AT TIMES WHAT YOU FEEL IS "AN INSULT TO YOU GIVES STRENGTH AND THIS DETERMINATION TO YOU" TO DO WELL AND WIN EVERYONE'S HEART WITH YOUR ACTION,YOUR INTELLIGENCE AND PERSONALITY.PATIENCE DO COUNT SO AS DIFFERENT SHADES OF YOUR PERSONALITY.AT TIMES IF YOU FEEL YOUR ACTION IS NOT FRUITFUL,BUT IT CAN FOR OTHERS, AS THEY GET INSPIRED.

FOR EXAMPLE---

FEW DAYS BACK I WENT FOR A 'WALK IN INTERVIEW' FOR FIRST TIME IN MY LIFE--IN A GOVERNMENT OFFICE UNKNOWINGLY THAT I DON'T QUALIFY FOR THAT POST(consultant/salary 50,000+)...AS I DID HAD EXPERIENCE(AGE LIMIT WAS 65..PEOPLE ABOVE 60 WERE ALSO THERE)BUT THEY NEEDED PG IN JOURNALISM AND JUST 1 OR 2 YEARS EXPERIENCE.

ITS INTERESTING TO KNOW, HOW FOR 15 SEATS(DIFFERENT STREAMS) 1000 OF APPLICATANTS/UNEMPLOYED WERE THERE,INCLUDING INTERVIEWEES FROM 'OUT OF STATION'.

BUSY TRYING TO MAKE OTHERS FEEL,I AM BETTER CANDIDATE,SO YOU LEAVE!!!

SO THAT'S COMPETITIVENESS AND SURVIVAL FOR THE FITTEST!!!

...IF THERE IS NO PULL N PUSH???

GOOD THAT IN PRIVATE SECTOR,IF YOU HAVE INNOVATIVENESS IN IDEAS(DEPENDS ON NATURE OF WORK)...WHETHER,YOU HAVE LITTLE LESS DEGREES OR EXPERIENCES...YOU CAN GIVEN A CHANCE!!!

...BUT AS NO BUSSINESSMEN PUT RISK IN VAIN...ONE HAVE TO WORK HARD TO PROVE HIS/HER QUALITIES/ABILITIES AT THE BEST.AS NO POST IS PARMANENT THERE, AS IT IS IN GOVERNMENT OFFICES,OR P.S.U'S WHERE,IF ONE GET INTO JOB ONCE,WILL ONLY COMEOUT AFTER RETIREMENT!!!

WELL...HUR SEEKKKE KE DOO PAHLOO HOTEEI HEIN!!!

...SO ITS GOOD TO HAVE PROFESSIONAL DEGREES AND TRAININGS

(BUT EVEN GRADUATES AND VOCATIONAL TRAINED PEOPLE NEED CHANCES),

EXPERIENCES

(NEW BEGINNERS ALSO NEED CHANCES),

TALENT AND INNOVATIVENESS....AND LEADERSHIP QUALITIES

(GOOD TO BE AN ENTERPRENEUR IN WHICHEVER SECTOR AS WELL,... AS ONE NEED TO CREATE THEIR OWN SPACE ALSO)!!!

COMING TO THE POINT...WHEN 3 PANEL COULD HAVE SHORTLISTED THEIR NAMES AND COULD HAVE TAKEN INTERVIEWS IN 3ROOMS SIMULTANEOUSLY,THEY TOOK IT IN 3DAYS BY QNE PANEL OF FEW INTERVIEWERS.

PEOPLE WERE FRUSTRATED BY ARRANGEMENTS AND LACK OF FACILITIES OF IT.CREEBBING ABOUT IT,SAYING PRIVATE OFFICES HAS MUCH MORE ACCOUNTABILITY,EFFICIENCY AND PROFESSIONALISM.THUS I SPOKE IN THE FAVOUR OF SARKARI OFFICES THERE.

THEY WERE IN QUITE CORPORATE 'AANDAAZ', AS IT WAS FOR 'WATER BORNE DISEASES IN 'PRIVATE-PUBLIC-PARTENERSHIP MODEL' FOR DELHI GOVERNMENT.

ANYWAY,I CAME BACK.I TOLD MY DAUGHTER HOW I WENT THERE,HAD EXPERIENCE OF HEARING PEOPLE,AS THAT'S HOW YOU COME TO KNOW THE PULSE/NABZ OF "AAM JANTA".

COULDN'T TECHNICALLY QUALIFIED FOR IT(AS I WAS NOT A PG IN JOURNALISM,AS NEEDED...BUT HAS EXPERIENCES OF 20YRS OF PRINT/TV/DOCUMENTARY MAKING/WRITING...AND DO HAVE EXPERIENCES OF VOLOUNTEERALY DONE SOCIAL WORK ALSO...NOW HAS AN NGO-since sept 2008,AND ITS WEBSITE-aditifoundation.co.in WHICH "CONCEPT,CONTENT AND DESIGN" IS PREPARED BY ME SOLELY!!!...AND NOW IT'S ONE MORE INITIATIVE---AAWAAZ.ADITIFOUNDATION.CO.IN)...SO I WAS BACK!!!

