magazines,content,photography,art field,marketing,its commercial and social aspects,bussiness,CSR,PPP,NGO's,media... to be continued.
Privacy,Secracy,Transparency,history,memoirs,literature,stardust kind of gossips-its relevance and it, as a reality of life...its impact on us and on common people's mind etc,relationship of people in family,friends,knowns and unknowns,horror,UFO's,Jaddu,supertitions,Jyotish,LGBT,....and our journey about everything towards "balanced thinkings and mindsets" and "balanced News,views and Reports on the basis of authentic sources and proofs...and its lakshman rekha or parameter"...won't talk about foreign policies or economic policies,recession etc!!!
....!!!You tell us what more????....
Posted by vibha tailang at 8:23 AM 0 comments
Thursday, March 3, 2011
mahila/Nariii ke kuch roop....!!!
Hur Pariwaar mein-Ma ka mamatav,seva bhav, aashirwaad,duayein aur sneh chamatkari hota hai.
Betiyon ka pariwarprem,sneh,ladiyaana aur saab ka khayaal rakhna bav vihaval karta hai.
Behenein mahatvakankshi ho sakti haein,aagar kucch baada karna chahein toooo.
Woh Madadgaar hotin hein pariwaarjanon ke duukh daard mein.
Bhabhi/Bahu hamesha buddhu(dumb) ya badmaash(manupulative) nahin hotin,
aagar woh kucch karna/banna- chahe to usse bhi sahyog pariwar/family ka milna chahiye,
kyonki woh bhi pariwaar ka hi hissa hoti hein aur pariwaarjanon ka hiit hi chahti hein.
Aur bacchon ke bade ho jane ke baad 'free' ho kar,
aagaar koi doosri paree khelnaa chahhe toooo usse pariwaar ka sahyog milna chahiye.
VIBHA TAILANG
(8/3/11)..MAHILA DIWAS KO SAMARPIT)
Betiyon ka pariwarprem,sneh,ladiyaana aur saab ka khayaal rakhna bav vihaval karta hai.
Behenein mahatvakankshi ho sakti haein,aagar kucch baada karna chahein toooo.
Woh Madadgaar hotin hein pariwaarjanon ke duukh daard mein.
Bhabhi/Bahu hamesha buddhu(dumb) ya badmaash(manupulative) nahin hotin,
aagar woh kucch karna/banna- chahe to usse bhi sahyog pariwar/family ka milna chahiye,
kyonki woh bhi pariwaar ka hi hissa hoti hein aur pariwaarjanon ka hiit hi chahti hein.
Aur bacchon ke bade ho jane ke baad 'free' ho kar,
aagaar koi doosri paree khelnaa chahhe toooo usse pariwaar ka sahyog milna chahiye.
VIBHA TAILANG
(8/3/11)..MAHILA DIWAS KO SAMARPIT)
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