...THOUGH MANY PEOPLE(THERE) TOLD ME, I'LL GET THROUGH(ONLY ONE SEAT WAS THERE), AS PANEL WERE ASKING MOST OF THE QUESTIONS ABOUT/RELATED TO.... "MEDIA/JOURNALISM/P.R.O"!!!ABOUT...WHICH 'I KNEW' MORE THAN THOSE MANAGEMENT/DOCTOR'S/SOCIALWORKER/ DEGREED...CANDIDATES!!!

WELL!!! RIGHT N DESERVING PERSON NEED TO QUALIFY!!!

I TOLD THIS TO MY NEPHEW BITTOO@SAURABH ALSO,FILLED MY BIODATA IN NAUKARI.COM IN WEB WITH MY NEPHEW'S BIODATA,SAYING YOU ALSO DO IT!!!...LATER ON SEND(FORWARDED) HIM ONE MSG REGARDING JOB WITH LAWYERS QUALIFICATIONS....!!!

FEW DAYS LATER HE TOLD ME, HE GOT MANY MAILS FOR JOB,WENT FOR "WALK IN INTERVIEWS" FOR "CONFIDENCE BUILDING" AND JUDGING HIS OWN "PUBLIC SPEAKING ABILITY",AND TO GET "AN IDEA OF HIS FIELD"!!!

....HE GOT THE GOOD JOB IMMEDIATLY-IN 2ND ATTEMPT!!!...CALLED ME BACK SAYING -"I HAVE NOT DONE LAW SO DIDN'T WENT FOR INTERVIEW...WHAT YOU MSGED.

(GOOD HE IS NOT A LAWYER LIKE SHAHRUKH OF "DEVDAAS",HE UNDERSTOOD).

BUT GOT THE WORK OF HIS CHOICE(HE IS M.C.A...) AND SUBJECT OF INTEREST AND HAD QUALIFICATIONS.HE IS DOING WELL.

THAT TIME I HAD MAILED ADITI'S BIO DATA ALSO.SHE DIDN'T ENTERTAINED IT AS IT WAS NOT OF HER CHOICE,BUT TRIED IN 'INDIAN EXPRESS'NEWSPAPER THROUGH HER FRIEND,WITHOUT USING HER FATHER'S APPROACH(SHE IS LUCKY AND PREVILEDGED TO HAVE WELL CONNECTED FATHER AND OTHER RELATIVES IN FAMILY,WHO CAN GUIDE HER IN SUBJECTS OF HER CHOICE!!!)

...THOUGH EVERYONE KNEW ABOUT HER,BECAUSE OF HER SIRNAME AND ITS HER OWN FRIENDS CIRCLE.AFTER TRAINING, HER BOSS RECOMMENDED HER NAME FURTHER IN 'INDIA TODAY' AND 'TIMEOUT' MAGAZINES AS SHE HAD SAID-"WANTS TO DO FEATURES AND NOT THE NEWS."

SHE MAILED HER BIODATA.GOT INTERVIEW CALL...FACED IT,SHOWN HER 'PORTFOLIO'.'TIMEOUT' HAD VACANCIES SO SHE GOT THROUGH!!!

...HER PREVIOUS BOSS HAD PRAISED HER AND HER WORK,AND OFCOURSE SHE HAS GOT AN APPRECIATION LETTER AS WELL, OFFICIALLY.

SHE ALWAYS GET GUIDANCE FROM SUDHIRJI, BUT HAS BECOME QUITE INDEPENDENT WITH TIME FLYING AWAY.

BUT HAD-- DO REALISED,ONE CAN FAIL OR PASS,GET PRAISED OR CRITICISED AT TIMES.ONE NEED TO BE READY TO FACE AND TACKLE EVERY/ALL KIND OF SITUATIONS AND PEOPLE,WITHOUT GETTING "STUCK INTO IT"!!

GOOD WISHES TO BOTH/EVERYONE!!!...AND SPECIALLY ALL OF THEIR GENERATIONS!!!

PEOPLE CONSTANTLY ASKED ME ONE QUESTION "AM I FROM RAJASTHAN???---YES! I AM,AS IT IS MY SASURAL(BIKANER...TAILANG FAMILY).AND SAME WAY SUDHIRJI IS DAMAAD OF BIHAR SO HE DO BELONG TO THAT STATE AND TO CHOUDHARY FAMILY!!!

....THOUGH MOST IMPORTANT FACTOR FOR US IS- WE ARE INDIANS!!!

AND ONE MORE THING IS---"SIR" N "MADAM" WORDS ARE USED WITH RESPECT TO SENIOURS IN PUBLIC LIFE OR ANYWHERE,ITS AN ETTIQUETTE.

IN THE OFFICES ALSO,SENIORS ARE 'SIR' N 'MADAM'.

IN SCHOOLS/COLLEGES...GURU-TEACHERS ARE 'SIR' N 'MADAM'!!!

....ITS GOOD TO HAVE SUCH "TITLES" IN GENERAL LIFE!!!"